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He Won’t Talk About Marriage

He Won’t Talk About Marriage

“I just can’t give anymore, James,” she told me. “I don’t know what to do.” Marissa had come to me with a request. She wanted to get married. She and her guy...

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Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

For as long as I’ve known Rachel, she’s wanted the same thing: A wonderful guy who treated her well and wanted to make a future with her. But the men in her...

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When Generosity Backfires

When Generosity Backfires

“Give more than you get.” It’s such a beautiful philosophy. It inspires generosity, selflessness, and a sense of abundance. But there’s one place where giving more than you get can backfire spectacularly: Uncommitted relationships. When you show a man how much you...

How to Spot Commitment-Minded Guys

How to Spot Commitment-Minded Guys

When Dora met her college boyfriend, they were instantly inseparable. She knew from the beginning that they’d be together forever. They talked about the future. Even their parents assumed they’d get married. But as graduation neared, her boyfriend began pulling away....

Bring Back the Spark in Your Relationship

Bring Back the Spark in Your Relationship

When Nia met Jamal, it was easily the best relationship she’d ever had. They had so much fun together. They had an incredible connection, and they could talk for hours. But now Nia and Jamal had been together for just over a year, and it wasn’t the same as before. In...

Romantic Things You May NOT Want to Say to Your Boyfriend

Romantic Things You May NOT Want to Say to Your Boyfriend

How would it feel to you if a man said... “I didn’t know what true love was until I met you.” “You are absolutely perfect to me.” “I can’t live without you.” “You are my dream come true.” It would feel wonderful, wouldn’t it? It would feel like a fairytale, or a scene...

3 Relationship Non-Negotiables

3 Relationship Non-Negotiables

When you meet a guy, the very first question you ask yourself is: “Do I like him?” If the answer is yes, the next question is: “Do I have fun with him?” And if you start dating, you’ll eventually ask yourself the question: “Could I be with him forever?” At each stage,...

3 Rules for Understanding Men

3 Rules for Understanding Men

Let’s test your man knowledge! True or false? Men are not as emotional as women.Men prioritize looks in the opposite sex.Men think about you-kn0w-what every 7 seconds. If you answered true to all three questions, you’re in good company. We all know that men and women...

Love Lessons of the Rich and Famous

Love Lessons of the Rich and Famous

“I found myself in relationships that ended in hurt no matter how hard I tried. I was always focused on one thing. I always tried to be the perfect girlfriend, the perfect wife. I felt like I was doing my best, so why weren’t things working out?”[1] Does that sound...

Make Him Change!

Make Him Change!

Natalia came into my office distraught. It was her boyfriend again. Nothing she said to him made a bit of difference. He was driving her crazy. I nodded as she listed off her complaints. He never listened to her. He never thought about her needs. He didn’t care about...

The 6th Love Language

The 6th Love Language

Kylie didn’t understand what went wrong. It was all going so well. Chase was funny and cute and warm and shy, and she loved spending time with him. She did all of her “good girlfriend” tricks. She surprised him with special food. She texted him every morning so he’d...

When He Won’t Grow Up

When He Won’t Grow Up

Many women ask me the question, “How can I make him grow up?” Many men are mature, respectful, and excellent at getting things done. Yet this immaturity thing is a more common complaint than you’d think. Women who ask me about this are struggling with boyfriends who...

Constructive Criticism to a Guy Who Overreacts?

Constructive Criticism to a Guy Who Overreacts?

Men don’t take criticism well. (That’s putting it lightly, right?) All you’re doing is trying to give him feedback… And he acts like you’ve attacked him. What’s worse, he acts that way even if you use “I” statements. You know the ones: “I feel X when you do Y.” He...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy