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Can He Grow Old with You?

Can He Grow Old with You?

If you want a long-term relationship, you look for a man who says he wants one, too. If you want to get married someday, you look for a man who says he wants...

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A Guy’s Secret Fear

A Guy’s Secret Fear

I’m going to share a rather big secret. It’s one of those secrets men aren’t going to tell you. It’s TOO personal. It gets at the core of what makes us...

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He Won’t Talk About Marriage

He Won’t Talk About Marriage

“I just can’t give anymore, James,” she told me. “I don’t know what to do.” Marissa had come to me with a request. She wanted to get married. She and her guy...

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3 Signs He’s A Good Long Term Partner

3 Signs He’s A Good Long Term Partner

He’s so much fun to date, but what will he be like in 20 years? If you’re dating with the goal of finding your future husband, you can’t just find a man you enjoy. You’ve got to figure out whether you’ll be able to make a good life together, which requires balancing...

Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

For as long as I’ve known Rachel, she’s wanted the same thing: A wonderful guy who treated her well and wanted to make a future with her. But the men in her life never quite fit that description. Every time I spoke to her, she’d be gushing about someone new. This guy...

A Scientifically-Proven Secret to Lasting Love

A Scientifically-Proven Secret to Lasting Love

Cecilia was describing her new boyfriend to me. “It’s fun, it’s exciting, but when I’ve needed him, he isn’t there. It feels like I can’t share everything that’s going on in my life with him, because he tunes out. I think he finds it annoying when I talk too much.”...

When Generosity Backfires

When Generosity Backfires

“Give more than you get.” It’s such a beautiful philosophy. It inspires generosity, selflessness, and a sense of abundance. But there’s one place where giving more than you get can backfire spectacularly: Uncommitted relationships. When you show a man how much you...

How to Spot Commitment-Minded Guys

How to Spot Commitment-Minded Guys

When Dora met her college boyfriend, they were instantly inseparable. She knew from the beginning that they’d be together forever. They talked about the future. Even their parents assumed they’d get married. But as graduation neared, her boyfriend began pulling away....

Bring Back the Spark in Your Relationship

Bring Back the Spark in Your Relationship

When Nia met Jamal, it was easily the best relationship she’d ever had. They had so much fun together. They had an incredible connection, and they could talk for hours. But now Nia and Jamal had been together for just over a year, and it wasn’t the same as before. In...

Romantic Things You May NOT Want to Say to Your Boyfriend

Romantic Things You May NOT Want to Say to Your Boyfriend

How would it feel to you if a man said... “I didn’t know what true love was until I met you.” “You are absolutely perfect to me.” “I can’t live without you.” “You are my dream come true.” It would feel wonderful, wouldn’t it? It would feel like a fairytale, or a scene...

3 Relationship Non-Negotiables

3 Relationship Non-Negotiables

When you meet a guy, the very first question you ask yourself is: “Do I like him?” If the answer is yes, the next question is: “Do I have fun with him?” And if you start dating, you’ll eventually ask yourself the question: “Could I be with him forever?” At each stage,...

3 Rules for Understanding Men

3 Rules for Understanding Men

Let’s test your man knowledge! True or false? Men are not as emotional as women.Men prioritize looks in the opposite sex.Men think about you-kn0w-what every 7 seconds. If you answered true to all three questions, you’re in good company. We all know that men and women...

Love Lessons of the Rich and Famous

Love Lessons of the Rich and Famous

“I found myself in relationships that ended in hurt no matter how hard I tried. I was always focused on one thing. I always tried to be the perfect girlfriend, the perfect wife. I felt like I was doing my best, so why weren’t things working out?”[1] Does that sound...

Make Him Change!

Make Him Change!

Natalia came into my office distraught. It was her boyfriend again. Nothing she said to him made a bit of difference. He was driving her crazy. I nodded as she listed off her complaints. He never listened to her. He never thought about her needs. He didn’t care about...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy