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The Secret to a Successful Date

The Secret to a Successful Date

I want to get your take on something… Who is responsible for the success of a date? He is. You are. You’re both equally responsible. Got your answer? It...

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14 Days to Becoming Irresistible

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How to Build Happy Memories with Your Guy

How to Build Happy Memories with Your Guy

I have a friend who writes down happy memories on scraps of paper. She folds each one and keeps them all in a jar. When the jar is full, she sits down with a cup of coffee and reads the notes. It's such a simple thing, but it refreshes each memory in her mind. It...

Create Relational Balance

Create Relational Balance

It's no fun when you realize you're doing more for him than he's doing for you. He could give as much as you're giving in the relationship. It's not that he can't. It just seems like he's not willing. And that's why it hurts. Sometimes our expectations for another...

One Relationship Risk You Should Take

One Relationship Risk You Should Take

Let's talk about the risks you take in your romantic life. I'll start with a quick story... Jill just finished a one-on-one review with her boss. She's venting to a friend in the break room. Her boss gave her some criticism. He said she's not "applying herself." But...

How He’ll Treat You Later

How He’ll Treat You Later

Have you ever wondered what your relationship will be like down the road? Over the course of time our true colors naturally show. But if you're watching for it, you can get a good picture of his character early on. Even during the first few dates. The secret is...

Is He Ignoring My Text?

Is He Ignoring My Text?

It's an annoyingly helpless feeling. You sent him a text message, and now you're waiting for the reply. Minutes tick by. Then half an hour. An hour, and still you're waiting. The longer you have to wait, the more anxious you feel. Is he snubbing you? Did he take your...

The Least Expected Thing

The Least Expected Thing

As a relationship coach, I've spent a great deal of time trying to figure out what creates romance. Romantic gestures come in all shapes and sizes. Little things like a bouquet of flowers, and big things like a surprise proposal. But almost every romantic gesture I...

Four Text Messages to Avoid

Four Text Messages to Avoid

Text messages are great. They allow for quick communication practically anywhere. When you're dating someone, they have the very real potential to help your relationship grow. But they can also hinder it. A lot of people rely on text messages to get something more...

Unlock His Desire to Be with You. Try This One Simple Idea Tonight

Unlock His Desire to Be with You. Try This One Simple Idea Tonight

You probably have a guy in mind right now. He's the reason you signed up to receive my emails, right? Well that makes me happy. Because I have a lot of valuable ideas to share with you. Starting with this one... I'm going to show you an easy way to unlock your natural...

Why Your Flirting Style Matters

Why Your Flirting Style Matters

Which style of flirting do you use most? Research at the University of Kansas with more than 10,000 people revealed five distinct flirting styles. It turns out the type of flirting you use can influence the types of relationships you end up in. Dr. Jeffrey Hall is the...

The Art of “Exclusive” Flirting

The Art of “Exclusive” Flirting

Do you know the difference between "broadcast" flirting and "exclusive" flirting? Broadcast flirting is on display for everyone to see. When a woman uses broadcast flirting, everyone around can see what she's up to. For example, it's broadcast flirting when Debbie...

Is Your Relationship Changing?

Is Your Relationship Changing?

Everything was going great. Karen was happy. Really happy. Her relationship with Doug was three months old. They'd enjoyed a thrilling, fun period of getting to know each other, and that's when the trouble started. "What's the problem?" a friend asked her. "Life," she...

How to win at love (no matter what)

How to win at love (no matter what)

Love is a paradox. Those who are clearly on a quest to be loved end up weakened by their efforts. Their hearts are always on their sleeves. They're dependent on others to make them feel whole. It's a desperate way to live. But those who give love away without agenda...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

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