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Stop the Pursue-Withdraw Pattern Before It Breaks Your Relationship

Stop the Pursue-Withdraw Pattern Before It Breaks Your Relationship

Madison didn’t want to fight. Her relationship felt suffocating, but she didn’t know how to tell her boyfriend that she didn’t want to spend every weekend with him. She felt she owed it to him to arrange her schedule around him, but she’d begun to resent it. She’d...

How to Spot (and Attract) a Genuine Romantic

How to Spot (and Attract) a Genuine Romantic

Karen wanted the whole shebang. A man she could stroll with along the city streets, window-shopping and ducking into cafés for hot chocolates and pastries. A man who’d present her with an elaborately wrapped gift box, containing a bracelet he knew she coveted but...

More Than Friends? When to Worry about Another Woman

More Than Friends? When to Worry about Another Woman

Alexis hoped she was overreacting. “He says they’re just friends, and I want to believe him,” she told me. “The problem is, I know women like her. They get close just because they can.” Alexis’ boyfriend Eric was a good guy. He was friendly, easy-going, and sociable....

The Secret to a Successful Date

The Secret to a Successful Date

I want to get your take on something… Who is responsible for the success of a date? He is. You are. You’re both equally responsible. Got your answer? It probably seems pretty obvious to you. But for me all three of those options hold a little truth. No matter which...

Snag Your Perfect Match Online With This One Easy Trick

Snag Your Perfect Match Online With This One Easy Trick

You wouldn’t feel sorry for Bella. Bella was attractive. The kind of attractive that looks great on camera. She had straight, sleek hair, a small nose, and full lips. She never had any problems buying clothes; everything fit her. But Bella had her own problems. She...

3 Tips to Blast Through Resistance and Claim the Love You Deserve

3 Tips to Blast Through Resistance and Claim the Love You Deserve

Quick, tell me 3 things you should be doing right now to find love. _______________ _______________ _______________ Did a few things spring to mind? Most of us know what we could or should be doing to live a better life. We have goals that matter to us, a rough idea...

2 Strategies That Can Save the Day When He Pulls Away

2 Strategies That Can Save the Day When He Pulls Away

He’s pulling away. You can feel it. It’s not just that he’s not contacting you as often. It’s the way he communicates. Almost as if he’s irritated by you. As if it’s a big effort to pick up his phone and text you back. It hurts. It hurts because you thought you had...

My Relationships Never Last

My Relationships Never Last

“Once guys get to know me, they always leave.” “I can’t let down my guard. I’ll say the wrong thing and push him away.” “It’s risky to let a guy into my life. What if he sees the real me and runs?” I wish I had a dime for every time a woman has told me she can’t...

What a Cup of Coffee Can Tell You about Your Relationship Mistakes

What a Cup of Coffee Can Tell You about Your Relationship Mistakes

Bernadette was frustrated. “I did everything right, James,” she said. “I made sure to soften my approach, I talked about my feelings, I avoided blaming him … but I still think I might have wrecked everything.” Bernadette had been wanting to talk to her boyfriend...

3 “Gifts” to Make Your Guy Feel Incredibly Loved

3 “Gifts” to Make Your Guy Feel Incredibly Loved

Long-term relationships are comfortable. You’re used to each other. You’ve got your routine. You no longer wake up every single morning thinking, “I’m so lucky!” It’s a wonderful feeling when you can finally relax into a relationship. You can be real with one another....

Why Do So Many Guys Lie Online?

Why Do So Many Guys Lie Online?

It’s one of the worst parts about dating: The effort you put into guys who turn out to be time-wasters. You spend hours texting or chatting online, you talk on the phone, and you build up high hopes… Only to go out with him and realize he’s nothing like you thought he...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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