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Guys Want You to Tease Them

Guys Want You to Tease Them

When you go out on a date with someone new, what is your goal? To impress him. To get to know him. To ramp up the heat. To get playful. Now, we all hope that...

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Make Better Decisions in Love

Make Better Decisions in Love

Do you make good decisions in love? Let’s find out! Question #1: You like a guy at work. Despite your best efforts to get him to ask you out, it’s clear that...

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The Secret Need That Drives Men

The Secret Need That Drives Men

Some of my clients tell me that they already know how to deal with men. “You’ve got to train a man like you train a dog,” they say. “Ignore his bad behavior...

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14 Days to Becoming Irresistible

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He Won’t Work on the Relationship

He Won’t Work on the Relationship

He won’t work on the relationship. He won’t do ANYTHING. He says things are fine as they are. He says there’s nothing to talk about. And what you hear is: “I don’t care how you feel.” “I can’t be bothered to lift a finger.” “You’re not worth of my effort.” You’re...

Has Tinder Killed Relationships?

Has Tinder Killed Relationships?

More and more often, I’ve been hearing from women that relationships are dead. Men don’t want to get to know you anymore. They just want to jump into bed. Even though these women state clearly in their profiles that they want a relationship, the men they meet have...

3 Ways to Be Braver in Love

3 Ways to Be Braver in Love

Researchers put out a pitcher of lemonade and poured a glass for some boys and girls. The boys tasted the lemonade and made a face. “Gross!” said one. “It tastes terrible,” said the other. The girls tasted the lemonade. “It tastes good,” one said politely. Another...

5 Ways to Say No to Him

5 Ways to Say No to Him

You finally meet someone you like… And he pressures you to do something you don’t want to do. You’re convinced he’ll lose interest in you if you don’t do it. It’s been so hard to find someone you actually like, who returns your interest... That you go ahead with what...

The Only Male Mind Hack You’ll Ever Need

The Only Male Mind Hack You’ll Ever Need

Your guy has been acting strangely lately. He seems distracted. He’s not as affectionate. He doesn’t seem to want to spend as much time together. You worry that his feelings for you are cooling. If that’s the case, you need to act fast to save your relationship. How...

3 Secrets You Must Know about Men

3 Secrets You Must Know about Men

Look, I get it. As a man who helps women achieve happier romantic outcomes with guys, I know it sometimes seems like men are from another planet. You don’t know why guys do the things they do. They don’t make sense. But men were born on the same planet as everyone...

Classic Dating Advice That REALLY Works

Classic Dating Advice That REALLY Works

You met this guy, and you REALLY like him. You can’t help telling your friends all about him… Dreaming about him while you’re supposed to be focusing at work… Wondering when he’s going to call. The only reason you’ve gone back on the online dating app is to see if...

3 Commandments of Online Dating

3 Commandments of Online Dating

Online dating is getting better. Fifteen years ago, less than half of online daters ever made it out on an actual date. There were a lot of time-wasters. That’s changed. These days, 2 in 3 online daters have made it off the computer and onto a real-world date. And 1...

3 Reasons Guys Stop Trying Once They Have You

3 Reasons Guys Stop Trying Once They Have You

When you met your guy, it was amazing. He treated you like a queen. He took you out. He listened. He wanted to learn everything you liked so he could give it to you. You felt seen, treasured, appreciated…. Everything you’d ever hoped for. So why does he do NONE of...

The Case of the Disappearing Men

The Case of the Disappearing Men

I’ve heard this story so many times. A guy really likes a girl, so he tries to come up with reasons to talk to her. He starts showing up in the same places she frequents. He strikes up little conversations with her. He builds up the courage to ask her out. Then, out...

5 Red Flags that Drive Great Men Away

5 Red Flags that Drive Great Men Away

You like him. But you don’t know what he thinks of you. You lie awake at night wondering: Does he like me? Does he find me attractive? Does he see me as relationship material? It’s so frustrating not to know! If you could get inside a man’s mind and read his thoughts,...

When Things Get “Emotionally Weird”

When Things Get “Emotionally Weird”

Meghan was enjoying her new companion. They had great conversations. He was so interesting. They shared a lot of the same opinions about the world. And he was so generous and thoughtful. He picked up pretty rocks for her, because he knew she collected them. He was...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy