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Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.

 

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3 Relationship Non-Negotiables

3 Relationship Non-Negotiables

When you meet a guy, the very first question you ask yourself is: “Do I like him?” If the answer is yes, the next question is: “Do I have fun with him?” And...

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3 Rules for Understanding Men

3 Rules for Understanding Men

Let’s test your man knowledge! True or false? Men are not as emotional as women.Men prioritize looks in the opposite sex.Men think about you-kn0w-what every 7...

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10 Reasons Why Your Ex Keeps Texting You After The Breakup

10 Reasons Why Your Ex Keeps Texting You After The Breakup

Why is he doing this? He’s still calling and texting you, even though he’s the one who broke up with you. He said he didn’t want a relationship. So why is he acting as if you’re still in one? Could it be that he’s missing you? Does he regret breaking up with you? Does...

Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?

Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?

Not to boast, but you’re a pretty awesome person. You look after yourself. You’re kind. You’re positive. You make other people feel good. So why are you still single? Why don’t guys even notice you? The Changing World of Dating My older clients tell me dating was...

The 6th Love Language

The 6th Love Language

Kylie didn’t understand what went wrong. It was all going so well. Chase was funny and cute and warm and shy, and she loved spending time with him. She did all of her “good girlfriend” tricks. She surprised him with special food. She texted him every morning so he’d...

When He Won’t Grow Up

When He Won’t Grow Up

Many women ask me the question, “How can I make him grow up?” Many men are mature, respectful, and excellent at getting things done. Yet this immaturity thing is a more common complaint than you’d think. Women who ask me about this are struggling with boyfriends who...

The Case of the Disappearing Men

The Case of the Disappearing Men

I’ve heard this story so many times. A guy really likes a girl, so he tries to come up with reasons to talk to her. He starts showing up in the same places she frequents. He strikes up little conversations with her. He builds up the courage to ask her out. Then, out...

5 Red Flags that Drive Great Men Away

5 Red Flags that Drive Great Men Away

You like him. But you don’t know what he thinks of you. You lie awake at night wondering: Does he like me? Does he find me attractive? Does he see me as relationship material? It’s so frustrating not to know! If you could get inside a man’s mind and read his thoughts,...

Sometimes? He’s an Insensitive Jerk

Sometimes? He’s an Insensitive Jerk

Layla thought this had potential. He was funny, he was hot, he had great dance moves, and his big brown eyes and soulful smile warmed her from the inside. But sometimes he did things that seemed super-insensitive. Like going off with his friends and forgetting to...

5 Surprising Things Men Find Beautiful in Women

5 Surprising Things Men Find Beautiful in Women

Magazines are full of pictures of beautiful women. Women with perfect bodies. Women with glossy hair. Women who look amazing, relaxed, and radiant. You look at those pictures in magazines, then you look in the mirror. And you wonder: What do men see when they look at...

When Things Get “Emotionally Weird”

When Things Get “Emotionally Weird”

Meghan was enjoying her new companion. They had great conversations. He was so interesting. They shared a lot of the same opinions about the world. And he was so generous and thoughtful. He picked up pretty rocks for her, because he knew she collected them. He was...

No Second Date. Could This Be Why?

No Second Date. Could This Be Why?

This guy seems okay. You’re not sure about him, but he’s nice enough. The conversation was good. If he asked you, you’d probably see him again. But after you go home from your date, you check your phone… And nothing. Tomorrow … still nothing. He doesn’t contact you...

3 Tips to Make Your Profile Pic Catches His Eye

3 Tips to Make Your Profile Pic Catches His Eye

You know your photo matters more than it should. Even on online dating platforms like eHarmony, which prioritize compatibility over looks, men spend more time looking at photos than they do reading your profile. OkCupid found that text contributes to less than 10% of...

When You’re Not the Key That Fits His Lock

When You’re Not the Key That Fits His Lock

Let’s talk about rejection. You find someone you really like, and it doesn’t work out. He doesn’t feel the same. Or, even worse, he does feel the same … for a while. Then he yanks the rug out from under you. Goodbye, heaven. Everyone has to learn to deal with...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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