Become His Secret Obsession
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3 Steps to Broaching Difficult Conversations
“I don’t know what I did wrong, James!” she said. “I did everything I was supposed to. I planned out what I was going to say, I wasn’t critical, I asked for...
Breakup Recovery
Breaking up rips out your heart. It hurts SO much. You can’t think of him without crying. Your friends try to support you, but it doesn’t help. The pain...
Still in A Bad Relationship?
I was talking with Heidi, one of the relationship coaches that works in our private, members-only forum, and she started telling me about a woman who was in a...
How To Love More Deeply
When you meet someone really cool… And you seem to have a connection, and he seems to like you back… It’s the best feeling in the world. You can’t stop...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There's a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don't get this for one simple reason.
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3 Unusual (But Powerful) Tips for Crafting An Outstanding Online Dating Profile
Many of my clients met their perfect partner online. The numbers keep growing. Half of all American singles have done an online dating profile, and 40% have dated someone they met online. It’s hard to remember there was ever a stigma against online dating. (It’s even...
How to Thrill the Man You Love Without Being a Doormat
Jamie came into my office in a huff. She pulled off her beanie and plunked down in the chair. Her tawny hair frizzed in all directions. “Something happen?” I asked. “No.” She waved my concern aside. “It’s just … well, something a friend of mine said.” She twisted the...
7 Things You Should Know Before the First Date
Have you ever been on a blind date? They’re nerve-racking. Even if you trust the person setting you up, it feels like such a gamble. What if the guy is a jerk? Or an idiot? Or just a really, really bad fit? Blind date horror stories range from the uncomfortable to the...
How to Spot a Guy’s Underlying Character
Do you know how to spot a guy’s underlying character? If you don’t, it’s all too easy to end up with a guy who’s not worth your time. Here’s what I mean. Jenn and Lisa are best friends. Both recently started dating someone new. Like most friends, they compare notes....
Why He Loves It When You’re Selfish
Relationships thrive on selflessness. They require sacrifice, compromise, and putting each other first. We know this deep in our bones, and yet… Have you ever noticed lopsided relationships, where it seems like one person is doing all the giving and the other person...
How to Stop Your Past from Poisoning Your Future
Your exes. What comes to mind when you think of them? If you’re like most women, the first word that comes to mind is “heartbreak.” Pain. Mistakes. Scars. You have to carry that baggage for the rest of your life. Common wisdom says you should forgive. You can’t let go...
Why Chasing Commitment Backfires (And What Works BETTER)
Which would you rather have: A passionate and intense relationship that lasted 4 years before imploding? Or a 30-year marriage that was good enough sometimes and not great most of the time? Hold onto that answer and see if it changes over the next few minutes....
Give off the Right Vibe When Meeting Guys
Have you ever tried to make an impression by pretending to be something you’re not? That’s not really a fair question, is it? I mean, everyone has done that at some point. Guy or girl, everyone one of us has tried to get the attention of someone we’re attracted to by...
First-Date Nerves? Channel Them for A Big Advantage
“Does he like me?” Can you remember the first time you asked yourself that question? You were just a girl the first time you cared about what a boy thought of you. The answer to that question mattered profoundly. If he liked you, your heart leapt with joy. If you...
The Four Tendencies in Relationships
Have you ever dated someone who never got off the couch? You knew he had amazing potential, but he never did anything with it. Trying to motivate him was a waste of time. Or maybe you’ve dated the opposite: Someone whose time was scheduled down to the minute. He never...
How to Turn a Guy Down Without Feeling Guilty
Which is worse? Going out on a lame date . . . or saying no to a guy you’re not into? Most of my readers are mature, intelligent and kind. I’m sure you don’t take pleasure in making guys feel horrible just for asking you out. What do you say when you don’t want to say...
The Best Dating Tips Are Incredibly Simple
Have you ever fallen for bad dating advice? There are two pieces of dating advice I come across all the time. You’ve almost certainly heard both of them. You’ve probably even tried to act on them. And the results weren’t what you were looking for. The very worst...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.