Develop Irresistible Attraction
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Why Guys Play Hard to Get
You may not immediately look at a guy and think, “He’s playing hard to get.” But guys play hard to get just as often as women do. Only it’s called...
Get Him to Notice You with the Reciprocity Principle
You’re at a social event. You spot an attractive guy across the room. What are the chances he’ll notice you? If there are only 10 other people there, the...
Should You Be Your True Self with Men?
How far would you be willing to go to meet someone? There seems to be two schools of thought. The first says that you should always be yourself, no...
The Urgency Principle Can Make Guys Choose You
You’re chatting with a gorgeous guy on Tinder. Not only is he super-hot, but he’s let you know in no uncertain terms how attractive he finds you. Without...
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Stop Underestimating Yourself
Sheryl Sandberg was a fraud. She was chief operating officer at Facebook. Forbes had named her the 5th most powerful woman in the world—even above former First Lady Michelle Obama. Yet she was plagued by the feeling that it had all been a big mistake. She knew she...
You Can Feel More Confident
You’re on a first date with someone you met online. You’re sitting across from him, talking and laughing, but part of you is on edge. You can’t relax. You haven’t been able to relax since you got into the car to drive here. You normally don’t worry what anyone thinks...
The Most Powerful Way to Hook a Man (And He’s Probably Using It on You!)
There’s this guy. He’s so exciting to be with. You always have the best time together. Even though you’re normally able to relax and be yourself around men, something about this guy makes you want to impress him. And because you get the feeling he isn’t impressed by...
Attraction that Leads to Trouble…
Think of the last guy you were attracted to. Someone you REALLY liked. Did being with this guy make you feel: Like you’d be happy forever if only he’d commit to you? But first you’ve got to show him how great you are and how great his life would be with you?...
Dressing to Attract Men
Is it better to be conventionally attractive… Or is it better to look interesting? I’ll tell you what I’ve noticed about the effect this has for women, but first, let me tell you about guys who have tested this idea. “Peacocking” is rooted in Mother Nature’s design...
3 Communication Secrets to Boost Conversation Quality
Bethany will never forget the last meal out she had with the man she thought she was going to marry. They’d gone to their favorite Mexican restaurant, the scene of so many happy times. They ate in silence. She asked him how work was. He grunted. She asked him if he...
What He Sees in You
How long does it take for a man to know if he’s attracted to you? He knows from the moment he sets eyes on you. In hard numbers, that’s 100 milliseconds. Researchers at Princeton found that we’re most accurate when it comes to making snap judgements about two traits:...
This Creates More Freedom in Your Life
Is there something you KNOW you need to do… But you just can’t seem to do it? I mean something like looking for a new job. Or organizing your photos. Or putting serious effort into dating. We often put off things we dread or things that aren’t urgent. That’s normal....
How Far Are You Willing to Go?
How far would you be willing to go to meet someone? There seems to be two schools of thought. The first says that you should always be yourself, no matter what. Don’t wear a lot of makeup, because if he doesn’t find the “real you” attractive, then he’s not...
Which is Better for Your Love Life: Being Cautious or Optimistic?
Scarlett and Aaron were going to have an amazing life together. She knew it in her bones. She’d never had a relationship this good. And she knew—even if Aaron didn’t—that he’d never had it this good, either. The problem was that he was pretending. Pretending he wasn’t...
The Mindset Makeover for Confidence
This article is about building your social confidence and optimism. So you might find this next sentence a bit strange. It’s common for Buddhist monks to meditate on death. Specifically, their own death. Why would they do that? Well, Buddhists seek enlightenment, a...
Social Skills Boot Camp
I like confident people. Especially when the source of their confidence is good social skills (rather than good looks, wealth, or accomplishments). Because, here’s the thing about a person who is socially adept… They can: make you feel good about yourself, help...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!