Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Discover attraction, dating, commitment, heartache, healing and ex back guidance for any relationship.
The Power of Heart-Oriented Dating
Janice threw herself down into my office chair with a sigh. One look at her told me how well her last week of dating had gone. “So!” I said. “Anyone...
Why Men Pay for 1st Dates and Other Male Mysteries
Ever wondered why men pay for first dates? Or why men keep talking to you, even when you’ve made it clear you’re not interested? Male behavior is full of...
How to End a Date So He’ll Want to See You Again
You had a great time. He was fun. You had tons to talk about. You laughed like crazy. The date stretched on for hours. You’re sure he likes you—and the...
Do You Get Angry at Your Boyfriend?
You are so angry at him, you can’t think straight. You don’t even want him around. If he says one more thing, you might just blow your top. So you take a...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There's a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don't get this for one simple reason.
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Don’t Marry Up (Or Down)
Interesting research from the University of Wisconsin evaluated over 500 couples to see how inequality between partners influences the satisfaction of the relationship in the long term. By "inequality" the researchers meant a variety of variables such as unusual...
Deepen Communication With This Method
Some of the most interesting things people have learned about communication have come from the field of couples therapy. There is one intimacy-deepening communication method that has spread from counseling rooms to business board rooms and even to government training...
Want Romantic Bliss? Use My Top 10 List for Choosing a Lifelong Partner
Here is my top ten list of qualities you will want to look for in a man. I share this list with you as a dating coach, but also as a person with a deep desire to see good women end up with worthy men. I want YOU to end up with someone who will treasure his...
This is Embarrassing
As a dating consultant, I often get feedback from my clients about what seemed to help and what didn't. Today I'm sharing one piece of advice that never fails to result in enthusiastic feedback from my clients. It's so simple, it's embarrassing. Are you...
Response To A Personal Question From Becky
Becky asked a question in response to my Be Brave post. I asked her if we could share her question, as I suspect many others have dealt with the issue she brings up. Thanks, Becky, for giving me permission to address this question publicly for the...
Force a Man To Like You More with this One Graceful Response
Do you feel awkward when someone pays you a genuine complement? Do you experience a sudden increase in self-consciousness? Do you stammer or say nothing while averting your gaze? Do you hit the person that complimented you and accuse him of lying (in a childish...
Happier and Thinner
Hey its James. I hope this post will inspire you to take one simple action...exercise. If the effects of physical exercise could be bottled and sold in the form of a pill, sales of that pill would exceed all other medications combined. Physical exercise is now...
Be Ready for This Question BEFORE He Asks You
Hey, it's James with a tip for the early phase of a dating relationship. "So, what do you do for fun?" It's a question that usually comes a little while after, "What do you do for a living?" and, "Where are you from?" Few people are adequately prepared to answer this...
From Mysterious to Genuine
Hey, it's James with a message for those of you who like to use a little mystery to add an extra spark at the start of a relationship. Imagine this, Janice is on her second date with Ted. Janice is particularly good with her eyes. She can communicate more with her...
My Friend Breathes Music
Do you have this superpower? My friend is a social worker with a difficult job working on the inpatient unit of a mental health hospital. She has a forty-minute commute to work each day. I was talking with her about an audiobook I was listening to while driving to my...
Be Brave
Hey its James. I hope this post will inspire you to take one simple action...exercise. If the effects of physical exercise could be bottled and sold in the form of a pill, sales of that pill would exceed all other medications combined. Physical exercise is...
Protect Yourself from False Relationships. And Get A Guy That Makes Your Heart Sing
Angie was excited when she met Scott. He seemed to be everything she wanted. An embodiment of the very affirmation she held over the past two months while working with me as her relationship coach. I knew she was truly smitten with love when she said, "He just makes...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.