Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
How Couple Rituals Keep You Together
Being a couple is special. You’re unlike any other couple. As a couple, you have secrets no one else knows, you have inside jokes that send you delirious with...
Why Won’t He Do What You Want Him to Do?!
What’s the most painful thing you’ve felt because of a romantic relationship? When he didn’t feel the same way about you? When he didn’t do what you asked him...
When His Friends Are a Bad Influence on Him
What would you do if you caught your man sitting quietly among his friends as they engaging in “locker room talk” that was disrespectful to women? He’s not...
Why the Spark Fades in Your Relationship & How to Get It Back
Think back to 10 years ago. What were you doing? Was there a man in your life around that time? How much can you remember about him? What feelings come up...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
One Relationship Risk You Should Take
Let's talk about the risks you take in your romantic life. I'll start with a quick story... Jill just finished a one-on-one review with her boss. She's venting to a friend in the break room. Her boss gave her some criticism. He said she's not "applying herself." But...
How He’ll Treat You Later
Have you ever wondered what your relationship will be like down the road? Over the course of time our true colors naturally show. But if you're watching for it, you can get a good picture of his character early on. Even during the first few dates. The secret is...
What You Don’t Know
In school, it was helpful to give the impression you knew a bit more than you really did. The same thing is true for adults in the workplace. After all, no one wants to draw attention by admitting they have no idea what that acronym stands for when everyone else is...
Losing to Fear
Should you gamble on your relationship? Psychologists Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky discovered something fascinating about how we deal with risk. A professor at Princeton, Kahneman is known for offering students in his class a simple gamble: a coin toss. If it...
The Least Expected Thing
As a relationship coach, I've spent a great deal of time trying to figure out what creates romance. Romantic gestures come in all shapes and sizes. Little things like a bouquet of flowers, and big things like a surprise proposal. But almost every romantic gesture I...
Lover’s Quarrel? Try this “Eject Button” to End Arguments Fast
"You said that just to hurt me!" It hurts (a lot) when someone you care for doubts your motives. It's one of the most upsetting things in the world. It's a recipe for an epic fight. When you're upset, point out the actions that make you feel hurt. Don't accuse your...
Unlock His Desire to Be with You. Try This One Simple Idea Tonight
You probably have a guy in mind right now. He's the reason you signed up to receive my emails, right? Well that makes me happy. Because I have a lot of valuable ideas to share with you. Starting with this one... I'm going to show you an easy way to unlock your natural...
How to Find Common Ground Fast
Finding common ground is one of the fastest ways to build a feeling of warmth. It's how we establish familiarity with people we've just met. It's also a surprisingly good way to restore feelings of connection with an existing partner. But how do you find new common...
The Art of “Exclusive” Flirting
Do you know the difference between "broadcast" flirting and "exclusive" flirting? Broadcast flirting is on display for everyone to see. When a woman uses broadcast flirting, everyone around can see what she's up to. For example, it's broadcast flirting when Debbie...
How to Rekindle His Romantic Interest in You
Hey, it's James again. Here's day 2 of your 14 day attraction tips course. It's just a preview of the kind of advice and insights I offer. That way, you can make an informed decision about whether or not to stay on my subscriber list. If you already know you don't...
Is Your Relationship Changing?
Everything was going great. Karen was happy. Really happy. Her relationship with Doug was three months old. They'd enjoyed a thrilling, fun period of getting to know each other, and that's when the trouble started. "What's the problem?" a friend asked her. "Life," she...
How to win at love (no matter what)
Love is a paradox. Those who are clearly on a quest to be loved end up weakened by their efforts. Their hearts are always on their sleeves. They're dependent on others to make them feel whole. It's a desperate way to live. But those who give love away without agenda...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
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I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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