Become His Secret Obsession

Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.

 

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Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

For as long as I’ve known Rachel, she’s wanted the same thing: A wonderful guy who treated her well and wanted to make a future with her. But the men in her...

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Should I Go No Contact?

Should I Go No Contact?

I’m sometimes asked whether I think the No Contact Rule works. For those of you unfamiliar with the term, the No Contact Rule refers to ceasing all contact...

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The Pain of Lost Love

The Pain of Lost Love

If you work with love, you will hear stories of pain. The pain of having your partner steal your heart and later leave for good. The pain of beautiful relationships that cooled to ashes. The pain of wondering whether love is worth it after all. It can be a disservice...

How to Be Remarkable

How to Be Remarkable

How brave are you? Do you have what it takes to try one of the riskiest (and, ironically, most successful) dating strategies out there? All it takes is being remarkable. Take a Risk or Play It Safe The safest dating advice is to find out what the average man finds...

3 Steps to Broaching Difficult Conversations

3 Steps to Broaching Difficult Conversations

“I don’t know what I did wrong, James!” she said. “I did everything I was supposed to. I planned out what I was going to say, I wasn’t critical, I asked for what I needed in the nicest way possible.” She rubbed her eyes with her sleeve. “And now he’s gone. All because...

Breakup Recovery

Breakup Recovery

Breaking up rips out your heart. It hurts SO much. You can’t think of him without crying. Your friends try to support you, but it doesn’t help. The pain inside you is tearing you apart, yet everyone expects you to go about your normal life as if nothing happened… As...

Still in A Bad Relationship?

Still in A Bad Relationship?

I was talking with Heidi, one of the relationship coaches that works in our private, members-only forum, and she started telling me about a woman who was in a bad relationship. She was frustrated, because this woman refused to see that the relationship wasn’t good for...

How To Love More Deeply

How To Love More Deeply

When you meet someone really cool… And you seem to have a connection, and he seems to like you back… It’s the best feeling in the world. You can’t stop smiling. You feel so happy. Your world, ordinarily so predictable, sparkles with hope and possibility. What if this...

He’s Threatening to Leave – What Now?

He’s Threatening to Leave – What Now?

When Kate came to me, she had a very specific goal. She was in a complicated situation with a man. They’d been together for some time. Recently he’d pulled away. He told her he wasn’t sure what he wanted anymore. Their relationship wasn’t “doing it” for him. He needed...

A More Attractive Face from Mindfulness?

A More Attractive Face from Mindfulness?

A friend of mine took up yoga in her 40s. She wanted to improve her flexibility. She was starting to feel stiff in the mornings. But she stuck with it after she discovered how it made her feel on a psychological level. She said it was like “spending quality time with...

A Subtle Persuasion Technique

A Subtle Persuasion Technique

You’ve arranged to meet several men you connected with online. The first guy talks about his life in a way that’s extremely impressive. He’s confident, and you like that. He talks about places he could take you. He talks about the interests you have in common. He...

He Only Wants Something Casual

He Only Wants Something Casual

This is not how it was supposed to turn out. You have spent so much time searching for a man who makes you feel like this. You thought you might never find him. And here he shows up in your life, bringing joy and laughter and fun and desire… Making you feel wanted…...

Bring Back the Spark in Your Relationship

Bring Back the Spark in Your Relationship

When Nia met Jamal, it was easily the best relationship she’d ever had. They had so much fun together. They had an incredible connection, and they could talk for hours. But now Nia and Jamal had been together for just over a year, and it wasn’t the same as before. In...

Romantic Things You May NOT Want to Say to Your Boyfriend

Romantic Things You May NOT Want to Say to Your Boyfriend

How would it feel to you if a man said... “I didn’t know what true love was until I met you.” “You are absolutely perfect to me.” “I can’t live without you.” “You are my dream come true.” It would feel wonderful, wouldn’t it? It would feel like a fairytale, or a scene...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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