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How to Know If You’re Jealous

How to Know If You’re Jealous

The barbecue at his friend’s house was the last straw. Melissa had been hoping to spend some quality time with her new boyfriend Ryan. She’d had a busy week,...

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How to Avoid the Easiest Relationship Mistake

How to Avoid the Easiest Relationship Mistake

Some breakups are worse than others. When romance goes south over something big, at least it makes sense. But when things tank without obvious explanation, the lack of resolution is particularly upsetting. There’s one really common relationship mistake that almost...

The Most Important Thing for Real Romance

The Most Important Thing for Real Romance

Has a breakup ever caught you totally off guard? Sometimes we see them coming, and sometimes we just don’t. One woman I spoke to recently said, “I was hoping things would work out, but the writing was on the wall. When it ended, I don’t think either of us was...

3 Myths About Single Life That Keep You From Being Happy

3 Myths About Single Life That Keep You From Being Happy

Everyone knows it’s hard being single. It’s lonely, you keep putting yourself up for rejection, and it often feels as though all the good men are already taken. But what if you looked at single life from a different angle? That’s where two of the world’s most...

How to Embrace The Problems in Your Relationship

How to Embrace The Problems in Your Relationship

You’ve felt it, haven’t you? The nagging suspicion that you’ll never be completely satisfied with your love life? You’re right. You won’t ever find everything you’re looking for . . . if you’re lucky. Buckle up and I’ll explain why that’s a good thing. Imagine a set...

7 Things You Can Do to Feel Emotionally Stronger

7 Things You Can Do to Feel Emotionally Stronger

If you don’t meet your own emotional needs early on in a relationship, you’ll feel it later. Plus, it has the potential to really mess with your connection with your guy. To illustrate what I’m talking about, think about the last time you were craving something. I’m...

What To Do When Your Guy Lets You Down

What To Do When Your Guy Lets You Down

Alaya remembered when she first started dating her husband. She had to leave for a week on a trip, and he did the most romantic thing. He loaded up his iPod with a special playlist and sent it with her. She never forgot the song that opened the playlist. It was a man...

Early-Stage Relationships: When to Quit.  When to Persevere.

Early-Stage Relationships: When to Quit. When to Persevere.

Are you the kind of person who gives up on new relationships a little too early? Or do you find that you stick with a less-than-ideal guy a little too long? Most of us tend to err on one side or the other. Which side do you lean toward? Fair warning, though. We’re...

The Secret to Instant Sex Appeal

The Secret to Instant Sex Appeal

Would you rather look sexier or feel sexier? What if you could have BOTH? You can. And no matter if you’re currently single or happily dating, the effect on your love life can be profoundly positive. There are many ways to feel sexier.  But...

A Curious Reason Explains Why Some Men Pull Away

A Curious Reason Explains Why Some Men Pull Away

There’s not a woman alive it hasn’t happened to. You think it’s going so well— Until he pulls back. He stops calling. He doesn’t reply to your texts. You have no idea where his attention has gone. If you’re lucky, he shows up one day, acting as if nothing happened....

4 Easy Ways to Enhance Conversation with Your Date

4 Easy Ways to Enhance Conversation with Your Date

Do you have a strategy for making a real connection with a guy when you go out? Would you like one? How about four? Because boy, oh boy does bad conversation get awkward when you’re on a date. You know the kind I mean. You sit down at the table, the waiter takes your...

Who’s Smarter in Love: Your Head, Your Heart, or Your Gut?

Who’s Smarter in Love: Your Head, Your Heart, or Your Gut?

When it comes to relationships, no one can make decisions for you. You’re the only one who knows what’s in your heart. But there’s a problem with listening to your heart. Your head doesn’t always agree. In fact, they often tell you two separate things. “Go ahead, text...

Low Self-Esteem Linked to Staying in Bad Relationships

Low Self-Esteem Linked to Staying in Bad Relationships

We’ve heard it a thousand times: Love yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you’ll settle for a man who doesn’t value you. That’s obvious, right? But looking back on your relationship history, you may be able to pick out quite a few exes who didn’t value you. Even a...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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