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3 Signs He’s Not Over His Ex

3 Signs He’s Not Over His Ex

“James!” Kelli threw her bag on the floor and flung herself into the chair. “I knew it! I found the evidence.” “What evidence?” I asked. “He still has...

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Should I Go No Contact?

Should I Go No Contact?

I’m sometimes asked whether I think the No Contact Rule works. For those of you unfamiliar with the term, the No Contact Rule refers to ceasing all contact...

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The Pain of Lost Love

The Pain of Lost Love

If you work with love, you will hear stories of pain. The pain of having your partner steal your heart and later leave for good. The pain of beautiful relationships that cooled to ashes. The pain of wondering whether love is worth it after all. It can be a disservice...

Breakup Recovery

Breakup Recovery

Breaking up rips out your heart. It hurts SO much. You can’t think of him without crying. Your friends try to support you, but it doesn’t help. The pain inside you is tearing you apart, yet everyone expects you to go about your normal life as if nothing happened… As...

Still in A Bad Relationship?

Still in A Bad Relationship?

I was talking with Heidi, one of the relationship coaches that works in our private, members-only forum, and she started telling me about a woman who was in a bad relationship. She was frustrated, because this woman refused to see that the relationship wasn’t good for...

He’s Threatening to Leave – What Now?

He’s Threatening to Leave – What Now?

When Kate came to me, she had a very specific goal. She was in a complicated situation with a man. They’d been together for some time. Recently he’d pulled away. He told her he wasn’t sure what he wanted anymore. Their relationship wasn’t “doing it” for him. He needed...

How to Know If You’re Jealous

How to Know If You’re Jealous

The barbecue at his friend’s house was the last straw. Melissa had been hoping to spend some quality time with her new boyfriend Ryan. She’d had a busy week, and she just wanted to snuggle up on the sofa with him and watch a movie. Instead, they were at his friend’s...

Why Men Lie

Why Men Lie

Bethany pressed her lips tight to keep from crying. “I don’t understand why he lied to me, James. He could have just told me.” Everything she thought she knew about the man she loved and the life they shared had been thrown into question by a revelation that rocked...

Sometimes? He’s an Insensitive Jerk

Sometimes? He’s an Insensitive Jerk

Layla thought this had potential. He was funny, he was hot, he had great dance moves, and his big brown eyes and soulful smile warmed her from the inside. But sometimes he did things that seemed super-insensitive. Like going off with his friends and forgetting to...

When You’re Not the Key That Fits His Lock

When You’re Not the Key That Fits His Lock

Let’s talk about rejection. You find someone you really like, and it doesn’t work out. He doesn’t feel the same. Or, even worse, he does feel the same … for a while. Then he yanks the rug out from under you. Goodbye, heaven. Everyone has to learn to deal with...

Will He Come Back?

Will He Come Back?

You remember, don’t you, all those times you felt so close to him that time stood still? There was no one else in the world. Just you and him. Love wrapping you in a cocoon of happiness. There was only one thing you needed for it to be perfect: The knowledge that this...

Your Text Message: Why He Doesn’t Respond

Your Text Message: Why He Doesn’t Respond

You’d think it would be so easy. If someone texts you, text them back. If someone calls you, call them back. If someone DMs you, message them back. So why, then, have so few men got the message? Angelika was sure her new love interest was ignoring her. She’d left him...

Do THIS When He Pushes You Away

Do THIS When He Pushes You Away

You know the instant he starts to push you away. You can feel it. He doesn’t look at you. His kisses are cold. He makes plans for himself without you. That’s when the panic hits. You’re losing him. You know it. You’ve got to do something to save your love. You’ve got...

“I’m So Mad at Him!”

“I’m So Mad at Him!”

It’s not fair. What he’s doing to you isn’t right. You’ve been nothing but wonderful to him. You’ve been there for him. You’ve put aside your own needs. You’ve been patient. And he doesn’t even try to change. Well, sometimes he tries. When he does, it’s amazing. It’s...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy