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Am I Too Picky with Guys?

Am I Too Picky with Guys?

It’s one of the questions I get asked a lot: “Am I too picky with guys?” Have you ever wondered that? Are you worried you’ll run out of options if you keep...

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Dating and the Big 5 Personal Traits

Dating and the Big 5 Personal Traits

Carla found the romantic hero of her dreams. He was dark and brooding. He would show up unexpectedly and sweep her away on a surprise date, not telling her where they were going until they got there. Zachary had a quick temper, which Carla didn’t like, but he was also...

3 Online Dating Mistakes You Might Be Making

3 Online Dating Mistakes You Might Be Making

Amy Webb was failing at online dating. It’s not that she wasn’t a catch. She had been named in a shortlist of 5 women changing the world by Forbes. She had advised 3-star generals and the CEOs of some of the world’s largest companies. But maybe it wasn’t the best idea...

How Many Dates Does It Take to Know if You Like Him?

How Many Dates Does It Take to Know if You Like Him?

That first date is make or break. Either you feel a connection, or you don’t. But maybe your first dates have all been ending the same way… You’re just not feeling it with ANYONE. Sometimes you like the guy. But you’re not sure if there’s chemistry. Is it the guys...

Weird Online Dating Mysteries Answered

Weird Online Dating Mysteries Answered

Ever wondered about some of the more curious aspects of online dating? Like why some men write mini-essays to you while others make do with, “Waz up, babe?” Or why some men come off as jerks from the get-go, despite the fact they’re supposed to be trying to win you...

You Don’t Know Him as Well as You Think You Do

You Don’t Know Him as Well as You Think You Do

You can tell what he’s thinking, even when he doesn’t say a word. You can finish each other’s sentences. You’re in tune with him like no one else. That is sometimes what true love feels like… Knowing each other so well that words aren’t necessary. But if this is true,...

The Art of Asking Great First Date Questions

The Art of Asking Great First Date Questions

There’s nothing worse than making all the effort to get dressed up and go out… Only to sit across the table from someone who can’t carry on a conversation. You’re the one asking the questions. You’re the one filling in the silences. You’re the one carrying on a...

When He’s Slow To Text You Back

When He’s Slow To Text You Back

You sent him a text this morning. Nothing important. You were just checking in. But now it’s noon. You still haven’t heard from him. He should be off on his lunch break. Even if he was super-busy all morning, he always checks his phone at lunch. So you send another...

How to Spot (and Attract) a Genuine Romantic

How to Spot (and Attract) a Genuine Romantic

Karen wanted the whole shebang. A man she could stroll with along the city streets, window-shopping and ducking into cafés for hot chocolates and pastries. A man who’d present her with an elaborately wrapped gift box, containing a bracelet he knew she coveted but...

More Than Friends? When to Worry about Another Woman

More Than Friends? When to Worry about Another Woman

Alexis hoped she was overreacting. “He says they’re just friends, and I want to believe him,” she told me. “The problem is, I know women like her. They get close just because they can.” Alexis’ boyfriend Eric was a good guy. He was friendly, easy-going, and sociable....

The Secret to a Successful Date

The Secret to a Successful Date

I want to get your take on something… Who is responsible for the success of a date? He is. You are. You’re both equally responsible. Got your answer? It probably seems pretty obvious to you. But for me all three of those options hold a little truth. No matter which...

Snag Your Perfect Match Online With This One Easy Trick

Snag Your Perfect Match Online With This One Easy Trick

You wouldn’t feel sorry for Bella. Bella was attractive. The kind of attractive that looks great on camera. She had straight, sleek hair, a small nose, and full lips. She never had any problems buying clothes; everything fit her. But Bella had her own problems. She...

3 Tips to Blast Through Resistance and Claim the Love You Deserve

3 Tips to Blast Through Resistance and Claim the Love You Deserve

Quick, tell me 3 things you should be doing right now to find love. _______________ _______________ _______________ Did a few things spring to mind? Most of us know what we could or should be doing to live a better life. We have goals that matter to us, a rough idea...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy