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Is He Wasting Your Time?

Is He Wasting Your Time?

A relationship is a HUGE investment of time and energy. And you’re investing your heart. Why would you give your heart to someone who just wants to play...

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5 Body Language Signals You’re Probably Missing

5 Body Language Signals You’re Probably Missing

The benefits of being able to read body language are obvious: You know if he’s interested even if he’s not saying a word. You know if he’s NOT interested before wasting your time. And you probably already know these 5 basic signs to look for. Is his body facing...

Am I Too Picky with Guys?

Am I Too Picky with Guys?

It’s one of the questions I get asked a lot: “Am I too picky with guys?” Have you ever wondered that? Are you worried you’ll run out of options if you keep turning down guys who are interested? Do you wonder whether you’re turning away guys who could have made you...

How to Stop Being “Too Nice” to Men

How to Stop Being “Too Nice” to Men

Ellie knew what her problem was in dating: She was too nice. She kept exchanging messages even when she was no longer interested. She said yes every time a man asked her out, because she didn’t want to hurt his feelings. She had long conversations where she listened...

Dating and the Big 5 Personal Traits

Dating and the Big 5 Personal Traits

Carla found the romantic hero of her dreams. He was dark and brooding. He would show up unexpectedly and sweep her away on a surprise date, not telling her where they were going until they got there. Zachary had a quick temper, which Carla didn’t like, but he was also...

3 Online Dating Mistakes You Might Be Making

3 Online Dating Mistakes You Might Be Making

Amy Webb was failing at online dating. It’s not that she wasn’t a catch. She had been named in a shortlist of 5 women changing the world by Forbes. She had advised 3-star generals and the CEOs of some of the world’s largest companies. But maybe it wasn’t the best idea...

How Many Dates Does It Take to Know if You Like Him?

How Many Dates Does It Take to Know if You Like Him?

That first date is make or break. Either you feel a connection, or you don’t. But maybe your first dates have all been ending the same way… You’re just not feeling it with ANYONE. Sometimes you like the guy. But you’re not sure if there’s chemistry. Is it the guys...

Weird Online Dating Mysteries Answered

Weird Online Dating Mysteries Answered

Ever wondered about some of the more curious aspects of online dating? Like why some men write mini-essays to you while others make do with, “Waz up, babe?” Or why some men come off as jerks from the get-go, despite the fact they’re supposed to be trying to win you...

You Don’t Know Him as Well as You Think You Do

You Don’t Know Him as Well as You Think You Do

You can tell what he’s thinking, even when he doesn’t say a word. You can finish each other’s sentences. You’re in tune with him like no one else. That is sometimes what true love feels like… Knowing each other so well that words aren’t necessary. But if this is true,...

The Art of Asking Great First Date Questions

The Art of Asking Great First Date Questions

There’s nothing worse than making all the effort to get dressed up and go out… Only to sit across the table from someone who can’t carry on a conversation. You’re the one asking the questions. You’re the one filling in the silences. You’re the one carrying on a...

When He’s Slow To Text You Back

When He’s Slow To Text You Back

You sent him a text this morning. Nothing important. You were just checking in. But now it’s noon. You still haven’t heard from him. He should be off on his lunch break. Even if he was super-busy all morning, he always checks his phone at lunch. So you send another...

How to Spot (and Attract) a Genuine Romantic

How to Spot (and Attract) a Genuine Romantic

Karen wanted the whole shebang. A man she could stroll with along the city streets, window-shopping and ducking into cafés for hot chocolates and pastries. A man who’d present her with an elaborately wrapped gift box, containing a bracelet he knew she coveted but...

More Than Friends? When to Worry about Another Woman

More Than Friends? When to Worry about Another Woman

Alexis hoped she was overreacting. “He says they’re just friends, and I want to believe him,” she told me. “The problem is, I know women like her. They get close just because they can.” Alexis’ boyfriend Eric was a good guy. He was friendly, easy-going, and sociable....

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy