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3 “Gifts” to Make Your Guy Feel Incredibly Loved
Long-term relationships are comfortable. You’re used to each other. You’ve got your routine. You no longer wake up every single morning thinking, “I’m so...
Why Do So Many Guys Lie Online?
It’s one of the worst parts about dating: The effort you put into guys who turn out to be time-wasters. You spend hours texting or chatting online, you talk...
When Should You Tell Him Your Secret?
You’ve been holding something back from the guy you’re dating. You want him to like you. You don’t want to bring up any deal-breakers right when you’re...
Is This the Simplest, Easiest Way to Date Online?
You’re chatting with this guy online. He seems fun. He asks interesting questions. He tells you cute anecdotes about himself. And so when he asks for your...
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How to Spot an Emotionally Mature Man
Your intuition will be your guide to recognizing an emotionally mature man. Many women make the mistake of ignoring their intuition when they meet an attractive guy who shows interest in them. If you have not already enhanced your intuition with my course on intuition...
Let Me Love You
As you can probably imagine, I spend a fair amount of time absorbing the ideas and methods of other dating coaches. Some of their ideas are helpful, some I just flat-out disagree with. Generally speaking, I agree with the concept of putting your best foot forward and...
Your Man’s Hidden Agenda
We all have an agenda. An agenda is not necessarily a hidden, nefarious plan to get away with something at other people's expense. An agenda is like a set of goals, or a plan for what we will try to achieve. Some researchers have proposed there is one basic...
My Smoldering Hot Fantasy
Okay, I admit I've done some weird things in my life, but most of them were in pursuit of knowledge as a dating coach. I remember when a friend of mine dared me to dial a phone number, 1-800 FAT GIRLS (328-4457). This was ten years ago, so I have no idea what the...
How to Know When to End a Relationship?
A Useful Way to Know When to End a Relationship One of the most useful concepts for making personal and business decisions is "Zero-sum thinking." What is it? Zero-sum thinking is a method of clearing the mind of the effects of what is called a "sunken investment."...
How Friends Can Help Or Harm Your Dating Life
Imagine a private conversation between the man you are dating and his closest friend. It's a conversation never meant to reach your ears. Your boyfriend is discussing both the good and the bad of his experience with you so far. "Don't get me wrong, I really do like...
A Simple Way to Boost Your Energy and Happiness
I like simple ideas. Especially ones that unlock feelings of joy. Or thoughts that energize you. Like this thought from Ashley Smith, for example: "Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and...
Should I Keep Him On His Toes or Be Steady and True?
Some women prefer to shake things up, to avoid being overly predictable, and to keep their man “on his toes.” Other women want to provide a consistent experience for the man they are dating. These women avoid being erratic. They figure a man will be hesitant to stick...
Tiny Habit Changes = Better Dating Odds
As you know, my motivation is focused on the best possible dating outcome for you. I am a firm believer in the idea of win-win scenarios. I was first exposed to the concept by Steven Covey in his book, "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People." It's a great book,...
Tempt Him With Happiness
Your happiness is a form of psychological wealth! It's the kind of wealth that has unlimited value. You can't buy happiness directly. You can buy material things that contribute to your happiness, but behind each of those purchases is the desire...
“Emotional Attraction” vs. “Physical Attraction”
What is the difference between "emotional attraction" and "physical attraction?" While there are varying opinions on this matter, I'll share the general consensus from men I have asked to put their feelings into words. Physical attraction is the desire to look and...
Going to Extremes to Get Together
I was driving out of my neighborhood this morning when I saw my neighbor's four-year-old son playing outside. My neighbors are Emily and Mark, and their four-year-old son, Ethan. Emily is an American, though she speaks with a mixed accent after having spent most of...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.