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Has He Fallen Out of Love With You? How to Know

Has He Fallen Out of Love With You? How to Know

Has this ever happened to you? You’re in what you think is a great relationship. You instantly connected with him. Soon he was saying all the beautiful things: he’s never met anyone like you, he wants to be with you, he thinks he’s falling for you. This is how love...

3 Ways to Spot a Love Avoidant Person

3 Ways to Spot a Love Avoidant Person

You’re with a man who acts like he doesn’t care about you half the time. Some of the time, he’s amazing. He’s passionate. He’s romantic. But then he pulls away. He barely sees you. He acts preoccupied. What’s going on? You may have fallen for a Love Avoidant. How It...

3 Casual Dating Traps to Avoid

3 Casual Dating Traps to Avoid

You thought you made it clear. You told him you wanted a relationship. And he agreed! He said he wanted a relationship, too. You believed him. But you’ve been seeing him for a while now, and you’re still not sure where this is going. He compliments you but never says...

Will You Be Happy with Him?

Will You Be Happy with Him?

It’s the golden question. If scientists knew the answer to this question, it would change the romantic landscape for good. If scientists could figure out the answer, we’d have less divorce, fewer breakups, and more 50th wedding anniversaries. There’s a lot on the...

5 Reasons He Makes You Feel Like An Emotional Wreck

5 Reasons He Makes You Feel Like An Emotional Wreck

“I don’t get it, James,” Kate said. “I’m confident in every other area of my life. But when it comes to him, I’m a wreck.” She gave me a sad smile. Love makes a lot of us feel that way. No matter how competent and capable we usually feel, love brings up all our...

Falling in Love? Don’t Screw It Up

Falling in Love? Don’t Screw It Up

“Oh, he’s amaaaazing,” Sasha said. “I wish you could meet him. I think he might be the one!!” I smiled. Sasha leaned in as if she was going to tell me a secret, “But I am so worried I’m going to screw this up!” It’s always a delight to hear someone gush about their...

9 Ways to “Speak Dating”

9 Ways to “Speak Dating”

These days, dating has its own language. You’ve probably already heard words like breadcrumbing, ghosting, and love bombing before… But you may not have heard about roaching, mosting, and hesidating. These new words can seem like unnecessary jargon… Until you go out...

This Tool Helps You Navigate The Pain of a Breakup

This Tool Helps You Navigate The Pain of a Breakup

As you can imagine, I’ve seen a lot of tears in my office. Love is an emotional topic. Some of the hardest moments happen during breakups. My clients tell me it hurts so much they can hardly breathe. They can’t bear it. They don’t know what to do. Should they beg him...

4 Ways to Make Him Attached to You

4 Ways to Make Him Attached to You

Perhaps you’ve been with a guy like this. He wants to spend time with you—sometimes. He says how much he loves you—sometimes. He makes future plans with you—sometimes. Other times, he isn’t there at all. He doesn’t call. He doesn’t text. He drops off the face of the...

Tips to Avoid Scammers When Dating Online

Tips to Avoid Scammers When Dating Online

It should be the easiest way to meet someone: Just sign up for a dating app! But so many women have gotten burned online. The gentlemen they were hoping to meet turned out to be scammers, catfishers, bots, or users. No wonder nearly 1 in 2 people say that using dating...

Always Nervous with Guys? Try This

Always Nervous with Guys? Try This

What do these situations have in common? You’re talking with an amazing guy and trying not to show how much you like him. You’re on a first date and terrified he’ll see how nervous you are. You have a fight with your partner just before you meet up with friends, and...

He Says He Loves Me But Doesn’t Act Like It

He Says He Loves Me But Doesn’t Act Like It

Has this ever happened to you? You’re with a man who says he loves you. You believe him. But his behavior doesn’t match his words. He says he wants to be with you, but he blows hot and cold. He says he loves you, but he won’t break off contact with his ex. You, on the...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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