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How to Get Him on a Date

How to Get Him on a Date

You know exactly how to ace a first date. But you’re not exactly swimming with invitations. You meet men you like, but they’re content to “see you around” or...

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Eating Healthy When You’re Dating a Fast Food Junkie

Eating Healthy When You’re Dating a Fast Food Junkie

Have you ever tried to stick to a healthy diet while the guy you’re dating is sucking down cheese burgers and pizza? It’s not an easy thing to pull off. I was talking to a friend about this recently. She’s on a health kick, hitting the gym several times a week and...

Get More Romantic Happiness by Putting in LESS Effort?

Get More Romantic Happiness by Putting in LESS Effort?

Are you happier today than you were five years ago? Ten years ago? Do you think you’ll be even happier in another five or twenty-five years? According to a recent study[1], you probably will be. Researchers took a closer look at more than 1,500 people ranging in age...

Is He Interested? You Probably Wouldn’t Know… But You Can

Is He Interested? You Probably Wouldn’t Know… But You Can

Can you tell when a guy is flirting with you? According to researchers, the answer is probably no. In a study published in 2014, only 36% of men could tell. And only 18% of women could tell. That’s right. Out of five women, only one is likely to notice when a guy is...

The Best Way to Find the Type of Guy You Really Want Online

The Best Way to Find the Type of Guy You Really Want Online

There’s a problem with online dating sites. It’s not that there aren’t enough guys using them. Or even enough good guys. The problem is that it’s incredibly difficult to find the specific type of man you want. Luckily, there’s a powerful tool all online dating sites...

When You Don’t Feel Loved Enough in Your Relationship

When You Don’t Feel Loved Enough in Your Relationship

Most of us spend our entire lives looking for love. Our youth is consumed by it. No matter how much our parents loved us, it’s not the kind of love we crave. Nothing can substitute for romantic love. Dating feels like heaven, except when it feels like hell. And yet…...

Privacy vs. Secrecy – Where Is the Line?

Privacy vs. Secrecy – Where Is the Line?

Let’s start off with a quick mental exercise. Think of three things your man doesn’t know about you. Even if you’ve been together for years, that should be easy. Now for the hard part. Ask yourself WHY he doesn’t know these three things. Is it because this stuff has...

Don’t Take This Well-Meaning Advice

Don’t Take This Well-Meaning Advice

Sometimes, people who want to make you happy give you really bad advice. For example… It’s frustrating to watch someone you care about agonize over a guy who doesn’t even know she exists. Her unreciprocated love doesn’t just make her suffer; it makes everyone around...

How to Use Mind Control to Get the Relationship You Want

How to Use Mind Control to Get the Relationship You Want

Have you ever seen a “mentalist” perform? Mentalists are stage magicians who specialize in “mind control” tricks. Here’s an example. The mentalist asks you to think of a number. While you’re thinking, he writes a number down on a clipboard right in front of you, but...

How to Use Smoke and Mirrors to Make Your Relationship Great

How to Use Smoke and Mirrors to Make Your Relationship Great

Which of the following two scenarios do you think would get better results? There’s a local coffee shop. The shop owner wants to start giving customers rewards cards. After a customer buys so many coffees, they get one free. But he has two versions of the card. One...

Don’t Let a Noisy Setting Kill Your Connection with a Guy

Don’t Let a Noisy Setting Kill Your Connection with a Guy

You smile at a cute guy across the room. He saunters over. And you start talking. Things are going great... Until the music starts blaring. Making talking impossible. And the lights dim. Making it hard to see each other. People dance, bumping into you. Which is...

The Magical Moment That Tells Him You’re Like No One Else

The Magical Moment That Tells Him You’re Like No One Else

It happens in every relationship. You say something, and there’s an awkward silence. Tension descends. Something’s wrong. You don’t know what. He looks away. His mouth is tight. Fear hits you in the gut. You’re losing him! You can’t let that happen. What you do next...

The Two Principles for Less Awkward Small Talk

The Two Principles for Less Awkward Small Talk

You’re out and about. You see a guy you’re interested in. You get his attention with welcoming body language. He approaches. Introductions occur. There’s a nervous, excited vibe between the two of you. But what follows is just… nothing. Silence. Because neither of you...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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