Develop Irresistible Attraction
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Improve Your Self-Image to Boost Your Love Life
I found a cool method to supercharge your dating life and your self-image at the same time. Allow me to briefly explain what I’ve discovered. Your self-image...
The Romantic Advantage of Seeing the World in Shades of Gray
Want to know whether this guy has what it takes to last in the long run? Ask him about his parents. Or his exes. Or his boss. People who are emotionally...
3 Ways to Invite Love to Chase You
There are two kinds of singles: Those who wait for Prince Charming to land in their laps… And those who jump on a white stallion and gallop off to find him....
3 Myths About Single Life That Keep You From Being Happy
Everyone knows it’s hard being single. It’s lonely, you keep putting yourself up for rejection, and it often feels as though all the good men are already...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Re-Imagine the Future
This post is about cultivating "The Hopeful Self." It's about acquiring optimism that can be cultivated to elevate your mood.This post is about you. It's about enjoying life right here and right now. If implementing any of this advice ends up attracting other people,...
How to Improve your Looks (By The Standards That Matter To Men)
There are some things about your personal appearance you simply cannot do anything to change. For the sake of building your own confidence and self-esteem, it is important that you accept those things completely. Yes, I know you would still change them if your fairy...
How to Know When to End a Relationship?
A Useful Way to Know When to End a Relationship One of the most useful concepts for making personal and business decisions is "Zero-sum thinking." What is it? Zero-sum thinking is a method of clearing the mind of the effects of what is called a "sunken investment."...
A Simple Way to Boost Your Energy and Happiness
I like simple ideas. Especially ones that unlock feelings of joy. Or thoughts that energize you. Like this thought from Ashley Smith, for example: "Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and...
Tiny Habit Changes = Better Dating Odds
As you know, my motivation is focused on the best possible dating outcome for you. I am a firm believer in the idea of win-win scenarios. I was first exposed to the concept by Steven Covey in his book, "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People." It's a great book,...
Response To A Personal Question From Becky
Becky asked a question in response to my Be Brave post. I asked her if we could share her question, as I suspect many others have dealt with the issue she brings up. Thanks, Becky, for giving me permission to address this question publicly for the...
Force a Man To Like You More with this One Graceful Response
Do you feel awkward when someone pays you a genuine complement? Do you experience a sudden increase in self-consciousness? Do you stammer or say nothing while averting your gaze? Do you hit the person that complimented you and accuse him of lying (in a childish...
Happier and Thinner
Hey its James. I hope this post will inspire you to take one simple action...exercise. If the effects of physical exercise could be bottled and sold in the form of a pill, sales of that pill would exceed all other medications combined. Physical exercise is now...
My Friend Breathes Music
Do you have this superpower? My friend is a social worker with a difficult job working on the inpatient unit of a mental health hospital. She has a forty-minute commute to work each day. I was talking with her about an audiobook I was listening to while driving to my...
Be Brave
Hey its James. I hope this post will inspire you to take one simple action...exercise. If the effects of physical exercise could be bottled and sold in the form of a pill, sales of that pill would exceed all other medications combined. Physical exercise is...
How To Make Affirmations Work
It's no secret. Confidence helps in the world of dating and romance. If you feel confident about how you look, you will be more playful, relaxed, and attractive. If you feel confident about your value as a human being, you will bring warmth and genuine presence to...
A Dating Lesson From Sir Lancelot: A Method For Winning Hearts
It's both a love story and an action movie. Richard Gere's portrayal of Lancelot was fantastic, and the pain you feel for King Arthur (played by Sean Connery) is only matched by the longing to see Guinevere and Lancelot give in to the heart-pounding lust they feel...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!