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Novelty Makes Love Last

Novelty Makes Love Last

Every relationship starts to fade after a while. No, it’s not you. It’s not him, either. You can blame it on the way our brains are wired to prefer whatever...

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Will He Ever Change?

Will He Ever Change?

It’s so tempting to believe you can fix him. You can see the things about his personality that are holding him back. If only he’d let you, you could help him...

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3 Male Communication Secrets You Need to Know

3 Male Communication Secrets You Need to Know

Bethany was fed up. Her boyfriend Dan didn’t talk to her anymore. Well, it wasn’t that he didn’t talk to her. But they didn’t talk like they used to when they first got together. He didn’t seem interested in her anymore. They’d go out for a meal together, and instead...

3 Reasons You Feel Attracted to the Wrong People

3 Reasons You Feel Attracted to the Wrong People

Thinking back over every guy you’ve ever dated… Do you wonder why you picked some of them? Were there some mistakes? By that I mean guys who didn’t make you feel good? Did you ever behave in ways that were completely out of character for you? Did you ever date a guy...

“I’m So Mad at Him!”

“I’m So Mad at Him!”

It’s not fair. What he’s doing to you isn’t right. You’ve been nothing but wonderful to him. You’ve been there for him. You’ve put aside your own needs. You’ve been patient. And he doesn’t even try to change. Well, sometimes he tries. When he does, it’s amazing. It’s...

The Most Important First Date Questions You’ll Ever Ask

The Most Important First Date Questions You’ll Ever Ask

When you go on a first date, so many questions run through your head. Will he like me? Will I like him? What if we have nothing to say to each other? What if I say the wrong thing? Those questions keep circling in your mind, making you feel sick with worry. How am I...

Is He Wasting Your Time?

Is He Wasting Your Time?

A relationship is a HUGE investment of time and energy. And you’re investing your heart. Why would you give your heart to someone who just wants to play around? Sometimes, it’s easy to tell who the timewasters are. They’re the guys who admit they’re not looking for...

Bored in Your Relationship? Try These 3 Tips

Bored in Your Relationship? Try These 3 Tips

True or false: Being bored in your relationship is a red flag. When asked this question, many people would instinctively say yes. Being bored feels like a bad sign. No one wants to go somewhere boring, or talk to someone boring, or do something boring. So why would we...

Feeling Lonely in Your Relationship?

Feeling Lonely in Your Relationship?

When Briella fell for Nick, she knew she’d never be alone again. This was her twin flame. This was her soulmate. It was so easy to be with Nick that she found herself turning down invitations to go out with friends, so she could stay home with him. He understood her...

The Sad Reason Men LOVE It When You Compliment Them

The Sad Reason Men LOVE It When You Compliment Them

If you were dating a guy, and he NEVER complimented you on how you looked… You’d think something was wrong! How hard is it to say, “You look nice”? A compliment lets you know he’s attracted to you. It shows he’s paying attention. When you turn on the radio and hear a...

Best New Relationship Questions to Ask a Guy

Best New Relationship Questions to Ask a Guy

Half the problem on a date is keeping the conversation flowing. Unfortunately, most of the time that’s up to you. How many times have you found yourself carrying the entire conversation while the guy you’re with sits across from you, sips his drink, and nods every so...

3 Habits of Highly Attractive Women

3 Habits of Highly Attractive Women

Everyone has a “type.” The men you find attractive aren’t necessarily the same ones your best friend finds attractive. But if you take a group of men, chances are, you and your friends would agree on which are the most attractive of the bunch. That attractiveness...

What Men REALLY Want When They Do Something Nice for You

What Men REALLY Want When They Do Something Nice for You

If another woman does something nice for you, how do you respond? You thank her, of course… And then you probably start thinking of a way to repay her kindness! When someone does something nice for you, you do something nice for them. But what happens when a man does...

3 Questions That Help You Know If He’s The One

3 Questions That Help You Know If He’s The One

It’s one of those questions I get asked all the time: “How do I know if he’s the one, James?” My clients want to know if this is as good as it gets. What if there’s someone out there who’s better? What if they’re wasting time with the wrong man when Mr. Right is still...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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