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Novelty Makes Love Last

Novelty Makes Love Last

Every relationship starts to fade after a while. No, it’s not you. It’s not him, either. You can blame it on the way our brains are wired to prefer whatever...

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Will He Ever Change?

Will He Ever Change?

It’s so tempting to believe you can fix him. You can see the things about his personality that are holding him back. If only he’d let you, you could help him...

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Feeling Vulnerable?  Use it to Your Advantage

Feeling Vulnerable? Use it to Your Advantage

A wonderful woman came to me one day and said, “James, I want you to fix me.” I was taken aback. She explained: “I want you to tell me everything I’m doing wrong. I want to know the right way to do it. I’ll change, and then I’ll finally meet the right man. I just know...

3 Ingredients for a Spicy Relationship

3 Ingredients for a Spicy Relationship

Bad relationship advice is everywhere. Not too long ago, I read an article[i] in a well-known women’s magazine that was full of shady suggestions. Here’s one of the worst. The writer claimed you should never have to ask how to stoke the passion in your love life....

Use this Force field on Your Ex

Use this Force field on Your Ex

If a man you loved ended the relationship, does that say anything about you? Did you do something wrong to make it end? Did he see something in your personality that made him turn away? Your answers reveal how well you deal with rejection. That’s the word from a study...

How to Know if He’s a Keeper

How to Know if He’s a Keeper

Jenn feels confused. She’s been dating Rick for about three months. They have fun together, but she’s past the point of dating purely for entertainment. She’s looking for a real relationship. The problem is she doesn’t know if Rick is that guy. He’s nice, attractive,...

When Something Doesn’t Feel Quite Right

When Something Doesn’t Feel Quite Right

You know more than you think. Female intuition is powerful. It can be considered a woman’s “sixth sense.” If you’re not using it in relationships, you’re missing out on an important source of information. For example, have you ever felt as if your relationship was...

Use This Communication Experiment to Enhance Bonding

Use This Communication Experiment to Enhance Bonding

Kristina Wright[1] is busy. She’s a full-time freelance writer, wife, and mother of two. Spare time. Kristina doesn’t have it. In spite of that, she describes her connection with her husband as profoundly tight. “We are together even when we are apart,” she says....

Two Solutions for All-Day Fights

Two Solutions for All-Day Fights

We are more vulnerable to being hurt by someone we love. Their opinion matters more. Their actions or disregard for our feelings can sting more deeply. That’s why you can find yourself in a fight that seems to last all day. The fight rages from the kitchen to the...

Do You Make This Online Dating Mistake?

Do You Make This Online Dating Mistake?

I used to have this friend. He would initiate plans for us to hang out. But at the last minute a more exciting opportunity would come up. Something he thought sounded more exciting. Time after time, he ditched plans he already had with me or his other friends. Here’s...

One Surefire Way to Ruin Your Relationship

One Surefire Way to Ruin Your Relationship

Let’s consider a crazy idea. Suppose you were on a mission to wreck your current relationship. How would you do it? Sure, there are thousands of ways to slay intimacy, but is there one that trumps all the rest? You bet. And it doesn’t just work. It works really well....

How to Keep Worry from Capsizing a Date

How to Keep Worry from Capsizing a Date

Does self-doubt get in your way? Does it take some of the fun out of dating? For me, one of the hardest things to see is wonderful women who doubt themselves. They can’t see all the qualities they have that would make a man fall in love. They worry about how they come...

Draw Him Closer by Feeding Him This

Draw Him Closer by Feeding Him This

The male ego is a strange beast. On one hand, men are proud creatures. They like to feel independent, strong and respected. But they can also be big babies. Sometimes really big babies. Dealing with your guy’s ego is kind of like feeding a lion. If you don’t give it...

Why You Should Be Taking More Risks in Love

Why You Should Be Taking More Risks in Love

No one wants to get their heart broken. Which means there’s nothing more dangerous than liking someone. If you like someone, you’re taking a HUGE risk. He may not like you back. He may seem to like you at first, only to stop calling. Even worse, you may fall deeply in...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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