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Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
A Threat to Your Relationship?
“I am so mad, James.” Lauryn threw her purse onto the table and sat down with a sigh. “You know that great guy I’ve been bragging to you about? I think he’s...
5 Fun Relationship Tests
How do you know if he’s the one? Hint: the answer is NOT to take a 15-second TikTok challenge. Relationship tests have sprung up across social media,...
Look For This Sign You’re Meant to Be
What’s the clearest sign you’re meant to be with a guy? For many women, it’s how they feel about him. The stronger your love, the stronger your conviction...
7 Love Strategies
You want to be the best partner you can be. You want to show him how adored he is. You want to make him so happy he’ll want to be with you forever. How do you...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
I Dare You to Have This Conversation
Is everything going well with you and your guy? Great, even? Then it might be time to have A Talk. No, not that kind of talk! But rather a Relationship Check-in. It’s like a tune-up for your bond, making sure you’re still in sync. When you first started dating, you...
Great Relationships Include Safety
When you think about what makes a truly amazing relationship, what comes to mind? You might think of: Compatibility. The two of you are alike in the ways that count. Chemistry. You’re physically attracted to each other. Communication. You can talk about things....
5 Ways to Talk About Commitment (Without Talking About Commitment)
When you meet a man you really like, you don’t feel like keeping your options open. You want to be with him and only him. So you give him the best gift of all: Your complete and whole-hearted commitment. You keep your weekends open for him. You take down your dating...
5 Steps to Changing His Mind
Ever been in a situation where your guy just won’t budge? He’s convinced he’s got it all figured out. He won’t listen. It’s like hitting a brick wall. You turn to your friends for advice, and what do they say? “Reward him for doing it your way.” “Make him think it was...
He Won’t Put Effort In
For many young people, living in a dorm or a shared apartment is a rite of passage. You’re away from your parents for the first time, and it’s up to you to keep your living environment clean. Many of us also remember the frustration of having a roommate who didn’t do...
The Relationship “Golden Rule” Is Different
Leia was upset. “He knows how much I care about him, James!” she told me. “Before he left, I told him he could take all the time in the world. I would be here for him. I loved him, and I wasn’t going anywhere.” “And how did he respond?” I asked. From her pained...
From Casual to Committed: The Boring Paradox
Why do most new relationships fail? Because they can’t make it through the Crunch. The Crunch is the transition from having fun together to making a life together. Everyone wants to have fun. Having fun is innately rewarding. But making a life together is only fun...
What Men Won’t Tell You About Commitment
When you love a man, you want a life with him. You want to commit to him. You want him to commit to you. And you don’t understand why he keeps avoiding discussions about the future. It’s clear that you’re good together. He’s clearly enjoying the relationship. You’ve...
Secrets of the Securely Attached
If relationships were logical, it would be so much easier. You’d understand going in that most relationships don’t last. It wouldn’t hurt when things went wrong; you’d expect them to go wrong. Then you’d bust out your toolkit of strategies. If the relationship ended,...
Has He Fallen Out of Love With You? How to Know
Has this ever happened to you? You’re in what you think is a great relationship. You instantly connected with him. Soon he was saying all the beautiful things: he’s never met anyone like you, he wants to be with you, he thinks he’s falling for you. This is how love...
3 Ways to Spot a Love Avoidant Person
You’re with a man who acts like he doesn’t care about you half the time. Some of the time, he’s amazing. He’s passionate. He’s romantic. But then he pulls away. He barely sees you. He acts preoccupied. What’s going on? You may have fallen for a Love Avoidant. How It...
Will You Be Happy with Him?
It’s the golden question. If scientists knew the answer to this question, it would change the romantic landscape for good. If scientists could figure out the answer, we’d have less divorce, fewer breakups, and more 50th wedding anniversaries. There’s a lot on the...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
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