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The Pain of Lost Love

The Pain of Lost Love

If you work with love, you will hear stories of pain. The pain of having your partner steal your heart and later leave for good. The pain of beautiful...

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How to Spot a Guy’s Underlying Character

How to Spot a Guy’s Underlying Character

Do you know how to spot a guy’s underlying character? If you don’t, it’s all too easy to end up with a guy who’s not worth your time. Here’s what I mean. Jenn and Lisa are best friends. Both recently started dating someone new. Like most friends, they compare notes....

Why He Loves It When You’re Selfish

Why He Loves It When You’re Selfish

Relationships thrive on selflessness. They require sacrifice, compromise, and putting each other first. We know this deep in our bones, and yet… Have you ever noticed lopsided relationships, where it seems like one person is doing all the giving and the other person...

How to Stop Your Past from Poisoning Your Future

How to Stop Your Past from Poisoning Your Future

Your exes. What comes to mind when you think of them? If you’re like most women, the first word that comes to mind is “heartbreak.” Pain. Mistakes. Scars. You have to carry that baggage for the rest of your life. Common wisdom says you should forgive. You can’t let go...

Why Chasing Commitment Backfires (And What Works BETTER)

Why Chasing Commitment Backfires (And What Works BETTER)

Which would you rather have: A passionate and intense relationship that lasted 4 years before imploding? Or a 30-year marriage that was good enough sometimes and not great most of the time? Hold onto that answer and see if it changes over the next few minutes....

Give off the Right Vibe When Meeting Guys

Give off the Right Vibe When Meeting Guys

Have you ever tried to make an impression by pretending to be something you’re not? That’s not really a fair question, is it? I mean, everyone has done that at some point. Guy or girl, everyone one of us has tried to get the attention of someone we’re attracted to by...

First-Date Nerves? Channel Them for A Big Advantage

First-Date Nerves? Channel Them for A Big Advantage

“Does he like me?” Can you remember the first time you asked yourself that question? You were just a girl the first time you cared about what a boy thought of you. The answer to that question mattered profoundly. If he liked you, your heart leapt with joy. If you...

The Four Tendencies in Relationships

The Four Tendencies in Relationships

Have you ever dated someone who never got off the couch? You knew he had amazing potential, but he never did anything with it. Trying to motivate him was a waste of time. Or maybe you’ve dated the opposite: Someone whose time was scheduled down to the minute. He never...

How to Turn a Guy Down Without Feeling Guilty

How to Turn a Guy Down Without Feeling Guilty

Which is worse? Going out on a lame date . . . or saying no to a guy you’re not into? Most of my readers are mature, intelligent and kind. I’m sure you don’t take pleasure in making guys feel horrible just for asking you out. What do you say when you don’t want to say...

The Best Dating Tips Are Incredibly Simple

The Best Dating Tips Are Incredibly Simple

Have you ever fallen for bad dating advice? There are two pieces of dating advice I come across all the time. You’ve almost certainly heard both of them. You’ve probably even tried to act on them. And the results weren’t what you were looking for. The very worst...

7 Ways to Make Online Dating as Awesome as it Should Be

7 Ways to Make Online Dating as Awesome as it Should Be

Online dating is super easy. It’s not even hard to find good guys. But finding a good guy who’s right for YOU—now, that can be a challenge. It’s kind of like shopping online. Have you ever bought something online only to send it right back? Maybe it was a summer...

Why Convincing Your Ex Never Works… (and what does)

Why Convincing Your Ex Never Works… (and what does)

When you’ve shared a special connection with someone, it’s hard to let it go. Especially when you know there’s still a lot of potential if he would just open his heart again. You could build a beautiful life together. If that’s something you want, then it’s only...

Beat Negativity for a Positively Amazing Romance

Beat Negativity for a Positively Amazing Romance

You know what really sucks about having a bad day? Everything. I have a friend—let’s call her Sarah—who was having a rotten day recently. She slept late, her boss was on her butt the second she walked through the door, clients were upset, and halfway through the...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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