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He Won’t Talk About Marriage

He Won’t Talk About Marriage

“I just can’t give anymore, James,” she told me. “I don’t know what to do.” Marissa had come to me with a request. She wanted to get married. She and her guy...

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The Secret Need That Drives Men

The Secret Need That Drives Men

Some of my clients tell me that they already know how to deal with men. “You’ve got to train a man like you train a dog,” they say. “Ignore his bad behavior...

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3 Signs He’s Not Over His Ex

3 Signs He’s Not Over His Ex

“James!” Kelli threw her bag on the floor and flung herself into the chair. “I knew it! I found the evidence.” “What evidence?” I asked. “He still has...

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3 Signs He’s A Good Long Term Partner

3 Signs He’s A Good Long Term Partner

He’s so much fun to date, but what will he be like in 20 years? If you’re dating with the goal of finding your future husband, you can’t just find a man you enjoy. You’ve got to figure out whether you’ll be able to make a good life together, which requires balancing...

Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

For as long as I’ve known Rachel, she’s wanted the same thing: A wonderful guy who treated her well and wanted to make a future with her. But the men in her life never quite fit that description. Every time I spoke to her, she’d be gushing about someone new. This guy...

A Scientifically-Proven Secret to Lasting Love

A Scientifically-Proven Secret to Lasting Love

Cecilia was describing her new boyfriend to me. “It’s fun, it’s exciting, but when I’ve needed him, he isn’t there. It feels like I can’t share everything that’s going on in my life with him, because he tunes out. I think he finds it annoying when I talk too much.”...

Should I Go No Contact?

Should I Go No Contact?

I’m sometimes asked whether I think the No Contact Rule works. For those of you unfamiliar with the term, the No Contact Rule refers to ceasing all contact with your ex for about 30 days after a breakup. You don’t text, you don’t comment on his posts, you don’t ask...

When Generosity Backfires

When Generosity Backfires

“Give more than you get.” It’s such a beautiful philosophy. It inspires generosity, selflessness, and a sense of abundance. But there’s one place where giving more than you get can backfire spectacularly: Uncommitted relationships. When you show a man how much you...

Try This If You’re Frustrated with Your Love Life

Try This If You’re Frustrated with Your Love Life

You have been working so hard. You’ve been pouring time and energy into finding the right guy, or making things work with this guy, or just being the best version of you so you’re ready when Mr. Right shows up. And sometimes a little voice whispers inside your head…...

How to Heal a Broken Heart: 3 Tips

How to Heal a Broken Heart: 3 Tips

What’s the #1 reason people don’t get into relationships? You know this… It’s because they’re worried about getting hurt. And why are they worried? Because they’ve been there before. That first big breakup can scar you for life. The pain swamps you. You NEVER want to...

How to Spot Commitment-Minded Guys

How to Spot Commitment-Minded Guys

When Dora met her college boyfriend, they were instantly inseparable. She knew from the beginning that they’d be together forever. They talked about the future. Even their parents assumed they’d get married. But as graduation neared, her boyfriend began pulling away....

Why He Gets Turned Off When You Show Too Much Interest

Why He Gets Turned Off When You Show Too Much Interest

If you met Kyla at a social event, you might see her as standoffish. It takes a lot before she lets down her guard or starts to smile. What you wouldn’t know is that this isn’t really who she is. Around her friends, Kyla is a different person. Silly, warm and caring....

Is He Bad at Texting or Just Not Interested?

Is He Bad at Texting or Just Not Interested?

He could at least text back. How long does it take? 30 seconds? When you get a text, you write back right away, unless you’re in the middle of something. And even then you make sure he knows you’re not ignoring him. You dash off an emoji, or you text back just as soon...

I Feel Alone Even When I’m With Him

I Feel Alone Even When I’m With Him

It wasn’t supposed to be like this. You found a great guy. You get along well. You should be happy. But something feels different in your relationship. Even when he’s with you, it doesn’t feel like he’s with you. He’s distracted. He’s listening and saying, “Uh huh,”...

Text Message Connections Fizzling Out Early?

Text Message Connections Fizzling Out Early?

It’s so fun to text back and forth with someone new. You feel like you’re really getting to know each other. It’s SO much easier to flirt. You can type things you’d never say in person. You can ask your friends for ideas. You can even text him in your pajamas, no...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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