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Why Do So Many Guys Lie Online?

Why Do So Many Guys Lie Online?

It’s one of the worst parts about dating: The effort you put into guys who turn out to be time-wasters. You spend hours texting or chatting online, you talk...

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Why Men Pay for 1st Dates and Other Male Mysteries

Why Men Pay for 1st Dates and Other Male Mysteries

Ever wondered why men pay for first dates? Or why men keep talking to you, even when you’ve made it clear you’re not interested? Male behavior is full of mysteries. Like why men message you through an online dating site, when all they have to do is read your profile...

How to End a Date So He’ll Want to See You Again

How to End a Date So He’ll Want to See You Again

You had a great time. He was fun. You had tons to talk about. You laughed like crazy. The date stretched on for hours. You’re sure he likes you—and the feeling is mutual. But as you walk towards the parking lot together, you start to feel nervous. Goodbyes always make...

Why Is He Sending Suggestive Pictures—And How Can You Get Him to Stop?

Why Is He Sending Suggestive Pictures—And How Can You Get Him to Stop?

Charlene was annoyed. “All I get are guys sending me disgusting pictures,” she told me. “Don’t they get that I don’t want to see them naked? They’ve got a serious problem if they think a photo like that is going to turn a woman on.” “So there’s not a single guy who’s...

Your Ideal Partner Might Just Be A Psychologically Androgynous Man

Your Ideal Partner Might Just Be A Psychologically Androgynous Man

Brenda loved being with Kirk. He took charge. He arranged amazing dates, ordered her foods she’d never imagined trying, and gave her the courage to leave her comfort zone and follow his lead. She told me she’d never been with anyone so masculine. She was enjoying the...

3 Surprising Hacks to Ace a First Impression

3 Surprising Hacks to Ace a First Impression

It’s nerve-wracking enough to message someone online. But then to meet them in person? Terrifying! You can always put your best foot forward online. You can think about what you want to say before you type it. You can post that one photo (out of the dozens you took)...

2 Dating Strategies That Get You What You Want

2 Dating Strategies That Get You What You Want

Which dating strategy appeals most to you? Get lots of male attention by learning exactly what to do to make men notice you and want you.Find your future husband by leading with your most authentic, vulnerable self. Every woman needs a different strategy at different...

Flaky Behavior in Guys? My top Solution

Flaky Behavior in Guys? My top Solution

Think of the last guy who really flaked on you. What did he do? Didn’t text/call you back.Disappeared on you.Didn’t show up for a date. These days, it’s common for someone to vanish off the face of the earth, whether it’s ghosting (in which he disappears for good) or...

Brené Brown Wants You to Drop Your Armor

Brené Brown Wants You to Drop Your Armor

Brené Brown is everywhere. If you didn’t catch her TED talk or her appearance on Oprah’s SuperSoul conversations, you might have seen her recent Netflix documentary “The Call to Courage.” Even though she’s a shame and vulnerability researcher (which wouldn’t seem to...

The Power of a 6-Second Kiss

The Power of a 6-Second Kiss

New couples make out… Old couples give each other a peck on the cheek. The longer you’re together, the more habitual your kissing becomes. You don’t need to make out for hours when you’ve been sleeping in the same bed for years. You take each other’s physical presence...

3 Surprising First Date Conversation Tips

3 Surprising First Date Conversation Tips

You’re on a first date, and you really want to make it to a second date. Should you: (a) Talk about him, or (b) talk about yourself?(a) Ask lots of questions, or (b) not ask questions?(a) Play it cool, or (b) get excited? I’ll give you a clue. The answer is either all...

How Do You Know if You’re Compatible with Someone?

How Do You Know if You’re Compatible with Someone?

When I ran into my friend Kalia the other day, I was amazed at how relaxed and happy she looked. Her hair was styled in the same light brown bob as always, and she was casually dressed in jeans and a t-shirt, but she looked like she’d stepped straight off the plane...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy