Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
He Doesn’t Pay Attention to Me
A few years back, I was at a picnic when an old friend of mine came and sat down next to me. “James!” she said, and gave me a huge hug. Annabeth had been a...
How to Know If You’re Jealous
The barbecue at his friend’s house was the last straw. Melissa had been hoping to spend some quality time with her new boyfriend Ryan. She’d had a busy week,...
He Won’t Work on the Relationship
He won’t work on the relationship. He won’t do ANYTHING. He says things are fine as they are. He says there’s nothing to talk about. And what you hear is: “I...
3 Relationship Non-Negotiables
When you meet a guy, the very first question you ask yourself is: “Do I like him?” If the answer is yes, the next question is: “Do I have fun with him?” And...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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3 Rules for Understanding Men
Let’s test your man knowledge! True or false? Men are not as emotional as women.Men prioritize looks in the opposite sex.Men think about you-kn0w-what every 7 seconds. If you answered true to all three questions, you’re in good company. We all know that men and women...
Hookup Culture Has Changed Dating…
But It Doesn’t Have to Change You
The landscape of love and relationships has changed drastically in the past decade. For young people growing up today, it’s unimaginable to think of a dating scene that doesn’t involve dating apps or texting. Striking up a conversation with an attractive stranger and...
Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?
Every day I see women who are smart, attractive, warm, engaging, ready and eager to find love… Except that they can’t meet anyone. Their dating life is a desert. They feel like they’re doing the work. They’ve put up online dating profiles. They invest good money in...
Has Tinder Killed Relationships?
More and more often, I’ve been hearing from women that relationships are dead. Men don’t want to get to know you anymore. They just want to jump into bed. Even though these women state clearly in their profiles that they want a relationship, the men they meet have...
3 Ways to Be Braver in Love
Researchers put out a pitcher of lemonade and poured a glass for some boys and girls. The boys tasted the lemonade and made a face. “Gross!” said one. “It tastes terrible,” said the other. The girls tasted the lemonade. “It tastes good,” one said politely. Another...
Why Men Lie
Bethany pressed her lips tight to keep from crying. “I don’t understand why he lied to me, James. He could have just told me.” Everything she thought she knew about the man she loved and the life they shared had been thrown into question by a revelation that rocked...
Love Lessons of the Rich and Famous
“I found myself in relationships that ended in hurt no matter how hard I tried. I was always focused on one thing. I always tried to be the perfect girlfriend, the perfect wife. I felt like I was doing my best, so why weren’t things working out?”[1] Does that sound...
Do You Know How You Feel? Really?
Something he’s doing is bothering you. You feel uncomfortable about the situation, so you call your best friend to talk about it. You explain what happened, and you try to put words to how you’re feeling. Are you mad at him? Do you feel left out? Do you feel triggered...
5 Ways to Say No to Him
You finally meet someone you like… And he pressures you to do something you don’t want to do. You’re convinced he’ll lose interest in you if you don’t do it. It’s been so hard to find someone you actually like, who returns your interest... That you go ahead with what...
The Only Male Mind Hack You’ll Ever Need
Your guy has been acting strangely lately. He seems distracted. He’s not as affectionate. He doesn’t seem to want to spend as much time together. You worry that his feelings for you are cooling. If that’s the case, you need to act fast to save your relationship. How...
How You Can Mistake Attraction (And How to Use This to Your Advantage!)
Lisa Feldman Barrett said yes to a date. Truth be told, she didn’t even like the guy. He was in her psychology program, and she didn’t know him very well. But she’d been stuck in the lab all day, so she agreed to meet up for coffee. As she sat in the coffee shop with...
3 Secrets You Must Know about Men
Look, I get it. As a man who helps women achieve happier romantic outcomes with guys, I know it sometimes seems like men are from another planet. You don’t know why guys do the things they do. They don’t make sense. But men were born on the same planet as everyone...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.