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3 Ways to Stop Settling

3 Ways to Stop Settling

“How do I know there’s not someone else out there for me?” Amanda asked. “What if I end up with the wrong person because I didn’t hold out for someone...

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No Man Could Ever Fall For Me

No Man Could Ever Fall For Me

Linda was tired. She was in her mid-fifties and didn’t look like she used to. Her face, her hair, her twenty pounds of extra weight… made her wonder what any...

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Text with Confidence

Text with Confidence

You stare at your phone… And a cold feeling settles into your gut. You re-read his text again. Is he mad at you for something? Is this supposed to be funny?...

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His Texts Are So Confusing!

His Texts Are So Confusing!

You pick up your phone and see a text from a guy you really liked who ghosted you last year. Is it an apology? Nope. Is it an explanation? Nope. It’s a “hey”...

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14 Days to Becoming Irresistible

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Guys Want You to Tease Them

Guys Want You to Tease Them

When you go out on a date with someone new, what is your goal? To impress him. To get to know him. To ramp up the heat. To get playful. Now, we all hope that our date will be impressed by us. We all hope we’ll get to know our date better. We all hope that our date...

Make Better Decisions in Love

Make Better Decisions in Love

Do you make good decisions in love? Let’s find out! Question #1: You like a guy at work. Despite your best efforts to get him to ask you out, it’s clear that it’s up to you if you want anything to happen. There’s a 5% chance that he’s the love of your life. There’s a...

Are You Accidentally Telling Him It’s Casual?

Are You Accidentally Telling Him It’s Casual?

Naleda was a vibrant 22-year-old who oozed confidence. She made direct eye contact and shook my hand firmly. As she settled into a chair, I asked her why she’d come to see me. She froze. I could see her confidence drain away. She took a deep breath and confessed, “I...

The Secret Need That Drives Men

The Secret Need That Drives Men

Some of my clients tell me that they already know how to deal with men. “You’ve got to train a man like you train a dog,” they say. “Ignore his bad behavior and reward his good behavior.” It’s a common belief, but such a missed opportunity for connection. Treating a...

Try This If You’re Frustrated with Your Love Life

Try This If You’re Frustrated with Your Love Life

You have been working so hard. You’ve been pouring time and energy into finding the right guy, or making things work with this guy, or just being the best version of you so you’re ready when Mr. Right shows up. And sometimes a little voice whispers inside your head…...

Why He Gets Turned Off When You Show Too Much Interest

Why He Gets Turned Off When You Show Too Much Interest

If you met Kyla at a social event, you might see her as standoffish. It takes a lot before she lets down her guard or starts to smile. What you wouldn’t know is that this isn’t really who she is. Around her friends, Kyla is a different person. Silly, warm and caring....

Is He Bad at Texting or Just Not Interested?

Is He Bad at Texting or Just Not Interested?

He could at least text back. How long does it take? 30 seconds? When you get a text, you write back right away, unless you’re in the middle of something. And even then you make sure he knows you’re not ignoring him. You dash off an emoji, or you text back just as soon...

Text Message Connections Fizzling Out Early?

Text Message Connections Fizzling Out Early?

It’s so fun to text back and forth with someone new. You feel like you’re really getting to know each other. It’s SO much easier to flirt. You can type things you’d never say in person. You can ask your friends for ideas. You can even text him in your pajamas, no...

How To Love More Deeply

How To Love More Deeply

When you meet someone really cool… And you seem to have a connection, and he seems to like you back… It’s the best feeling in the world. You can’t stop smiling. You feel so happy. Your world, ordinarily so predictable, sparkles with hope and possibility. What if this...

A Subtle Persuasion Technique

A Subtle Persuasion Technique

You’ve arranged to meet several men you connected with online. The first guy talks about his life in a way that’s extremely impressive. He’s confident, and you like that. He talks about places he could take you. He talks about the interests you have in common. He...

He Only Wants Something Casual

He Only Wants Something Casual

This is not how it was supposed to turn out. You have spent so much time searching for a man who makes you feel like this. You thought you might never find him. And here he shows up in your life, bringing joy and laughter and fun and desire… Making you feel wanted…...

He Doesn’t Pay Attention to Me

He Doesn’t Pay Attention to Me

A few years back, I was at a picnic when an old friend of mine came and sat down next to me. “James!” she said, and gave me a huge hug. Annabeth had been a good friend of mine for a long time. I asked her how she was, and she caught me up on her life. Then she nudged...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy