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Why Do So Many Guys Lie Online?

Why Do So Many Guys Lie Online?

It’s one of the worst parts about dating: The effort you put into guys who turn out to be time-wasters. You spend hours texting or chatting online, you talk on the phone, and you build up high hopes… Only to go out with him and realize he’s nothing like you thought he...

When Should You Tell Him Your Secret?

When Should You Tell Him Your Secret?

You’ve been holding something back from the guy you’re dating. You want him to like you. You don’t want to bring up any deal-breakers right when you’re getting to know each other. Maybe, if you wait just a little longer, he’ll be so into you that it won’t matter....

Is This the Simplest, Easiest Way to Date Online?

Is This the Simplest, Easiest Way to Date Online?

You’re chatting with this guy online. He seems fun. He asks interesting questions. He tells you cute anecdotes about himself. And so when he asks for your number, you give it to him. Why not? But what you don’t realize is… That person you’ve been messaging is NOT the...

The Power of Heart-Oriented Dating

The Power of Heart-Oriented Dating

Janice threw herself down into my office chair with a sigh. One look at her told me how well her last week of dating had gone. “So!” I said. “Anyone interesting?” “Anyone psychopathic, more like it.” Janice groaned. “I know we talked about connecting on dates instead...

Why Men Pay for 1st Dates and Other Male Mysteries

Why Men Pay for 1st Dates and Other Male Mysteries

Ever wondered why men pay for first dates? Or why men keep talking to you, even when you’ve made it clear you’re not interested? Male behavior is full of mysteries. Like why men message you through an online dating site, when all they have to do is read your profile...

How to End a Date So He’ll Want to See You Again

How to End a Date So He’ll Want to See You Again

You had a great time. He was fun. You had tons to talk about. You laughed like crazy. The date stretched on for hours. You’re sure he likes you—and the feeling is mutual. But as you walk towards the parking lot together, you start to feel nervous. Goodbyes always make...

Why Is He Sending Suggestive Pictures—And How Can You Get Him to Stop?

Why Is He Sending Suggestive Pictures—And How Can You Get Him to Stop?

Charlene was annoyed. “All I get are guys sending me disgusting pictures,” she told me. “Don’t they get that I don’t want to see them naked? They’ve got a serious problem if they think a photo like that is going to turn a woman on.” “So there’s not a single guy who’s...

Your Ideal Partner Might Just Be A Psychologically Androgynous Man

Your Ideal Partner Might Just Be A Psychologically Androgynous Man

Brenda loved being with Kirk. He took charge. He arranged amazing dates, ordered her foods she’d never imagined trying, and gave her the courage to leave her comfort zone and follow his lead. She told me she’d never been with anyone so masculine. She was enjoying the...

3 Surprising Hacks to Ace a First Impression

3 Surprising Hacks to Ace a First Impression

It’s nerve-wracking enough to message someone online. But then to meet them in person? Terrifying! You can always put your best foot forward online. You can think about what you want to say before you type it. You can post that one photo (out of the dozens you took)...

2 Dating Strategies That Get You What You Want

2 Dating Strategies That Get You What You Want

Which dating strategy appeals most to you? Get lots of male attention by learning exactly what to do to make men notice you and want you.Find your future husband by leading with your most authentic, vulnerable self. Every woman needs a different strategy at different...

Flaky Behavior in Guys? My top Solution

Flaky Behavior in Guys? My top Solution

Think of the last guy who really flaked on you. What did he do? Didn’t text/call you back. Disappeared on you. Didn’t show up for a date. These days, it’s common for someone to vanish off the face of the earth, whether it’s ghosting (in which he disappears for good)...

Brené Brown Wants You to Drop Your Armor

Brené Brown Wants You to Drop Your Armor

Brené Brown is everywhere. If you didn’t catch her TED talk or her appearance on Oprah’s SuperSoul conversations, you might have seen her recent Netflix documentary “The Call to Courage.” Even though she’s a shame and vulnerability researcher (which wouldn’t seem to...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy