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How to Be Remarkable

How to Be Remarkable

How brave are you? Do you have what it takes to try one of the riskiest (and, ironically, most successful) dating strategies out there? All it takes is being...

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Breakup Recovery

Breakup Recovery

Breaking up rips out your heart. It hurts SO much. You can’t think of him without crying. Your friends try to support you, but it doesn’t help. The pain...

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Still in A Bad Relationship?

Still in A Bad Relationship?

I was talking with Heidi, one of the relationship coaches that works in our private, members-only forum, and she started telling me about a woman who was in a...

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Improve Your Self-Image to Boost Your Love Life

Improve Your Self-Image to Boost Your Love Life

I found a cool method to supercharge your dating life and your self-image at the same time. Allow me to briefly explain what I’ve discovered. Your self-image and romantic life are closely linked. Consider the dating app called Tinder. Well, actually, let’s consider a...

Why You Should Embrace the Chaos of Dating

Why You Should Embrace the Chaos of Dating

You have dating horror stories. I know you do because every woman does. (Every guy has them, too.) I recently came across a list of dating horror stories.[1] They’re both entertaining and awkward. Has anything like this happened to you? They met for dinner, at which...

6 Dating Red Flags (And How to Fix Them)

6 Dating Red Flags (And How to Fix Them)

Do you remember that time you were dating a guy and everything was just perfect? Of course you don’t. That kind of relationship doesn’t exist. Relationships involve people, and none of us are perfect! And yet, I talk to a lot of women who think romantic perfection is...

What You Can Learn from His Ex

What You Can Learn from His Ex

Let’s talk about the woman your man used to be with. His ex. Even though they’re not together anymore, she feels like competition. Like (no matter what he says) he might still have some residual feelings of attraction towards her. It doesn’t help that a 2012 study...

The Romantic Advantage of Seeing the World in Shades of Gray

The Romantic Advantage of Seeing the World in Shades of Gray

Want to know whether this guy has what it takes to last in the long run? Ask him about his parents. Or his exes. Or his boss. People who are emotionally charged for him. Then sit back and listen. If he paints a world in which people are either good or bad, saints or...

3 Ways to Invite Love to Chase You

3 Ways to Invite Love to Chase You

There are two kinds of singles: Those who wait for Prince Charming to land in their laps… And those who jump on a white stallion and gallop off to find him. Because you’re reading this right now, you might very well fit into that second category! We’re raised to...

The Unsexy Art of Relationship Maintenance

The Unsexy Art of Relationship Maintenance

You’ve read those relationship articles, right? The ones featured in magazines in checkout lines? They’re always about passion or keeping the spark alive or making your relationship magical. Would you like to know the truth about those articles? Sometimes they have...

When You Should (and Shouldn’t) Say Yes to a Second Date

When You Should (and Shouldn’t) Say Yes to a Second Date

Picture this. You're out with a friend. She's shoe shopping, and you've agreed to lend your fashion advice. You walk into a store with no intention of buying anything for yourself, but the moment you enter it washes over you. The scent of leather. Suddenly, you're...

The Difference between Commitment and Attachment

The Difference between Commitment and Attachment

Belle was committed. She was going to stick with this relationship no matter what. She was never going to give up. She wasn’t that sort of person. She despised people who got married then ended up divorcing six months later. “No one knows how to commit anymore!” she...

How to Avoid the Easiest Relationship Mistake

How to Avoid the Easiest Relationship Mistake

Some breakups are worse than others. When romance goes south over something big, at least it makes sense. But when things tank without obvious explanation, the lack of resolution is particularly upsetting. There’s one really common relationship mistake that almost...

The Most Important Thing for Real Romance

The Most Important Thing for Real Romance

Has a breakup ever caught you totally off guard? Sometimes we see them coming, and sometimes we just don’t. One woman I spoke to recently said, “I was hoping things would work out, but the writing was on the wall. When it ended, I don’t think either of us was...

3 Myths About Single Life That Keep You From Being Happy

3 Myths About Single Life That Keep You From Being Happy

Everyone knows it’s hard being single. It’s lonely, you keep putting yourself up for rejection, and it often feels as though all the good men are already taken. But what if you looked at single life from a different angle? That’s where two of the world’s most...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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