Become His Secret Obsession
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The Future of Dating
Dating is changing so fast. It wasn’t all that long ago that you had to use a dial-up modem on a desktop computer to meet someone online. Dating sites were...
Should You Settle for Being Friends?
You really like this guy… But, for whatever reason, there’s no possibility of it ever becoming more. Maybe he has a girlfriend. Maybe he’s an off limits...
Stop Waiting on Him to Change
So many of the women who come to me know exactly what needs to change in their love situation… HIM. They want him to do something or feel something. He...
Yes, You Still Need Boundaries in Love
When you meet a wonderful person and fall in love, it feels like fireworks bursting in the sky. It feels like you’ve opened the door to your soul and let...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There's a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don't get this for one simple reason.
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Can He Grow Old with You?
If you want a long-term relationship, you look for a man who says he wants one, too. If you want to get married someday, you look for a man who says he wants to get married someday, too. But what a man says isn’t necessarily what he does. You can find yourself with a...
He Doesn’t Value You? The ONLY Way He’ll Change
Imagine you’re playing a board game with this really cute, amazing guy. You can tell he really likes you, too. Eventually, you notice that every time you play this game with him, you end up winning. So you start paying closer attention to how he’s playing… And, sure...
How To Override Relationship Negativity
Panic. That’s what Rachel felt. She just knew that Daniel was losing interest. He was still going out with the guys one night a week. He hadn’t talked to her about summer plans. He barely made an effort for Valentine’s Day. Surely, if he was really into her, he’d be...
3 Ways to Stop Settling
“How do I know there’s not someone else out there for me?” Amanda asked. “What if I end up with the wrong person because I didn’t hold out for someone better?” I’ve heard so many women ask some version of Amanda’s question. (I’ve heard men ask this question, too.) How...
No Man Could Ever Fall For Me
Linda was tired. She was in her mid-fifties and didn’t look like she used to. Her face, her hair, her twenty pounds of extra weight… made her wonder what any man would see in her. She came to me for help recovering from heartbreak after she’d met a man online. She...
5 Things Your Ex Needs to Know Before Getting Back Together
When relationships end, they end for a reason. Reasons such as… Feeling distant from one another Feeling like you’re not on the same page Fighting a lot Feeling like you can’t trust your partner anymore Even when you know a relationship isn’t working, it can be really...
A Guy’s Secret Fear
I’m going to share a rather big secret. It’s one of those secrets men aren’t going to tell you. It’s TOO personal. It gets at the core of what makes us vulnerable. This secret also gets at the reason why so many men abandon otherwise good relationships. It triggers...
Text with Confidence
You stare at your phone… And a cold feeling settles into your gut. You re-read his text again. Is he mad at you for something? Is this supposed to be funny? Is he saying it’s over? As your thumbs hover over the keypad, your mind remains stubbornly blank. You have to...
His Texts Are So Confusing!
You pick up your phone and see a text from a guy you really liked who ghosted you last year. Is it an apology? Nope. Is it an explanation? Nope. It’s a “hey” with a string of friendly emojis. What’s that supposed to mean? You pick up your phone and see a text from a...
Guys Want You to Tease Them
When you go out on a date with someone new, what is your goal? To impress him. To get to know him. To ramp up the heat. To get playful. Now, we all hope that our date will be impressed by us. We all hope we’ll get to know our date better. We all hope that our date...
Make Better Decisions in Love
Do you make good decisions in love? Let’s find out! Question #1: You like a guy at work. Despite your best efforts to get him to ask you out, it’s clear that it’s up to you if you want anything to happen. There’s a 5% chance that he’s the love of your life. There’s a...
Are You Accidentally Telling Him It’s Casual?
Naleda was a vibrant 22-year-old who oozed confidence. She made direct eye contact and shook my hand firmly. As she settled into a chair, I asked her why she’d come to see me. She froze. I could see her confidence drain away. She took a deep breath and confessed, “I...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.