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Breakup On the Horizon? Do This Next.
Breakups often feel like they come out of nowhere—an argument explodes, a partner withdraws, or you both just “grow apart.” But what if the real trigger is...
Cheating Shattered Your Relationship. Now what?
Infidelity can feel like your whole world has been ripped apart. Whether you cheated or you’re the one who got betrayed (or you suspect it’s happening), the...
“Who Does More?” Is Killing Your Relationship
Sometimes, at social gatherings, people hear about my work and immediately start sharing their opinions about relationships. Usually it’s all in good fun, but...
Should You Keep Waiting If He Won’t Commit?
For years, Maya and Liam were inseparable. What started as a close friendship grew into something deeper. They shared everything: weekend adventures, work...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Why Do We Love People Who Hurt Us?
Kimberley’s husband destroyed her. She was suffering from a number of health difficulties. She had anxiety and depression. She was living in a tiny one-bedroom apartment and struggling to get by on her reduced income after an expensive divorce. Her friends had...
10 Reasons Men Aren’t Asking You Out
“Do guys just not ask women out anymore?” my client Annie asked me. She’d gotten married in her early twenties, and she didn’t remember dating being this hard. She’d done everything possible to meet someone since her divorce—signing updating apps, attending...
When His Friendships With Other Women Go Too Far
Rena didn’t know what to do. Her friends wanted her to break it off with him. He’s cheating on you, they said. But she didn’t know that for sure. And their relationship was still really good. She relied on him. She knew going in that he was a bit of a ladies man....
Decoding Mixed Messages
Tammy thought she’d never find love again. Since her husband passed, she’d found peace in a life filled with friends and hobbies. Then she joined a hiking group… and met Steve. Steve was a high school teacher coming out of a rough divorce. He was funny and a great...
What Guys Long for in a Relationship (But Rarely Get)
For many men, there was a moment when they knew their girlfriend was the one. She had one specific trait that made her different from every other woman they’d been with. Until they experienced it with her, they didn’t even realize what they were missing. Now they...
10 Tips for Surviving A Breakup
The end of a relationship hurts. You’re desperate to get him back. You think of everything you might have wrong. You can barely get through a day of work without crying. When you get in contact with him, he seems so cold and cruel. He’s like a different person. How...
The Conflict Conversation
When you were a teenager, how did you handle conflict with your friends? Did you talk them about how you felt? Were you able to clear the air and get it resolved? Or did you push your emotions down, pretend nothing was wrong, and let your hurt surface in other ways?...
Dating A Low Effort Guy
You’re with a guy you really like, but you’ve noticed something troubling. You put a ton of effort into sending him sweet messages, planning things to do, and showing him how you feel. And what does he do? Well, he’s happy to show up. That’s about it. Your friends...
From Friends to Lovers
You’ve got this amazing friend.... And something’s changed. You’ve started to feel more than friendship. You catch yourself thinking about him in a different way. Your heart beats fast when he smiles. Your skin tingles when his arm brushes yours. You’re wondering:...
When He Won’t Talk
What do you do when the man you love won’t talk to you or work on your problems? That’s what Joyce wanted to know. She showed up in my office, a graceful woman in her late 50s. She’d been married to her husband for decades. He’d been loving and kind when they first...
Friends to Lovers: Why You Should Fall for Your Best Friend
There are two pathways to love. One is the “attractive stranger” pathway. You see someone who catches your eye, you start talking, and sparks fly. The second is the “friends to lovers” pathway. You get to know someone really well, you realize that no one in the world...
Fascination Factor: 3 Ways to Keep Him Fascinated with You
When do you feel most drawn towards your partner? This is one of Esther Perel’s favorite questions. She’s asked this question to audiences around the world, and she delights in the range of answers. Some people say they feel drawn to their partner when they see them...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.