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3 Reasons He’s Giving You Mixed Signals
He’s doing it to mess with your head. At least, that’s what it FEELS like. If he really cared about you and what you have together, then he wouldn’t give you...
3 Online Dating Traps to Avoid
When you see a guy’s profile, you instantly know whether he’s a catch. You just get a FEELING about him. You look at his picture. You read between the lines...
Has Your Boyfriend Ever Done THIS to You?
A special holiday is coming up. Maybe it’s Valentine’s Day, or your birthday, or your anniversary. You’re excited. You love celebrating special occasions as a...
Is the Dating Game Stacked Against You?
Have you ever felt that online dating is stacked against you… Unless you’re incredibly photogenic, in your twenties, and live in a metropolitan area packed...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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The Defining Romantic Moment
You may be waiting for a moment that’s never going to come. Remember the big finale in How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days? Kate Hudson thinks the entire romance has been a lie. Heartbroken, she’s on her way out of town. And then McConaughey realizes he loves her. He goes...
A Sneaky Way to Connect with Your Man
Be for what you want. Not against what you don't want. I think Mother Teresa was brilliant when she responded to a question by saying "I'm not against war. I'm for peace." Whatever you are against becomes a bigger part of your life. If you are against your irritating...
Introducing “The Butterfly Method” to Survive the Storms in Your Relationship
People will judge you for trying hard. I did it just the other day. I was standing in line at Walmart. The line was moving slow, and I couldn’t help but notice something. Walmart had invested in 30 cash registers, yet only two of them were open. I snickered at how...
The Recipe for an Amazing Intimate Connection
Which is more dangerous? Sharing too much too soon? Or not sharing enough? Either can kill a developing relationship. The trick is finding balance. I’ve known people at both extremes. I think of one friend in particular. We knew each other for nearly a year before I...
Master Romantic Relationships with One Rule
Want to master dating and relationships? Then just learn one rule. Sure, relationships are complex. There are a lot of moving parts. But there’s one guiding principle that brings everything else into alignment. It’s just one rule, and it’s so important that nothing...
Revealed: What Manners Can Tell You about A Guy
Should you judge a guy by his manners? To help you decide, I'd like you to consider the story of what happened to my friend. She recently told me about a failed first date. Things started off shaky when he picked her up in a van he clearly used for construction work....
Beautiful People vs Beautiful Relationships
“He was only a fox like a hundred thousand other foxes. But I have made him my friend, and now he is unique in all the world.” – Antoine De Saint Exupery, The Little Prince It’s a bad idea to compare yourself to other women. Not just a little bad. Epically...
The “Passion Killer” Emotion. Do You Have It?
Indifference. It's the saddest feeling in the world. Which is ironic, because indifference isn't a feeling at all. It's the opposite of a feeling. An indifferent person is like a car with no gas. People reach a point of indifference when there's just nothing left in...
The Best Way to Introduce Your New Boyfriend
The two of you bump into an acquaintance. "Oh! Jane! Hi. Nice to see you too. Uh, yes, this is my...my..." My what? You can't skip the introduction. That would be rude. But what if you haven't had a "state of the relationship" talk? What if nothing's been defined?...
How to Handle Criticism from Your Partner
Pamela looks at her friend with wide eyes. "How did you respond?" she asks. Jenn is clearly on edge. "What do you think I said? I told him I don't appreciate all the negativity. I mean, it's not like he's perfect. I don't want to date someone who's just going to...
Here’s A Quick Way to Energize Conversations with Your Man
Any positive memory can give you an instant energy boost. Let me show you how. Several years ago, I read a study about vacations. The researchers were trying to determine how to make the relaxing feeling of being on vacation last as long as possible. Believe it or...
Why Rushing a Relationship Decreases Your Enjoyment
Jessica is busy. She has a chaotic job, often requiring hours of overtime. She rushes frantically from meeting to meeting, always just barely pulling it off. Somehow, she juggles that with family, outings with friends, daily workouts, and (most recently) …dating. When...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.