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Do You Get Angry at Your Boyfriend?

Do You Get Angry at Your Boyfriend?

You are so angry at him, you can’t think straight. You don’t even want him around. If he says one more thing, you might just blow your top. So you take a breather and consider what you’re going to do next. Are you going to give him what he so richly deserves?Are you...

Why Is He Sending Suggestive Pictures—And How Can You Get Him to Stop?

Why Is He Sending Suggestive Pictures—And How Can You Get Him to Stop?

Charlene was annoyed. “All I get are guys sending me disgusting pictures,” she told me. “Don’t they get that I don’t want to see them naked? They’ve got a serious problem if they think a photo like that is going to turn a woman on.” “So there’s not a single guy who’s...

3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit

3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit

Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic relationship with his ex, and now he says he’s scared of getting close to anyone else again. How can I help him get...

Your Ideal Partner Might Just Be A Psychologically Androgynous Man

Your Ideal Partner Might Just Be A Psychologically Androgynous Man

Brenda loved being with Kirk. He took charge. He arranged amazing dates, ordered her foods she’d never imagined trying, and gave her the courage to leave her comfort zone and follow his lead. She told me she’d never been with anyone so masculine. She was enjoying the...

When Dating Feels Like Rejection After Rejection…

When Dating Feels Like Rejection After Rejection…

When Jayla walked into my office, she didn’t smile or shake my hand. She shuffled over to the chair, sat down hard, and stared at me. She told me flat-out that she didn’t think I was going to be able to help her. She thought this was going to be a complete waste of...

Should you stick with a difficult relationship?

Should you stick with a difficult relationship?

Should you stick with a difficult relationship? It’s a question that divides a lot of people. (Ask it on a first date, and you’ll learn a lot about him.) Some believe relationships should be easy. If you’re struggling, it’s because there’s something wrong. You’re not...

Should You Be Your True Self with Men?

Should You Be Your True Self with Men?

How far would you be willing to go to meet someone? There seems to be two schools of thought. The first says that you should always be yourself, no matter what. Don’t wear a lot of makeup, because if he doesn’t find the “real you” attractive, then he’s not worth it....

The Urgency Principle Can Make Guys Choose You

The Urgency Principle Can Make Guys Choose You

You’re chatting with a gorgeous guy on Tinder. Not only is he super-hot, but he’s let you know in no uncertain terms how attractive he finds you. Without intending it, your conversation has gotten a bit dirty. Sexual innuendos, double entendres, and suggestions that...

Stop Underestimating Yourself

Stop Underestimating Yourself

Sheryl Sandberg was a fraud. She was chief operating officer at Facebook. Forbes had named her the 5th most powerful woman in the world—even above former First Lady Michelle Obama. Yet she was plagued by the feeling that it had all been a big mistake. She knew she...

You Can Feel More Confident

You Can Feel More Confident

You’re on a first date with someone you met online. You’re sitting across from him, talking and laughing, but part of you is on edge. You can’t relax. You haven’t been able to relax since you got into the car to drive here. You normally don’t worry what anyone thinks...

It’s All His Fault

It’s All His Fault

When everything goes wrong in your life, you know who to blame. It’s him.  ? If he had been more supportive when you came home and told him about the problem you were having at work, you wouldn’t have been so upset. You’d probably be having a nice evening right...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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