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How to Get Over the Shame of a Breakup

How to Get Over the Shame of a Breakup

It’s tough when women come into my office suffering from a recently-ended relationship. They want to get over it, they want to move on and meet someone new, but the pain of loss keeps tripping them up. I admire these women greatly. They’ve gone through a terrible...

Brené Brown Wants You to Drop Your Armor

Brené Brown Wants You to Drop Your Armor

Brené Brown is everywhere. If you didn’t catch her TED talk or her appearance on Oprah’s SuperSoul conversations, you might have seen her recent Netflix documentary “The Call to Courage.” Even though she’s a shame and vulnerability researcher (which wouldn’t seem to...

The Power of a 6-Second Kiss

The Power of a 6-Second Kiss

New couples make out… Old couples give each other a peck on the cheek. The longer you’re together, the more habitual your kissing becomes. You don’t need to make out for hours when you’ve been sleeping in the same bed for years. You take each other’s physical presence...

3 Surprising First Date Conversation Tips

3 Surprising First Date Conversation Tips

You’re on a first date, and you really want to make it to a second date. Should you: (a) Talk about him, or (b) talk about yourself?(a) Ask lots of questions, or (b) not ask questions?(a) Play it cool, or (b) get excited? I’ll give you a clue. The answer is either all...

How Do You Know if You’re Compatible with Someone?

How Do You Know if You’re Compatible with Someone?

When I ran into my friend Kalia the other day, I was amazed at how relaxed and happy she looked. Her hair was styled in the same light brown bob as always, and she was casually dressed in jeans and a t-shirt, but she looked like she’d stepped straight off the plane...

Crazy Hacks to Boost Your Online Dating Success

Crazy Hacks to Boost Your Online Dating Success

You’re picking an online dating profile picture. Which picture do you choose? The one of you dressed up and smiling at the camera.The one of you pouting at the camera in a cleavage-baring top.The one of you biting into an enormous grilled cheese sandwich. Hold that...

How Dating Has Changed in the 21st Century

How Dating Has Changed in the 21st Century

Every year for the past eight years, online dating giant Match.com has surveyed singles across America. They wanted to know what makes a great first date, whether hookups ever lead to a committed relationship, and whether old-fashioned gender expectations still hold...

3 Communication Secrets to Boost Conversation Quality

3 Communication Secrets to Boost Conversation Quality

Bethany will never forget the last meal out she had with the man she thought she was going to marry. They’d gone to their favorite Mexican restaurant, the scene of so many happy times. They ate in silence. She asked him how work was. He grunted. She asked him if he...

Do You Have Chemistry with Him?  (The #1 Factor that Matters Most!)

Do You Have Chemistry with Him? (The #1 Factor that Matters Most!)

You’re getting ready to go out on a first date with a guy you met online. What’s the single most important factor in determining whether you have chemistry? How much you have in commonHow well you flirtHow you lookHow you smell I’ll tell you the answer in just a...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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