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When Should You Tell Him Your Secret?
You’ve been holding something back from the guy you’re dating. You want him to like you. You don’t want to bring up any deal-breakers right when you’re...
Is This the Simplest, Easiest Way to Date Online?
You’re chatting with this guy online. He seems fun. He asks interesting questions. He tells you cute anecdotes about himself. And so when he asks for your...
The Power of Heart-Oriented Dating
Janice threw herself down into my office chair with a sigh. One look at her told me how well her last week of dating had gone. “So!” I said. “Anyone...
Why Men Pay for 1st Dates and Other Male Mysteries
Ever wondered why men pay for first dates? Or why men keep talking to you, even when you’ve made it clear you’re not interested? Male behavior is full of...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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When Less Is More
Minimalism is a growing trend in the world of fashion. It refers to the idea of whittling your wardrobe down to just a few pieces that can easily be mixed and matched. It's all about putting the essentials front and center and removing the fluff. Really, that's what...
The Relationship Dance
Anne Taylor Fleming said, "A long marriage is two people trying to dance a duet and two solos at the same time." Any committed relationship is that way. The first hurdle is simply sharing what you want--your hopes and dreams, your wants and needs. It's no small thing...
Not Sure If He Likes You?
It's a common scenario. You like a guy. There's been some interaction, but you can't tell if the feeling is mutual. You flirt, sometimes with success, but you'd really like to know if you're wasting your time. Does he like you back or not? When that happens, the...
Heard It from A Friend who…
You're dating someone new, and none of your friends approve. The independent thinker in you wants to believe you know what you're doing, thank you very much. The rebel in you wants to tell your friends where they can stick their opinions. And the crowd-pleaser in you...
What He Wants: An Invisible Target
"Talent hits a target no one else can hit; Genius hits a target no one else can see." Arthur Schopenhauer You don't have to be a genius to be in a relationship. All you really need to do is try to love the other person and hope they love you back. But something...
The Me in We
Good relationships are a balanced mix of time together and time apart. Too much of either and you're headed for trouble. Yes, you can spend too much time together! Take Andrea and Michael, for example. They were inseparable. It had become a joke among their...
Befriending the Ex
It's the standard line. Everyone's heard it at least once, and most of us have actually said it. Sometimes it's spoken with sincerity, and sometimes it's just a lame attempt to let the other person down easy. Either way, it means the end of a dating relationship. "We...
3 Rules for Dating Busy Men
You can spend a lot of time with a guy who still lives in his mother's basement. But a guy with a lot of energy and talent makes a better catch. Unfortunately, that kind of man is usually fairly busy. Lot's of people (and companies) are competing for his time. If you...
Facebook Encourages Cheating?
Apparently, Twitter and Facebook use can be hazardous to the health of your relationship. It wasn't that long ago that a study published in Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking announced Facebook increases the risk of cheating. According to the article,...
How to Protect Your Relationship from Going Cold
Imagine a man and woman, cuddled close on a cold night in a rickety old cabin. The cabin has many flaws. It leaks heat during the night, bringing a chill into the air. You can solve this problem by patching up the cracks. Or you can solve this problem by maintaining a...
Should I press for improvements in the relationship or just move on?
Angie was excited when she met Scott. He seemed to be everything she wanted. An embodiment of the very affirmation she held over the past two months while working with me as her relationship coach. I knew she was truly smitten with love when she said, "He just makes...
Silent Men
Taking joy in living is a woman’s best cosmetic. Rosalind Russell I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Joy is attractive. Foster joy in your life any chance you get. My personal belief is that joy emanates from a deep sense of meaning and purpose more than...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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