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He Blocked Me – What Now?

He Blocked Me – What Now?

Things weren’t going great to begin with. Maybe you said something he disagreed with. Maybe you had a fight. Maybe he hadn’t been in contact and you just...

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He Won’t Put Effort In

He Won’t Put Effort In

For many young people, living in a dorm or a shared apartment is a rite of passage. You’re away from your parents for the first time, and it’s up to you to...

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Should You Send That Text?

Should You Send That Text?

You’ve already sent him three texts. He hasn’t replied. You scroll back through your messages, wondering if you should send one more. Just something to jog...

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The Relationship “Golden Rule” Is Different

The Relationship “Golden Rule” Is Different

Leia was upset. “He knows how much I care about him, James!” she told me. “Before he left, I told him he could take all the time in the world. I would be here for him. I loved him, and I wasn’t going anywhere.” “And how did he respond?” I asked. From her pained...

From Casual to Committed: The Boring Paradox

From Casual to Committed: The Boring Paradox

Why do most new relationships fail? Because they can’t make it through the Crunch. The Crunch is the transition from having fun together to making a life together. Everyone wants to have fun. Having fun is innately rewarding. But making a life together is only fun...

Dating Dilemma: Are Your Standards Too High?

Dating Dilemma: Are Your Standards Too High?

Look around. Can you spot a single man you’d feel excited about dating? Even if you look on a dating app, it can be hard to muster much enthusiasm. Nearly 1 in 2 adults in the U.S. feel that dating has gotten harder in the last decade.[1] A whopping 3 in 4 singles say...

Three Single Women Walk Into A Bar…

Three Single Women Walk Into A Bar…

Three single friends go out for a girls night on the town. One of the women is highly attractive. Another is super friendly. The last flirts with everyone. Which friend is most likely to spark a connection with a guy on their evening out? Well, Isn’t It Obvious? The...

He Didn’t Do What He Promised

He Didn’t Do What He Promised

Men hate being wrong. It’s a stereotype, but it’s often the truth. Think of all the ways a man can mess up in a relationship. He can fail to buy the gift you really wanted for your birthday. He can fail to say what you really needed to hear when you were upset. He can...

5 Ways Men Express Love

5 Ways Men Express Love

For Victoria, getting an “I love you” from her partner was like getting blood from a turnip. She could count on one hand the number of times he’d said it. She said it to him all the time. She was always thinking of little ways to show she cared. Yet he just assumed...

What Men Won’t Tell You About Commitment

What Men Won’t Tell You About Commitment

When you love a man, you want a life with him. You want to commit to him. You want him to commit to you. And you don’t understand why he keeps avoiding discussions about the future. It’s clear that you’re good together. He’s clearly enjoying the relationship. You’ve...

Does He Want to Be With Me or Not?

Does He Want to Be With Me or Not?

When you’re in a complicated relationship, all you want is clarity. You know you love him. Does he love you? If the answer is yes, then you’ll put up with a lot to make this relationship work. But how do you know for sure that he loves you? Maybe he’s said he loves...

Secrets of the Securely Attached

Secrets of the Securely Attached

If relationships were logical, it would be so much easier. You’d understand going in that most relationships don’t last. It wouldn’t hurt when things went wrong; you’d expect them to go wrong. Then you’d bust out your toolkit of strategies. If the relationship ended,...

When You Feel Conflicted about Him

When You Feel Conflicted about Him

Do you ever feel you’re of two minds about a guy? Or three minds? Or four minds? Or five? 😉 Maybe you love him, but you don’t always like him. Some days, you see all the good things about him. Other days, all you see is the bad. You feel conflicted. Should you pursue...

He’s Hung Up on His Ex

He’s Hung Up on His Ex

Nina thought it was going great. They had long, intense conversations. They were great at making each other laugh. And the chemistry? Suffice to say, she hadn’t been this excited in a long time. They hadn’t been together more than a few weeks when something happened....

He Said Something Hurtful – What Do You Do?

He Said Something Hurtful – What Do You Do?

You’re hanging out with your guy. You’re relaxing together, chatting about nothing in particular. He’s telling a story, and you’re half-paying attention… When suddenly your mind catches up to the words that just came out of his mouth. You freeze. Did he just say what...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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