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5 Red Flags that Drive Great Men Away

5 Red Flags that Drive Great Men Away

You like him. But you don’t know what he thinks of you. You lie awake at night wondering: Does he like me? Does he find me attractive? Does he see me as relationship material? It’s so frustrating not to know! If you could get inside a man’s mind and read his thoughts,...

When Things Get “Emotionally Weird”

When Things Get “Emotionally Weird”

Meghan was enjoying her new companion. They had great conversations. He was so interesting. They shared a lot of the same opinions about the world. And he was so generous and thoughtful. He picked up pretty rocks for her, because he knew she collected them. He was...

No Second Date. Could This Be Why?

No Second Date. Could This Be Why?

This guy seems okay. You’re not sure about him, but he’s nice enough. The conversation was good. If he asked you, you’d probably see him again. But after you go home from your date, you check your phone… And nothing. Tomorrow … still nothing. He doesn’t contact you...

Are Your New Connections Fizzling Out Because of This?

Are Your New Connections Fizzling Out Because of This?

It’s so fun to text back and forth with someone new. You feel like you’re really getting to know each other. It’s SO much easier to flirt. You can type things you’d never say in person. You can ask your friends for ideas. You can even text him in your pajamas, no...

He Doesn’t Value You? The ONLY Way He’ll Change

He Doesn’t Value You? The ONLY Way He’ll Change

Imagine you’re playing a board game with this really cute, amazing guy. You can tell he really likes you, too. Eventually, you notice that every time you play this game with him, you end up winning. So you start paying closer attention to how he’s playing… And, sure...

When His Response to Plans Is, “Gotta wait and see.”

When His Response to Plans Is, “Gotta wait and see.”

You’re excited about your upcoming date with a guy you met online. You really enjoyed chatting with him. He seems to have his life together—great job, cool hobbies, even impeccable grammar! You agreed to do something the weekend after next. He said he’d nail down...

Find Out If You’re Compatible with Him

Find Out If You’re Compatible with Him

Dan Ariely doesn’t like online dating. The term is all wrong, he says. There’s no dating happening online. Instead, he jokes, they should call it “online searching and blurb writing.”[1] Not that Dan has searched for love online himself. He’s happily married with two...

Are Coffee Dates Boring?

Are Coffee Dates Boring?

Amelia wasn’t her usual positive self. Most of the time, when we talked about her dating life, she was optimistic that the time she was spending on dating apps would pay off. She’d been working on moving conversations offline. It was a big leap, but she’d wasted too...

Relationship Self-Defense

Relationship Self-Defense

Relationships are places where you can let down your guard and show your true self. Relationships are places where you can open your heart and let love in. But relationships are also places where you can be hurt... Where you can experience betrayal. That’s why you...

The Only 3 Types of Compatibility That Matter in Romance

The Only 3 Types of Compatibility That Matter in Romance

You THINK you’re compatible with him. You like the same things. You can hang out together and have fun. You have great conversations. But you do have your differences. Maybe he’s more introverted than you are. He doesn’t like to spend as much time with other people....

Appeal to His Inner Caveman

Appeal to His Inner Caveman

You spend so much time sifting through online dating profiles. You spend so much time exchanging messages, trying to be flirtatious, hoping it will go somewhere. You spend so much time vetting these guys, deciding whether you want to meet, working out the when and...

Stop the “Emotional Cascade” That Crushes Relationships

Stop the “Emotional Cascade” That Crushes Relationships

It can go downhill so fast. You’ve met someone you really like, you have a great time with him, and you appreciate the way he shows up on time and treats you like a queen. Then it starts. He shows up late. He says something rude to you and laughs it off. He blames you...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

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