Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Discover attraction, dating, commitment, heartache, healing and ex back guidance for any relationship.
When He Won’t Talk
What do you do when the man you love won’t talk to you or work on your problems? That’s what Joyce wanted to know. She showed up in my office, a graceful...
Friends to Lovers: Why You Should Fall for Your Best Friend
There are two pathways to love. One is the “attractive stranger” pathway. You see someone who catches your eye, you start talking, and sparks fly. The second...
Fascination Factor: 3 Ways to Keep Him Fascinated with You
When do you feel most drawn towards your partner? This is one of Esther Perel’s favorite questions. She’s asked this question to audiences around the world,...
From Fizzling to Sizzling
Barbara needed my advice. She explained that she was dating a wonderful man. They were both in their sixties. They both had adult children and he ran his own...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There's a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don't get this for one simple reason.
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When A Good Thing Isn’t Enough
Eleanor had been with her partner for nearly a decade. They’d been through good times and bad times together. Nothing in their relationship made her suspect that he wasn’t committed. But last week he dropped a bombshell on her. He wanted out. He told her that the love...
Men’s Deepest Darkest Dating Fears
Men are scared. And they think the only people who can understand are other men. If women knew how they really felt about dating, they’d never get another date. A woman being pursued doesn’t want to know that her charming love interest is secretly filled with doubts,...
He’s Not Sure If He Can Commit
It's heartbreaking to fall in love with a guy who isn't sure. He's not sure he's in the right place for a relationship. He's not sure he can commit again. He’s been burned in the past. He's not sure he can be the man you need him to be. Even as he pushes you away, you...
Why You’re Exactly What He Needs
When you’re in your twenties, you assume you’ll meet the right person and grow old together. You don’t imagine yourself trying to fill out a dating profile in your sixties… But that’s where Candice found herself. After losing her husband, the golden years she’d...
When You Feel Unloved, Try This
It’s a sobering thought: There will be times in your relationship when you don’t feel loved. Even if it’s a great relationship. Even if you know you’ll be together for a lifetime. How you handle those periods is critical. If you panic, you might drive cracks into your...
Don’t Get Sucked Into The Spiral
If you turned the average relationship into a movie, this might be the plot... The Crush (Act 1) Two people meet. They’re excited to spend time together. They notice every delightful thing about each other. They’re at the beginning of a great adventure. They want to...
The Two Faces of Passion
He is your everything. There’s nothing you’d rather do than be with him. You’d face any obstacle to be by his side. Without him, life feels meaningless. That’s the pinnacle of romance: A love so obsessive and all-consuming that it defines you. Have you had a...
Is He Just Not That Into You? Or Is It Social Anxiety?
“I don’t get it, James,” Melanie said. “I thought we were really connecting. I was so excited about meeting up. But then it was like... he was a different person.” My heart went out to Melanie. When I’d seen her last week, she was brimming over with enthusiasm about...
Set Goals in Love
Until recently, Jenna believed she could achieve anything she set her mind to. It worked in her career, after all. She set big goals. She accomplished them. But it wasn’t working in her personal life. All she wanted, she told me, was to find her future husband. It...
A Threat to Your Relationship?
“I am so mad, James.” Lauryn threw her purse onto the table and sat down with a sigh. “You know that great guy I’ve been bragging to you about? I think he’s cheating on me.” I looked at her with concern. Not even her immaculate makeup could hide her fatigue. “That...
5 Things Men Are Insecure About (But Will Never Tell You)
Men act so confident. They act like they know what they're doing. They don't have hang-ups about their body. They think they're a catch (even when they're not). But everything is not what it seems... Deep down, many men are insecure and uncertain. They’ve been told...
5 Fun Relationship Tests
How do you know if he’s the one? Hint: the answer is NOT to take a 15-second TikTok challenge. Relationship tests have sprung up across social media, promising a window into your future as a couple. If your guy passes the test, then your relationship gets a vote of...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.