Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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3 Questions That Help You Know If He’s The One
It’s one of those questions I get asked all the time: “How do I know if he’s the one, James?” My clients want to know if this is as good as it gets. What if...
Why Men Hate Conflict (& What to Do about It)
Keri never got angry. She saw herself as a calm person who got things done and didn’t get caught up in drama. But inside she was starting to snap. She loved...
How to be a one-of-a-kind girlfriend
Every so often, a study comes out that makes me want to cheer. I can talk about the importance of being yourself as much as I like. But unless there’s...
5 Body Language Signals You’re Probably Missing
The benefits of being able to read body language are obvious: You know if he’s interested even if he’s not saying a word. You know if he’s NOT interested...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Lover’s Quarrel? Try this “Eject Button” to End Arguments Fast
"You said that just to hurt me!" It hurts (a lot) when someone you care for doubts your motives. It's one of the most upsetting things in the world. It's a recipe for an epic fight. When you're upset, point out the actions that make you feel hurt. Don't accuse your...
Four Text Messages to Avoid
Text messages are great. They allow for quick communication practically anywhere. When you're dating someone, they have the very real potential to help your relationship grow. But they can also hinder it. A lot of people rely on text messages to get something more...
Unlock His Desire to Be with You. Try This One Simple Idea Tonight
You probably have a guy in mind right now. He's the reason you signed up to receive my emails, right? Well that makes me happy. Because I have a lot of valuable ideas to share with you. Starting with this one... I'm going to show you an easy way to unlock your natural...
A Simple Method for Enjoying Life
I'd like to show you something interesting. Allow me to do an experiment on your brain. To play along, just allow your mind and imagination to wander, using the words on this page as your guide. Imagine that, right now, you have an abundance of everything you need....
How Music Can Make You Seem More Beautiful
When I was 7 years old, my parents gave me a special gift. It was a small, white, electric piano. It was more of a toy than anything else, with terrible sound quality and powered by two AA batteries. Yet it had enough power to generate a painful experience early in my...
Things Interesting People Do
Some people just fascinate me. Sometimes I'm not entirely sure why. But one of my goals is to live a truly interesting life. So when I meet someone who seems very interesting, I pay attention. In trying to figure out what makes interesting people interesting. I've...
How to Find Common Ground Fast
Finding common ground is one of the fastest ways to build a feeling of warmth. It's how we establish familiarity with people we've just met. It's also a surprisingly good way to restore feelings of connection with an existing partner. But how do you find new common...
Why Your Flirting Style Matters
Which style of flirting do you use most? Research at the University of Kansas with more than 10,000 people revealed five distinct flirting styles. It turns out the type of flirting you use can influence the types of relationships you end up in. Dr. Jeffrey Hall is the...
The Art of “Exclusive” Flirting
Do you know the difference between "broadcast" flirting and "exclusive" flirting? Broadcast flirting is on display for everyone to see. When a woman uses broadcast flirting, everyone around can see what she's up to. For example, it's broadcast flirting when Debbie...
Relationship Decisions that Bind You
Part of you want is to lay on the beach, get a tan, or just relax and do nothing. But another part of you wants to work hard, live out your life goals, and make a difference in the world. Part of you wants to get lean, but another part of you would rather eat brownies...
How to Rekindle His Romantic Interest in You
Hey, it's James again. Here's day 2 of your 14 day attraction tips course. It's just a preview of the kind of advice and insights I offer. That way, you can make an informed decision about whether or not to stay on my subscriber list. If you already know you don't...
Is Your Relationship Changing?
Everything was going great. Karen was happy. Really happy. Her relationship with Doug was three months old. They'd enjoyed a thrilling, fun period of getting to know each other, and that's when the trouble started. "What's the problem?" a friend asked her. "Life," she...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.