Develop Irresistible Attraction
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
The Mindset Makeover for Confidence
This article is about building your social confidence and optimism. So you might find this next sentence a bit strange. It’s common for Buddhist monks to...
Social Skills Boot Camp
I like confident people. Especially when the source of their confidence is good social skills (rather than good looks, wealth, or accomplishments). Because,...
Flirting Boot Camp
Flirting is essential to building AND maintaining romantic relationships. Whether you’ve been too self-conscious to start, or you just want to expand your...
How to Bring Out the Best in People
Do you instinctively know things about people the moment you meet them? Most people do. Because we pick up on nonverbal signals. I recently walked into a room...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Relationship Decisions that Bind You
Part of you want is to lay on the beach, get a tan, or just relax and do nothing. But another part of you wants to work hard, live out your life goals, and make a difference in the world. Part of you wants to get lean, but another part of you would rather eat brownies...
My Secret Source for Dating Insights
Can you keep a secret? I'm going to reveal my number one source for dating insights. Okay, it’s not really classified. It’s just a place a lot of people don’t think to look. But when I really need to know why one of my clients has been struggling with relationships,...
Build Trust with Your Partner
Arthur Ashe is credited with saying, "Trust has to be earned, and should come only after the passage of time." That's the conventional wisdom. We think of trust as something people earn from us. But is that the best way to build trust? Surface level trust is common....
Relationship Constraints
Any time you hit a brick wall and lose momentum, there’s a good chance you have run up against a bottleneck, a constraint that holds back your progress. When you find ways to remove those constraints, it becomes possible to make a lot of progress really fast. The key...
Driving You Crazy
It’s the formula for classic romance. It’s why Harry runs to Sally in the middle of the night in When Harry Met Sally. It’s why Noah tells Allie, “We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you,” in The Notebook. And it’s why Mark...
Only Be Exclusive When the Timing Is Right
Nothing is better than falling in love. But...it's not always in your best interest to be exclusive early in the relationship. Let me explain why. First, a quick story to illustrate something important. I received a letter from a division of the US military requesting...
Activate Your Relationship Knowledge
You’ve heard it your whole life: Knowledge is power. This simple phrase is so deeply ingrained in us that we don’t question it. Why would we? It’s one of those things practically everyone accepts as fact. There’s just one problem. It isn’t true. Knowledge isn’t power....
Destined for Love
Kristen believes her soulmate is out there. She's attractive and engaging, so she gets asked out fairly often. Unfortunately, her relationships rarely last beyond the third or fourth date. When asked why that is, she says, "I only date a guy if I have a special...
Anger should be released (but only in certain ways)
Is it better to channel your anger into productive communication, or just go to your bedroom and scream into a pillow before slugging it a few times? For a couple of decades psychologists thought you needed to “release your anger,” by punching pillows, giving a primal...
Don’t Hold Back
Mae West said, “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” Are you doing it right? Are you spending your time, effort and energy on the things that are really worthwhile? Or are you holding back? Don’t hold back. Spend all your life pursuing (all...
How to Make a Man Want You Just By Looking At Him?
Imagine this. A man is chatting with several other people at a social gathering. He glances over the shoulder of the guy talking when he notices a woman making eye contact with him from across the room. He's no longer listening to the guy talking about highlights from...
“Emotional Attraction” vs. “Physical Attraction”
What is the difference between "emotional attraction" and "physical attraction?" While there are varying opinions on this matter, I'll share the general consensus from men I have asked to put their feelings into words. Physical attraction is the desire to look...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!