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7 Love Strategies

7 Love Strategies

You want to be the best partner you can be. You want to show him how adored he is. You want to make him so happy he’ll want to be with you forever. How do you...

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5 Steps to Changing His Mind

5 Steps to Changing His Mind

Ever been in a situation where your guy just won’t budge? He’s convinced he’s got it all figured out. He won’t listen. It’s like hitting a brick wall. You turn to your friends for advice, and what do they say? “Reward him for doing it your way.” “Make him think it was...

He Won’t Put Effort In

He Won’t Put Effort In

For many young people, living in a dorm or a shared apartment is a rite of passage. You’re away from your parents for the first time, and it’s up to you to keep your living environment clean. Many of us also remember the frustration of having a roommate who didn’t do...

The Relationship “Golden Rule” Is Different

The Relationship “Golden Rule” Is Different

Leia was upset. “He knows how much I care about him, James!” she told me. “Before he left, I told him he could take all the time in the world. I would be here for him. I loved him, and I wasn’t going anywhere.” “And how did he respond?” I asked. From her pained...

From Casual to Committed: The Boring Paradox

From Casual to Committed: The Boring Paradox

Why do most new relationships fail? Because they can’t make it through the Crunch. The Crunch is the transition from having fun together to making a life together. Everyone wants to have fun. Having fun is innately rewarding. But making a life together is only fun...

What Men Won’t Tell You About Commitment

What Men Won’t Tell You About Commitment

When you love a man, you want a life with him. You want to commit to him. You want him to commit to you. And you don’t understand why he keeps avoiding discussions about the future. It’s clear that you’re good together. He’s clearly enjoying the relationship. You’ve...

Secrets of the Securely Attached

Secrets of the Securely Attached

If relationships were logical, it would be so much easier. You’d understand going in that most relationships don’t last. It wouldn’t hurt when things went wrong; you’d expect them to go wrong. Then you’d bust out your toolkit of strategies. If the relationship ended,...

Has He Fallen Out of Love With You? How to Know

Has He Fallen Out of Love With You? How to Know

Has this ever happened to you? You’re in what you think is a great relationship. You instantly connected with him. Soon he was saying all the beautiful things: he’s never met anyone like you, he wants to be with you, he thinks he’s falling for you. This is how love...

3 Ways to Spot a Love Avoidant Person

3 Ways to Spot a Love Avoidant Person

You’re with a man who acts like he doesn’t care about you half the time. Some of the time, he’s amazing. He’s passionate. He’s romantic. But then he pulls away. He barely sees you. He acts preoccupied. What’s going on? You may have fallen for a Love Avoidant. How It...

Will You Be Happy with Him?

Will You Be Happy with Him?

It’s the golden question. If scientists knew the answer to this question, it would change the romantic landscape for good. If scientists could figure out the answer, we’d have less divorce, fewer breakups, and more 50th wedding anniversaries. There’s a lot on the...

The Honeymoon Is Over – What Now?

The Honeymoon Is Over – What Now?

Sometimes men break off a new relationship for reasons that don’t seem fair. It doesn’t seem fun anymore. You want more than he can give. (You’re going to groan at this one.) You don’t think he’s perfect anymore. Now, to you, those reasons don’t seem very good. Of...

Why He Keeps Coming Back But Won’t Commit

Why He Keeps Coming Back But Won’t Commit

“It’s not you. It’s me.” “I’m worried I’m going to hurt you.” “You deserve someone better than me.” “I can’t give you what you need.” If you’ve been on the receiving end of those excuses, you know just how frustrating they are. Doesn’t he get it? You WANT to be with...

Relationship Crisis? Beware of the Danger Zone

Relationship Crisis? Beware of the Danger Zone

You’re panicking. If you don’t fix this, you’re going to lose him. He’s acting like a stranger. You’re still communicating, but you can feel the coldness. With every day that passes, you become more and more anxious. You’re no longer sleeping. You can barely keep your...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

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