Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Why He Loves It When You’re Selfish
Relationships thrive on selflessness. They require sacrifice, compromise, and putting each other first. We know this deep in our bones, and yet… Have you ever...
Why Chasing Commitment Backfires (And What Works BETTER)
Which would you rather have: A passionate and intense relationship that lasted 4 years before imploding? Or a 30-year marriage that was good enough sometimes...
The Four Tendencies in Relationships
Have you ever dated someone who never got off the couch? You knew he had amazing potential, but he never did anything with it. Trying to motivate him was a...
The Unsexy Art of Relationship Maintenance
You’ve read those relationship articles, right? The ones featured in magazines in checkout lines? They’re always about passion or keeping the spark alive or...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
The Act of Lovemaking
Let's talk about how to create love out of thin air. I chose this title (The Act of Lovemaking) to remind you of something important. Love is something we make. It’s not something we find. It’s completely understandable that you want someone who will cherish you and...
Develop the “Knack” for Melting a Man’s Heart
"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." ― Maya Angelou They say you never forget how to ride a bike. It's a different kind of memory than factual knowledge. The memory...
Can you love two people at the same time?
Johnny Depp is an amazing actor. I really enjoyed his work in Pirates of the Caribbean. However, I’m not sure I would trust his judgment on dating and relationships. I heard this Johnny Depp quote secondhand. What do you think about it? “If you...
What do guys mean by “high-maintenance?”
What does it mean when a man claims a woman was "high-maintenance?" In the private conversations men have, what do they say to justify the high-maintenance label? First of all, I'm not a fan of labels, particularly negative ones. But this particular label gets used...
“Say What You Feel.” Why it works. When to use it.
What do you do when a man acts in ways that hurt your feelings? What do you do if his actions leave you feeling neglected or lonely, even when you are in a relationship? How do you communicate angry feelings constructively? Many of the questions I receive from women...
Are You Right for Each Other? The One True Test of Relationship Compatibility
When I was in high school, there was a girl named Stephanie who had it all. She was tall with a pretty face and a nice figure. Her dad was one of the richest guys in town and gave her the choice of any brand-new car she wanted for her sixteenth birthday. Nearly all...
Tough Relationship Decision? Use These 4 Steps to Resolve It
Sometimes even the smallest decisions can fill us with doubt. When it's a big relationship decision we feel anxious, insecure, and sometimes miserable. This article is designed to reduce that emotional strain. I will propose four simple steps to reduce the stress of...
Should You Act Cheerful When You Don’t Feel Cheerful?
As a dating and relationship coach I put a lot of emphasis on using positive energy and a cheerful mood to attract the kind of men who tend to make good life-long partners. Several people have asked me if they should put on a cheerful mask even when they are not...
Now You See Me, Now You Don’t.
A philosopher by the name of Alan Watts once said, “If you put your hand on the knee of a beautiful woman and leave it there, she’ll cease to notice it. But if you gently pat her on the knee, she’ll know you’re still there. This is because you come and go. Now you see...
The Shotgun Approach
I have several friends who have gone through the process of applying to medical school to become a physician. Some of them have used what's called "the shotgun approach." Basically, it means they abandon the detailed research of any one medical school and instead...
Invisible Progress in Relationships
You would be surprised how often I have to encourage my clients to put relationships first in their lives. You would think a person willing to spend money on a relationship consultant would already be maximizing their own personal effort in that area of their...
Love like a Loser
“The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.” ~G.K. Chesterton If you don't know someone personally who experienced this, I'm sure you've heard tales of people who were given a medical prognosis suggesting they have only three months to live. Oddly...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!