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The Secret Need That Drives Men

The Secret Need That Drives Men

Some of my clients tell me that they already know how to deal with men. “You’ve got to train a man like you train a dog,” they say. “Ignore his bad behavior...

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3 Signs He’s Not Over His Ex

3 Signs He’s Not Over His Ex

“James!” Kelli threw her bag on the floor and flung herself into the chair. “I knew it! I found the evidence.” “What evidence?” I asked. “He still has...

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Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy

For as long as I’ve known Rachel, she’s wanted the same thing: A wonderful guy who treated her well and wanted to make a future with her. But the men in her...

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The 5 Things Your Relationship Needs To Thrive

The 5 Things Your Relationship Needs To Thrive

Do you know what you need from a relationship? A relationship that doesn’t meet your basic needs isn’t going to work over the long term (though it may be fun in the short-term!). But that begs the question… What ARE your basic needs? Do you know? A popular exercise...

How Couple Rituals Keep You Together

How Couple Rituals Keep You Together

Being a couple is special. You’re unlike any other couple. As a couple, you have secrets no one else knows, you have inside jokes that send you delirious with laughter, and you have pet names and private rituals. Defining who you are as a couple is an important part...

How to Spot an Energy Vampire

How to Spot an Energy Vampire

Everyone loves vampires. Correction: we love FICTIONAL vampires. We love vampires as long as we know they’re not going to show up in our homes to drink our blood. 😉 Vampires are all the rage right now in the world of fiction. But how did the idea of vampires find...

Why Your Standards in Love Are WAY Too Low

Why Your Standards in Love Are WAY Too Low

When you haven’t met anyone you’ve liked in a LONG time… You can get a bit antsy. Is the problem YOU? Are your standards too high? Are you not giving these guys a chance? There’s so much pressure to get it right. To pick the right person. To not overlook a diamond in...

Why Won’t He Do What You Want Him to Do?!

Why Won’t He Do What You Want Him to Do?!

What’s the most painful thing you’ve felt because of a romantic relationship? When he didn’t feel the same way about you? When he didn’t do what you asked him to do? When he couldn’t love you the way you really wanted him to? Much of the pain in relationship is caused...

How Your Social Network Can Wreck (or Support) Your Relationship

How Your Social Network Can Wreck (or Support) Your Relationship

Question 1. Would you date someone your parents didn’t approve of? Question 2. Would you date someone your friends didn’t approve of? The research is in. The days of listening to parents are over. You’re much more likely to be swayed by your friends’ opinion....

This Creates More Freedom in Your Life

This Creates More Freedom in Your Life

Is there something you KNOW you need to do… But you just can’t seem to do it? I mean something like looking for a new job. Or organizing your photos. Or putting serious effort into dating. We often put off things we dread or things that aren’t urgent. That’s normal....

When His Friends Are a Bad Influence on Him

When His Friends Are a Bad Influence on Him

What would you do if you caught your man sitting quietly among his friends as they engaging in “locker room talk” that was disrespectful to women? He’s not participating in it, but neither is he calling it out as the harmful and inappropriate thought pattern it...

How Far Are You Willing to Go?

How Far Are You Willing to Go?

How far would you be willing to go to meet someone? There seems to be two schools of thought. The first says that you should always be yourself, no matter what. Don’t wear a lot of makeup, because if he doesn’t find the “real you” attractive, then he’s not worth...

The ‘Kiss Test’ That Makes Men Behave Inappropriately

The ‘Kiss Test’ That Makes Men Behave Inappropriately

You’re on a date with someone you met through an online dating site. You picked him carefully, because you have standards. You don’t go out with anyone who doesn’t look nice or doesn’t treat you with respect. It’s a half-hour into the date, and you’re starting to...

Make It Easy for Him to Get to Know the REAL You

Make It Easy for Him to Get to Know the REAL You

There are things guys don’t want to know about. Female stuff. Insecurities. Drama. How much you wish he’d finally propose. If he knew how you REALLY felt? It would terrify him. Or at least that’s how common dating wisdom goes. Keep some things to yourself. He doesn’t...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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