Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
How Many Dates Does It Take to Know if You Like Him?
That first date is make or break. Either you feel a connection, or you don’t. But maybe your first dates have all been ending the same way… You’re just not...
Weird Online Dating Mysteries Answered
Ever wondered about some of the more curious aspects of online dating? Like why some men write mini-essays to you while others make do with, “Waz up, babe?”...
You Don’t Know Him as Well as You Think You Do
You can tell what he’s thinking, even when he doesn’t say a word. You can finish each other’s sentences. You’re in tune with him like no one else. That is...
The Art of Asking Great First Date Questions
There’s nothing worse than making all the effort to get dressed up and go out… Only to sit across the table from someone who can’t carry on a conversation....
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When Your Boyfriend Makes You Feel Bad, This Might Help
When you text your guy and you don’t get a reply right away, how do you feel? When you’re in the mood to cuddle and your guy isn’t, how do you feel? When you ask your guy what the plans are for the weekend and he tells you he’s going to spend time with the guys… How...
My Husband Keeps Letting Me Down
Skye knew she’d found the One… Until they moved in together. This awesome boyfriend who made her laugh and fixed her scrambled eggs and took her mud car racing morphed into someone she didn’t recognize once they were married. He was terrible at making her feel better...
When He’s Slow To Text You Back
You sent him a text this morning. Nothing important. You were just checking in. But now it’s noon. You still haven’t heard from him. He should be off on his lunch break. Even if he was super-busy all morning, he always checks his phone at lunch. So you send another...
Why Relationships Make Us More Confident
It’s hard not to need the man you love. You want to lean on him. You want to rely on him. You want him to be your rock when life gets you down. But you’ve heard that the best relationships are interdependent, not codependent. It’s not his job to make you happy. Your...
Dating a Guy Your Friends Don’t Like
Question 1. Would you date someone your parents didn’t approve of? Question 2. Would you date someone your friends didn’t approve of? The research is in. The days of listening to parents are over. You’re much more likely to be swayed by your friends’ opinion....
Why It’s Not Selfish to Say No to Your Guy
I’m going to ask you a really tough question. Here it is. Your guy has asked you to do something you REALLY don’t want to do. Do you: Say yes … but end up feeling resentful? Say no … but end up feeling guilty? It’s impossible, right? Either way, you end up feeling...
Stop the Pursue-Withdraw Pattern Before It Breaks Your Relationship
Madison didn’t want to fight. Her relationship felt suffocating, but she didn’t know how to tell her boyfriend that she didn’t want to spend every weekend with him. She felt she owed it to him to arrange her schedule around him, but she’d begun to resent it. She’d...
How to Spot (and Attract) a Genuine Romantic
Karen wanted the whole shebang. A man she could stroll with along the city streets, window-shopping and ducking into cafés for hot chocolates and pastries. A man who’d present her with an elaborately wrapped gift box, containing a bracelet he knew she coveted but...
More Than Friends? When to Worry about Another Woman
Alexis hoped she was overreacting. “He says they’re just friends, and I want to believe him,” she told me. “The problem is, I know women like her. They get close just because they can.” Alexis’ boyfriend Eric was a good guy. He was friendly, easy-going, and sociable....
The Secret to a Successful Date
I want to get your take on something… Who is responsible for the success of a date? He is. You are. You’re both equally responsible. Got your answer? It probably seems pretty obvious to you. But for me all three of those options hold a little truth. No matter which...
Snag Your Perfect Match Online With This One Easy Trick
You wouldn’t feel sorry for Bella. Bella was attractive. The kind of attractive that looks great on camera. She had straight, sleek hair, a small nose, and full lips. She never had any problems buying clothes; everything fit her. But Bella had her own problems. She...
3 Tips to Blast Through Resistance and Claim the Love You Deserve
Quick, tell me 3 things you should be doing right now to find love. _______________ _______________ _______________ Did a few things spring to mind? Most of us know what we could or should be doing to live a better life. We have goals that matter to us, a rough idea...
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I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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