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Best New Relationship Questions to Ask a Guy
Half the problem on a date is keeping the conversation flowing. Unfortunately, most of the time that’s up to you. How many times have you found yourself...
3 Habits of Highly Attractive Women
Everyone has a “type.” The men you find attractive aren’t necessarily the same ones your best friend finds attractive. But if you take a group of men, chances...
What Men REALLY Want When They Do Something Nice for You
If another woman does something nice for you, how do you respond? You thank her, of course… And then you probably start thinking of a way to repay her...
3 Questions That Help You Know If He’s The One
It’s one of those questions I get asked all the time: “How do I know if he’s the one, James?” My clients want to know if this is as good as it gets. What if...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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How to win at love (no matter what)
Love is a paradox. Those who are clearly on a quest to be loved end up weakened by their efforts. Their hearts are always on their sleeves. They're dependent on others to make them feel whole. It's a desperate way to live. But those who give love away without agenda...
Don’t Pay It Forward
Granted, it sucks to get burned. You trusted someone, and they let you down. Maybe they cheated on you. Maybe they lied. Maybe they didn't follow-through on a really important promise. It hurts. The temptation when that happens is to allow the experience to carry over...
Ask Him This…
Have you ever wondered why he likes you? What is it about you that he enjoys most? It’s an important question to ask. Unfortunately, a lot of people simply don’t ask. They assume they know why their partner is into them. That’s a big mistake, and here’s why. Like the...
The Perfect Date for Your Long Term Relationship
Are your dates beginning to feel a little stale and predictable? It happens. Dinner and a movie is exciting the first time you share it with someone new, but it can become ho-hum after a while. So what do you do to inject some energy and passion into your dates? I...
Every relationship improves when you add “The Awesome Equation”
Today I want to inspire you to do something simple. It's simple because it's what you already do best. But before I get to that I want to talk about the energy you bring to your relationship interactions. I'd like to challenge you to take responsibility for the energy...
Build Trust with Your Partner
Arthur Ashe is credited with saying, "Trust has to be earned, and should come only after the passage of time." That's the conventional wisdom. We think of trust as something people earn from us. But is that the best way to build trust? Surface level trust is common....
Relationship Constraints
Any time you hit a brick wall and lose momentum, there’s a good chance you have run up against a bottleneck, a constraint that holds back your progress. When you find ways to remove those constraints, it becomes possible to make a lot of progress really fast. The key...
Aphrodisiacs and Magic Beans
Each year around Valentine’s Day, food and recipe magazines feature articles about aphrodisiacs. I’m sure you’ve seen them. The idea is that snacking on certain foods will put couples in the mood for something more intimate. To be fair, the things we eat do produce...
Driving You Crazy
It’s the formula for classic romance. It’s why Harry runs to Sally in the middle of the night in When Harry Met Sally. It’s why Noah tells Allie, “We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you,” in The Notebook. And it’s why Mark...
Only Be Exclusive When the Timing Is Right
Nothing is better than falling in love. But...it's not always in your best interest to be exclusive early in the relationship. Let me explain why. First, a quick story to illustrate something important. I received a letter from a division of the US military requesting...
Nine Ways to Woo Your Man
Everyone likes small, unexpected gifts. But if you want to surprise your man with something pleasant, flowers and chocolates aren't the way to go. Instead, you need to think outside the box. Below you'll find a list of 9 simple things you can do to delight the guy in...
Men Who Placate to Avoid Disagreements
She steps out of the fitting room, still fidgeting with the dress. He can see the question on her face before she says anything. “How does it look?” she asks. They’ve been at it for more than an hour, trying to find the perfect dress for the party. He’s having a hard...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.