Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
3 Habits of Highly Attractive Women
Everyone has a “type.” The men you find attractive aren’t necessarily the same ones your best friend finds attractive. But if you take a group of men, chances...
What Men REALLY Want When They Do Something Nice for You
If another woman does something nice for you, how do you respond? You thank her, of course… And then you probably start thinking of a way to repay her...
3 Questions That Help You Know If He’s The One
It’s one of those questions I get asked all the time: “How do I know if he’s the one, James?” My clients want to know if this is as good as it gets. What if...
Why Men Hate Conflict (& What to Do about It)
Keri never got angry. She saw herself as a calm person who got things done and didn’t get caught up in drama. But inside she was starting to snap. She loved...
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How to be a one-of-a-kind girlfriend
Every so often, a study comes out that makes me want to cheer. I can talk about the importance of being yourself as much as I like. But unless there’s research to back it, it’s just my opinion. And that opinion isn’t shared by old-school dating advice, which tells...
5 Body Language Signals You’re Probably Missing
The benefits of being able to read body language are obvious: You know if he’s interested even if he’s not saying a word. You know if he’s NOT interested before wasting your time. And you probably already know these 5 basic signs to look for. Is his body facing...
Use “Warm Touch Enhancement”
You may have never heard of “warm touch enhancement…” But I’ll bet you’re practicing it right now with your loved one. You’re rubbing his shoulders or giving him a hug because you want to give comfort or feel connected. What you may not realize is that your actions...
Why Guys Play Hard to Get
You may not immediately look at a guy and think, “He’s playing hard to get.” But guys play hard to get just as often as women do. Only it’s called breadcrumbing, or benching, or stashing, or phubbing. (Don’t know what these terms mean? I’ll tell you in a moment.)...
3 Tips to Create a Powerful Emotional Connection
Aidan had never met anyone like her. His last girlfriend seemed to want one thing and one thing only: to have a big wedding. She invested in their relationship for a future payoff. So whenever Aidan let her down, he knew she would reassessing his suitability as a...
It’s All His Fault
When everything goes wrong in your life, you know who to blame. It’s him. 😊 If he had been more supportive when you came home and told him about the problem you were having at work, you wouldn’t have been so upset. You’d probably be having a nice evening right...
What It Means When He Says He Doesn’t Love You
It’s one of the worst things anyone can say: “I don’t love you anymore.” Those 5 words destroy you. The world you thought you lived in, the future you thought you had with this person, the connection you thought you shared… All gone. How could he say such a thing?...
Why He Won’t Say “I’m Sorry”
“Ow! You stepped on my foot!” Caitlin pushed her boyfriend away. “Well, you shouldn’t have been standing behind me!” Drake turned to face Caitlin, who was hunched over clutching her foot. “I was standing there because I was trying to help you,” she said, exasperated....
Am I Too Picky with Guys?
It’s one of the questions I get asked a lot: “Am I too picky with guys?” Have you ever wondered that? Are you worried you’ll run out of options if you keep turning down guys who are interested? Do you wonder whether you’re turning away guys who could have made you...
How to Stop Being “Too Nice” to Men
Ellie knew what her problem was in dating: She was too nice. She kept exchanging messages even when she was no longer interested. She said yes every time a man asked her out, because she didn’t want to hurt his feelings. She had long conversations where she listened...
5 Signs He’s Secretly Committed to You
It makes you want to tear your hair out. You have no CLUE whether he wants a future with you. Sure, you have fun together. Sure, you see each other regularly. Sure, you have an emotional connection. But it’s not enough. Because he hasn’t said a word about what it all...
Get Him to Notice You with the Reciprocity Principle
You’re at a social event. You spot an attractive guy across the room. What are the chances he’ll notice you? If there are only 10 other people there, the chances are pretty high. But if there are 100 people there, the chances are lower. He may never even make it to...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
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