Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Why He Won’t Say “I’m Sorry”
“Ow! You stepped on my foot!” Caitlin pushed her boyfriend away. “Well, you shouldn’t have been standing behind me!” Drake turned to face Caitlin, who was...
Am I Too Picky with Guys?
It’s one of the questions I get asked a lot: “Am I too picky with guys?” Have you ever wondered that? Are you worried you’ll run out of options if you keep...
How to Stop Being “Too Nice” to Men
Ellie knew what her problem was in dating: She was too nice. She kept exchanging messages even when she was no longer interested. She said yes every time a...
5 Signs He’s Secretly Committed to You
It makes you want to tear your hair out. You have no CLUE whether he wants a future with you. Sure, you have fun together. Sure, you see each other regularly....
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Get Him to Notice You with the Reciprocity Principle
You’re at a social event. You spot an attractive guy across the room. What are the chances he’ll notice you? If there are only 10 other people there, the chances are pretty high. But if there are 100 people there, the chances are lower. He may never even make it to...
3 Tips to Get Through Rough Patches in a Relationship
Happily-ever-after. That’s what we’re all looking for. And so when we get into a relationship, and it’s NOT so happy, we start to wonder… Is this really it? Surely, if this were the right relationship, with the right person, we’d feel happy all the time! But, in fact,...
Dating and the Big 5 Personal Traits
Carla found the romantic hero of her dreams. He was dark and brooding. He would show up unexpectedly and sweep her away on a surprise date, not telling her where they were going until they got there. Zachary had a quick temper, which Carla didn’t like, but he was also...
Why Is He Acting That Way??? (Why Your Answer Matters More Than You Think)
When Jaylene let herself in after a long day at work, she was surprised to see her boyfriend eating dinner without her. “Couldn’t you wait for me?” she asked, putting down her purse and coming up behind him. She wrapped her arms around his shoulders and gave him a...
Scared He’s Going to Leave You? 3 Questions That Can Help
Caitlyn thought of herself as gentle and loving. She made others feel good. She tried to keep the peace. But her boyfriend Hudson was driving her crazy. It started a few months after they moved in together. Until then, she thought she and Hudson saw eye-to-eye on...
3 Online Dating Mistakes You Might Be Making
Amy Webb was failing at online dating. It’s not that she wasn’t a catch. She had been named in a shortlist of 5 women changing the world by Forbes. She had advised 3-star generals and the CEOs of some of the world’s largest companies. But maybe it wasn’t the best idea...
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic relationship with his ex, and now he says he’s scared of getting close to anyone else again. How can I help him get...
How Many Dates Does It Take to Know if You Like Him?
That first date is make or break. Either you feel a connection, or you don’t. But maybe your first dates have all been ending the same way… You’re just not feeling it with ANYONE. Sometimes you like the guy. But you’re not sure if there’s chemistry. Is it the guys...
Weird Online Dating Mysteries Answered
Ever wondered about some of the more curious aspects of online dating? Like why some men write mini-essays to you while others make do with, “Waz up, babe?” Or why some men come off as jerks from the get-go, despite the fact they’re supposed to be trying to win you...
You Don’t Know Him as Well as You Think You Do
You can tell what he’s thinking, even when he doesn’t say a word. You can finish each other’s sentences. You’re in tune with him like no one else. That is sometimes what true love feels like… Knowing each other so well that words aren’t necessary. But if this is true,...
The Art of Asking Great First Date Questions
There’s nothing worse than making all the effort to get dressed up and go out… Only to sit across the table from someone who can’t carry on a conversation. You’re the one asking the questions. You’re the one filling in the silences. You’re the one carrying on a...
When Your Boyfriend Makes You Feel Bad, This Might Help
When you text your guy and you don’t get a reply right away, how do you feel? When you’re in the mood to cuddle and your guy isn’t, how do you feel? When you ask your guy what the plans are for the weekend and he tells you he’s going to spend time with the guys… How...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
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