Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Why You Feel Anxious in Relationships
How do you experience love? As you think about your past relationships, pick the option that describes how love most often feels to you: Option A:...
Why Is He Acting That Way??? Why Your Answer Matters More Than You Think
When Jaylene let herself in after a long day at work, she was surprised to see her boyfriend eating dinner without her. “Couldn’t you wait for me?” she asked,...
The Curious Secret to Happily-Ever-After
That phrase happily-ever-after has a lot of explaining to do. It sets us up to believe that once we meet the perfect person, our lives will become instantly...
What Men Want More than Love
Which would you prefer: To be loved or to be respected? The answer is obvious. Of course it’s better to be loved. You can have all the degrees and...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
5 Signs He’s Secretly Committed to You
It makes you want to tear your hair out. You have no CLUE whether he wants a future with you. Sure, you have fun together. Sure, you see each other regularly. Sure, you have an emotional connection. But it’s not enough. Because he hasn’t said a word about what it all...
3 Tips to Get Through Rough Patches in a Relationship
Happily-ever-after. That’s what we’re all looking for. And so when we get into a relationship, and it’s NOT so happy, we start to wonder… Is this really it? Surely, if this were the right relationship, with the right person, we’d feel happy all the time! But, in fact,...
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic relationship with his ex, and now he says he’s scared of getting close to anyone else again. How can I help him get...
Why Relationships Make Us More Confident
It’s hard not to need the man you love. You want to lean on him. You want to rely on him. You want him to be your rock when life gets you down. But you’ve heard that the best relationships are interdependent, not codependent. It’s not his job to make you happy. Your...
Stop the Pursue-Withdraw Pattern Before It Breaks Your Relationship
Madison didn’t want to fight. Her relationship felt suffocating, but she didn’t know how to tell her boyfriend that she didn’t want to spend every weekend with him. She felt she owed it to him to arrange her schedule around him, but she’d begun to resent it. She’d...
2 Strategies That Can Save the Day When He Pulls Away
He’s pulling away. You can feel it. It’s not just that he’s not contacting you as often. It’s the way he communicates. Almost as if he’s irritated by you. As if it’s a big effort to pick up his phone and text you back. It hurts. It hurts because you thought you had...
3 “Gifts” to Make Your Guy Feel Incredibly Loved
Long-term relationships are comfortable. You’re used to each other. You’ve got your routine. You no longer wake up every single morning thinking, “I’m so lucky!” It’s a wonderful feeling when you can finally relax into a relationship. You can be real with one another....
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic relationship with his ex, and now he says he’s scared of getting close to anyone else again. How can I help him get...
4 Steps to Defuse His Emotional Triggers
It was just a comment. All Amanda did was ask Ethan to pitch in to get chores done. Okay, maybe she mentioned the fact that all he was doing was sitting on the sofa staring at his phone. But it was a light-hearted joke. She wasn’t being mean about it. Ethan blew up....
Know That You’re His One-and-Only
A long time ago, I was standing in one of those lines. You know the ones. Glaciers move faster. Might as well pitch a tent and break out the freeze-dried food, because you’re in it for the long haul. I’d been staring at the head of the person in front of me for so...
What Does Respect in a Relationship Look Like?
“She doesn’t respect me, so why should I have to respect her?” Dillon leaned forward, certain I’d agree with him. But Jayla cut in with a shrug of her shoulders, “I’d respect him if he started acting like a man instead of a teenage boy.” Dillon looked to me, “See what...
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic relationship with his ex, and now he says he’s scared of getting close to anyone else again. How can I help him get...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!