Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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Want to Spot Mr. Right? Watch Out for Noise
Will you spot the love of your life at first sight? In today’s world, you almost HAVE to. You’ve only got a fraction of a second to swipe before it’s onto the...
Signs You’re Emotionally Disconnected (And How to Feel Close Again)
When you are upset, what does your guy do? Does he listen to you… Emotionally validate you… And support you until you feel better? Or does he vanish on you?...
Find Out If You’re Compatible with Him
Dan Ariely doesn’t like online dating. The term is all wrong, he says. There’s no dating happening online. Instead, he jokes, they should call it “online...
Constructive Criticism to a Guy Who Overreacts?
Men don’t take criticism well. (That’s putting it lightly, right?) All you’re doing is trying to give him feedback… And he acts like you’ve attacked him....
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Attract Your Perfect Mate Using Nothing More than Your Expectations
Everyone says, “I’ll believe it when I see it.” But what if that’s backwards? What if you can’t see something until you believe it’s possible? Let me give you an example. Every day, men smile at women they’d secretly love to get to know better. Women smile back,...
The Real Secret to Getting Him to Open Up
Have you ever wondered why men are so much more reluctant to share their feelings than women? The technical term for when a guy has a hard time talking about how he feels is “Normative Male Alexithymia.” That’s a ridiculously complicated way of saying that many men...
How to Work 60 Hours a Week and Still Find Time for Dating
Maybe you work 60 hours a week. Or you have kids. Or a demanding social life. Or maybe you’re going to night classes for a career makeover. But you also want romance in your life. The problem is, you’re short on time. You cram as much as possible into each day. You...
The Surprising Secret to Long-Term Relationship Bliss
What do you hope for in a dating relationship? It’s a simple question that can lead to some complex answers. Fun dates and first kisses are nice, but you probably have your sights set on something long-term. If you really let your mind go, you could end up thinking...
You’re Two Minutes Away from Being Happier Right Now
You’ve probably noticed that happiness is a buzz word lately. There are all kinds of happiness studies going on. It’s suddenly the ‘it thing’ to talk about. Which kind of makes sense. Who doesn’t want to be happier? Here’s some of what we’ve figured out so far....
Finding “The One” Is Tough. Here’s One Place You Should Always Look.
Just for a second, imagine your perfect guy. Not in terms of looks or chemistry. Focus on the mundane stuff. The things you’re actually going to care about a year from now. You want a man who is willing to spend Saturday afternoon binge-watching your favorite TV show....
The “Dating After 40” Fix
Women in their 40s and 50s often tell me it’s hard to date. I know it can be tough putting yourself out there and finding someone. Especially if you’re newly divorced or coming out of another long-term relationship. But here are some of the specific complaints I hear:...
How to Be More Approachable? Just Ask for Help
Imagine you’re out with a few friends trying to find a guy. You’re at a bar. The drinks flow. Music plays. People struggle to talk over it and each other. Everyone is squeezed into “sexy” attire. Trying to be impressive. You do your best to seem open and interested as...
How To Handle Unwanted Attention From The Wrong Guy
You’re at a party. You notice a guy smiling at you. It seems like the nice thing to do, so you smile back. Then he comes over and hits on you. Oh, boy… You’re not interested. But you don’t want to crush him. So you endure it. When you have a chance to slip away, you...
The “Food Method” for Building Rapport on Your First Date
Have you ever been on an awkward first date? I know. That’s almost like asking if you’ve ever been on ANY first dates. First dates are tough. Expectations are often high. There’s an air of excitement, but there’s anxiety, too. You want him to like you. He wants you to...
Taking Relationship Risks Makes You Smarter?
Which kind of person are you? The kind to charge in when something scares you? Or the kind to back away from risky situations? I’m going to go out on a limb and guess. You’re BOTH. Most of us are. There are times when we embrace risk, and times when we run from it. My...
Why Alone Time Makes You Seem Less Desperate
Have you ever spotted a solo diner at a restaurant? Maybe you were out with some friends or on a date. Just a few tables over someone sat alone. You watched them for a while, stealing discreet glances when you could. What’s their story?, you wondered. Why are they...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.