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No Man Could Ever Fall For Me

No Man Could Ever Fall For Me

Linda was tired. She was in her mid-fifties and didn’t look like she used to. Her face, her hair, her twenty pounds of extra weight… made her wonder what any...

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A Guy’s Secret Fear

A Guy’s Secret Fear

I’m going to share a rather big secret. It’s one of those secrets men aren’t going to tell you. It’s TOO personal. It gets at the core of what makes us...

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Text with Confidence

Text with Confidence

You stare at your phone… And a cold feeling settles into your gut. You re-read his text again. Is he mad at you for something? Is this supposed to be funny?...

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His Texts Are So Confusing!

His Texts Are So Confusing!

You pick up your phone and see a text from a guy you really liked who ghosted you last year. Is it an apology? Nope. Is it an explanation? Nope. It’s a “hey”...

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Does He Deserve to Be Inside Your Circle of Trust?

Does He Deserve to Be Inside Your Circle of Trust?

Should you trust him? It’s a Catch 22. If you do trust him, you’re opening yourself up to getting hurt or betrayed. If you don’t trust him, you’ll never gain true intimacy. Has this ever happened to you? You trusted someone who shouldn’t have been trusted… Then...

Will He Come Back?

Will He Come Back?

You remember, don’t you, all those times you felt so close to him that time stood still. There was no one else in the world. Just you and him. Love wrapping you in a cocoon of happiness. There was only one thing you needed for it to be perfect: The knowledge that this...

Why is He Emotionally Unavailable?

Why is He Emotionally Unavailable?

You’re dating an emotionally unavailable man. Is he unavailable because: He’s still not over his ex? He’s just not that into you? All men are like that? You haven’t said the magic words? Okay, so maybe there isn’t any “magic spell” that turns an emotionally...

The 5 Stages of a Relationship

The 5 Stages of a Relationship

It happened every time. Angelika would meet a man with potential. Someone she really, REALLY liked. She’d feel so full of hope. She’d see signs they were meant to be. Then she’d find out he wasn’t the man she thought he was. He had issues he hadn’t told her about. He...

Questions to Ask a Guy: The Rapid Intimacy Tool

Questions to Ask a Guy: The Rapid Intimacy Tool

Maybe there’s a guy you have a crush on. And maybe you’d like to move past awkward small talk with him so he can realize what an interesting person you are. In that case, it would be helpful to know the right questions to ask a guy. Questions that make him slip...

Bounce Back with Better Self-talk

Bounce Back with Better Self-talk

Think of your last REALLY BAD dating experience. The guy who arrived at your dinner date … only to confess he’d already eaten. The guy who vanished into thin air while you were freshening up in the bathroom. The guy who failed to mention he was married. The guy who...

Social Media Etiquette for Online Dating

Social Media Etiquette for Online Dating

Olivia was thrilled when a guy messaged her back on Match.com. He was the only match she actually liked out of the dozens Match.com kept throwing at her. She couldn’t figure out how their algorithm thought she’d like these guys with their bushy beards, serial-killer...

The 5 Factors of a Flourishing Relationship

The 5 Factors of a Flourishing Relationship

Everyone thinks they know what makes a relationship work. Communication. Date nights. Never going to bed angry. All those things help. But they’re not enough. To have a happy relationship, you’ve got to be happy, he’s got to be happy, and you’ve got to feel like...

The 5 Things Your Relationship Needs To Thrive

The 5 Things Your Relationship Needs To Thrive

Do you know what you need from a relationship? A relationship that doesn’t meet your basic needs isn’t going to work over the long term (though it may be fun in the short-term!). But that begs the question… What ARE your basic needs? Do you know? A popular exercise...

How Couple Rituals Keep You Together

How Couple Rituals Keep You Together

Being a couple is special. You’re unlike any other couple. As a couple, you have secrets no one else knows, you have inside jokes that send you delirious with laughter, and you have pet names and private rituals. Defining who you are as a couple is an important part...

How to Spot an Energy Vampire

How to Spot an Energy Vampire

Everyone loves vampires. Correction: we love FICTIONAL vampires. We love vampires as long as we know they’re not going to show up in our homes to drink our blood. 😉 Vampires are all the rage right now in the world of fiction. But how did the idea of vampires find...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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