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Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic...
4 Steps to Defuse His Emotional Triggers
It was just a comment. All Amanda did was ask Ethan to pitch in to get chores done. Okay, maybe she mentioned the fact that all he was doing was sitting on...
Know That You’re His One-and-Only
A long time ago, I was standing in one of those lines. You know the ones. Glaciers move faster. Might as well pitch a tent and break out the freeze-dried...
What Does Respect in a Relationship Look Like?
“She doesn’t respect me, so why should I have to respect her?” Dillon leaned forward, certain I’d agree with him. But Jayla cut in with a shrug of her...
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More Commitment Articles
Use This Communication Experiment to Enhance Bonding
Kristina Wright[1] is busy. She’s a full-time freelance writer, wife, and mother of two. Spare time. Kristina doesn’t have it. In spite of that, she describes her connection with her husband as profoundly tight. “We are together even when we are apart,” she says....
Two Solutions for All-Day Fights
We are more vulnerable to being hurt by someone we love. Their opinion matters more. Their actions or disregard for our feelings can sting more deeply. That’s why you can find yourself in a fight that seems to last all day. The fight rages from the kitchen to the...
One Surefire Way to Ruin Your Relationship
Let’s consider a crazy idea. Suppose you were on a mission to wreck your current relationship. How would you do it? Sure, there are thousands of ways to slay intimacy, but is there one that trumps all the rest? You bet. And it doesn’t just work. It works really well....
Draw Him Closer by Feeding Him This
The male ego is a strange beast. On one hand, men are proud creatures. They like to feel independent, strong and respected. But they can also be big babies. Sometimes really big babies. Dealing with your guy’s ego is kind of like feeding a lion. If you don’t give it...
The Defining Romantic Moment
You may be waiting for a moment that’s never going to come. Remember the big finale in How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days? Kate Hudson thinks the entire romance has been a lie. Heartbroken, she’s on her way out of town. And then McConaughey realizes he loves her. He goes...
A Sneaky Way to Connect with Your Man
Be for what you want. Not against what you don't want. I think Mother Teresa was brilliant when she responded to a question by saying "I'm not against war. I'm for peace." Whatever you are against becomes a bigger part of your life. If you are against your irritating...
Introducing “The Butterfly Method” to Survive the Storms in Your Relationship
People will judge you for trying hard. I did it just the other day. I was standing in line at Walmart. The line was moving slow, and I couldn’t help but notice something. Walmart had invested in 30 cash registers, yet only two of them were open. I snickered at how...
The Recipe for an Amazing Intimate Connection
Which is more dangerous? Sharing too much too soon? Or not sharing enough? Either can kill a developing relationship. The trick is finding balance. I’ve known people at both extremes. I think of one friend in particular. We knew each other for nearly a year before I...
Master Romantic Relationships with One Rule
Want to master dating and relationships? Then just learn one rule. Sure, relationships are complex. There are a lot of moving parts. But there’s one guiding principle that brings everything else into alignment. It’s just one rule, and it’s so important that nothing...
The “Passion Killer” Emotion. Do You Have It?
Indifference. It's the saddest feeling in the world. Which is ironic, because indifference isn't a feeling at all. It's the opposite of a feeling. An indifferent person is like a car with no gas. People reach a point of indifference when there's just nothing left in...
The Best Way to Introduce Your New Boyfriend
The two of you bump into an acquaintance. "Oh! Jane! Hi. Nice to see you too. Uh, yes, this is my...my..." My what? You can't skip the introduction. That would be rude. But what if you haven't had a "state of the relationship" talk? What if nothing's been defined?...
How to Handle Criticism from Your Partner
Pamela looks at her friend with wide eyes. "How did you respond?" she asks. Jenn is clearly on edge. "What do you think I said? I told him I don't appreciate all the negativity. I mean, it's not like he's perfect. I don't want to date someone who's just going to...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
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I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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