Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
He’s Threatening to Leave – What Now?
When Kate came to me, she had a very specific goal. She was in a complicated situation with a man. They’d been together for some time. Recently he’d pulled...
A More Attractive Face from Mindfulness?
A friend of mine took up yoga in her 40s. She wanted to improve her flexibility. She was starting to feel stiff in the mornings. But she stuck with it after...
A Subtle Persuasion Technique
You’ve arranged to meet several men you connected with online. The first guy talks about his life in a way that’s extremely impressive. He’s confident, and...
He Only Wants Something Casual
This is not how it was supposed to turn out. You have spent so much time searching for a man who makes you feel like this. You thought you might never find...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There's a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don't get this for one simple reason.
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Bring Back the Spark in Your Relationship
When Nia met Jamal, it was easily the best relationship she’d ever had. They had so much fun together. They had an incredible connection, and they could talk for hours. But now Nia and Jamal had been together for just over a year, and it wasn’t the same as before. In...
Romantic Things You May NOT Want to Say to Your Boyfriend
How would it feel to you if a man said... “I didn’t know what true love was until I met you.” “You are absolutely perfect to me.” “I can’t live without you.” “You are my dream come true.” It would feel wonderful, wouldn’t it? It would feel like a fairytale, or a scene...
He Doesn’t Pay Attention to Me
A few years back, I was at a picnic when an old friend of mine came and sat down next to me. “James!” she said, and gave me a huge hug. Annabeth had been a good friend of mine for a long time. I asked her how she was, and she caught me up on her life. Then she nudged...
How to Know If You’re Jealous
The barbecue at his friend’s house was the last straw. Melissa had been hoping to spend some quality time with her new boyfriend Ryan. She’d had a busy week, and she just wanted to snuggle up on the sofa with him and watch a movie. Instead, they were at his friend’s...
He Won’t Work on the Relationship
He won’t work on the relationship. He won’t do ANYTHING. He says things are fine as they are. He says there’s nothing to talk about. And what you hear is: “I don’t care how you feel.” “I can’t be bothered to lift a finger.” “You’re not worth of my effort.” You’re...
3 Relationship Non-Negotiables
When you meet a guy, the very first question you ask yourself is: “Do I like him?” If the answer is yes, the next question is: “Do I have fun with him?” And if you start dating, you’ll eventually ask yourself the question: “Could I be with him forever?” At each stage,...
3 Rules for Understanding Men
Let’s test your man knowledge! True or false? Men are not as emotional as women.Men prioritize looks in the opposite sex.Men think about you-kn0w-what every 7 seconds. If you answered true to all three questions, you’re in good company. We all know that men and women...
Hookup Culture Has Changed Dating…
But It Doesn’t Have to Change You
The landscape of love and relationships has changed drastically in the past decade. For young people growing up today, it’s unimaginable to think of a dating scene that doesn’t involve dating apps or texting. Striking up a conversation with an attractive stranger and...
Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?
Every day I see women who are smart, attractive, warm, engaging, ready and eager to find love… Except that they can’t meet anyone. Their dating life is a desert. They feel like they’re doing the work. They’ve put up online dating profiles. They invest good money in...
Has Tinder Killed Relationships?
More and more often, I’ve been hearing from women that relationships are dead. Men don’t want to get to know you anymore. They just want to jump into bed. Even though these women state clearly in their profiles that they want a relationship, the men they meet have...
3 Ways to Be Braver in Love
Researchers put out a pitcher of lemonade and poured a glass for some boys and girls. The boys tasted the lemonade and made a face. “Gross!” said one. “It tastes terrible,” said the other. The girls tasted the lemonade. “It tastes good,” one said politely. Another...
Why Men Lie
Bethany pressed her lips tight to keep from crying. “I don’t understand why he lied to me, James. He could have just told me.” Everything she thought she knew about the man she loved and the life they shared had been thrown into question by a revelation that rocked...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.