Become His Secret Obsession
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10 Tips for Surviving A Breakup
The end of a relationship hurts. You’re desperate to get him back. You think of everything you might have wrong. You can barely get through a day of work...
The Conflict Conversation
When you were a teenager, how did you handle conflict with your friends? Did you talk them about how you felt? Were you able to clear the air and get it...
Dating A Low Effort Guy
You’re with a guy you really like, but you’ve noticed something troubling. You put a ton of effort into sending him sweet messages, planning things to do, and...
From Friends to Lovers
You’ve got this amazing friend.... And something’s changed. You’ve started to feel more than friendship. You catch yourself thinking about him in a different...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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When He Won’t Talk
What do you do when the man you love won’t talk to you or work on your problems? That’s what Joyce wanted to know. She showed up in my office, a graceful woman in her late 50s. She’d been married to her husband for decades. He’d been loving and kind when they first...
Friends to Lovers: Why You Should Fall for Your Best Friend
There are two pathways to love. One is the “attractive stranger” pathway. You see someone who catches your eye, you start talking, and sparks fly. The second is the “friends to lovers” pathway. You get to know someone really well, you realize that no one in the world...
Fascination Factor: 3 Ways to Keep Him Fascinated with You
When do you feel most drawn towards your partner? This is one of Esther Perel’s favorite questions. She’s asked this question to audiences around the world, and she delights in the range of answers. Some people say they feel drawn to their partner when they see them...
From Fizzling to Sizzling
Barbara needed my advice. She explained that she was dating a wonderful man. They were both in their sixties. They both had adult children and he ran his own business, so they couldn’t see each other as often as they’d like. Recently she’d started to wonder if he was...
The Last Thing You Want to Do In A Relationship Crisis
Sarah stared at her phone. Her hands shook as she read and re-read the text. He was really doing it. He was breaking up with her. Her hands flew as she typed back a cutting response. How dare he? He couldn’t even be bothered to say this to her face? What kind of...
Surprising Reason He Blows Hot & Cold
Raise of hands—how many of you have never experienced a man blowing hot and cold? Anyone? It’s a near-universal experience for women seeking a real relationship. You think everything is going so well, then he pulls away unexpectedly. It’s hurtful. You don’t even know...
“Slow Down, Romeo!” When He’s Moving Too Fast
Imagine this… You meet a man who tells you he’s never met anyone like you before. Where have you been all his life? You’re incredible. He wants to see you again immediately. You do a little happy dance as soon as you get home. You can’t stop smiling. This is so...
5 Ways to Make His Day
You wish you could do something special for him. He works so hard, and you appreciate him so much. You want to put a smile on his face, but you don’t always know how. For men, small, thoughtful gestures can mean the world. Here are five ways to make his day and remind...
Can This Casual Relationship Become Serious?
Lauren had a problem. She had a casual thing going with a guy she really liked. It was all going so well. She’d never been happier. Except… She was developing “feelings.” I had to smile as she put air quotes around the word, like it was a horrible thing to confess. “I...
When You Think He’s Cheating
Bonnie had been with her guy ever since college. But they’d been long-distance ever since he moved to get his master’s degree. It was only two years. She knew they could handle it. Lately, though, she’d become suspicious. She couldn’t put a finger on it, but something...
The Trust Deficit: Why Modern Dating Feels Riskier Than Ever
It’s already so hard to meet someone new. There are so many obstacles to overcome: making that first contact, figuring out what to say, building attraction, daring to suggest seeing each other again... It’s not fair that I’m giving you one more thing to worry about....
The Promise Problem
Keira fell in love with him over coffee. They talked about what they wanted for the future. She loved the way he painted a picture of the life they’d have together once he graduated. They’d spend part of each year in a different country. They’d be a power couple,...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.