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The Promise Problem

The Promise Problem

Keira fell in love with him over coffee. They talked about what they wanted for the future. She loved the way he painted a picture of the life they’d have...

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Don’t Get Sucked Into The Spiral

Don’t Get Sucked Into The Spiral

If you turned the average relationship into a movie, this might be the plot... The Crush (Act 1) Two people meet. They’re excited to spend time together. They notice every delightful thing about each other. They’re at the beginning of a great adventure. They want to...

Is He Just Not That Into You? Or Is It Social Anxiety?

Is He Just Not That Into You? Or Is It Social Anxiety?

“I don’t get it, James,” Melanie said. “I thought we were really connecting. I was so excited about meeting up. But then it was like... he was a different person.” My heart went out to Melanie. When I’d seen her last week, she was brimming over with enthusiasm about...

Set Goals in Love

Set Goals in Love

Until recently, Jenna believed she could achieve anything she set her mind to. It worked in her career, after all. She set big goals. She accomplished them. But it wasn’t working in her personal life. All she wanted, she told me, was to find her future husband. It...

5 Things Men Are Insecure About (But Will Never Tell You)

5 Things Men Are Insecure About (But Will Never Tell You)

Men act so confident. They act like they know what they're doing. They don't have hang-ups about their body. They think they're a catch (even when they're not). But everything is not what it seems... Deep down, many men are insecure and uncertain. They’ve been told...

25 Love Questions to Ask Your Guy

25 Love Questions to Ask Your Guy

From the moment you met him, you were waiting for this. For him to look you in the eyes and say, “I want you to know that... “I love you.” As you hold his gaze, fighting back tears, feeling your heart swell in your chest, you can hear all the things he’s not saying:...

Ask Him These 5 Revealing Questions

Ask Him These 5 Revealing Questions

This could be the beginning of something wonderful. You really care about him. You want to be part of his life. But a few things he’s said bother you. He’s got some complicated issues in his life... And he doesn’t want you to become involved. You have a few...

When Sleeping Together Can Drive You Apart

When Sleeping Together Can Drive You Apart

Nearly two-thirds of couples spend most of the night apart. Does that horrify you? Or can you empathize completely? It’s long been believed that sleeping apart is a sign of trouble. But many couples credit a better night’s sleep to separate beds.[1] Is better sleep...

He Blocked Me – What Now?

He Blocked Me – What Now?

Things weren’t going great to begin with. Maybe you said something he disagreed with. Maybe you had a fight. Maybe he hadn’t been in contact and you just wanted to hear from him. You went to message him… And discovered you couldn’t. He’d blocked you. What do you do...

Should You Send That Text?

Should You Send That Text?

You’ve already sent him three texts. He hasn’t replied. You scroll back through your messages, wondering if you should send one more. Just something to jog his memory and remind him you’re still waiting for his reply—surely it couldn’t hurt? Love is full of moments...

Dating Dilemma: Are Your Standards Too High?

Dating Dilemma: Are Your Standards Too High?

Look around. Can you spot a single man you’d feel excited about dating? Even if you look on a dating app, it can be hard to muster much enthusiasm. Nearly 1 in 2 adults in the U.S. feel that dating has gotten harder in the last decade.[1] A whopping 3 in 4 singles say...

He Didn’t Do What He Promised

He Didn’t Do What He Promised

Men hate being wrong. It’s a stereotype, but it’s often the truth. Think of all the ways a man can mess up in a relationship. He can fail to buy the gift you really wanted for your birthday. He can fail to say what you really needed to hear when you were upset. He can...

5 Ways Men Express Love

5 Ways Men Express Love

For Victoria, getting an “I love you” from her partner was like getting blood from a turnip. She could count on one hand the number of times he’d said it. She said it to him all the time. She was always thinking of little ways to show she cared. Yet he just assumed...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

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