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How to End a Date So He’ll Want to See You Again
You had a great time. He was fun. You had tons to talk about. You laughed like crazy. The date stretched on for hours. You’re sure he likes you—and the...
Why Is He Sending Suggestive Pictures—And How Can You Get Him to Stop?
Charlene was annoyed. “All I get are guys sending me disgusting pictures,” she told me. “Don’t they get that I don’t want to see them naked? They’ve got a...
Your Ideal Partner Might Just Be A Psychologically Androgynous Man
Brenda loved being with Kirk. He took charge. He arranged amazing dates, ordered her foods she’d never imagined trying, and gave her the courage to leave her...
3 Surprising Hacks to Ace a First Impression
It’s nerve-wracking enough to message someone online. But then to meet them in person? Terrifying! You can always put your best foot forward online. You can...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Can you love two people at the same time?
Johnny Depp is an amazing actor. I really enjoyed his work in Pirates of the Caribbean. However, I’m not sure I would trust his judgment on dating and relationships. I heard this Johnny Depp quote secondhand. What do you think about it? “If you...
The Emperor Has No Clothes (And There Are No Dating Rules)
In case the story is not common where you live, the expression "The emperor has no clothes" is from Hans Christian Anderson's fable The Emperor's New Clothes, published in 1837. It was one of my favorite childhood stories (at least the Mickey Mouse Version with...
What do guys mean by “high-maintenance?”
What does it mean when a man claims a woman was "high-maintenance?" In the private conversations men have, what do they say to justify the high-maintenance label? First of all, I'm not a fan of labels, particularly negative ones. But this particular label gets used...
The One Thing You Must Always Take with You on a Date
We're all looking for something special. We all want to walk away from a date with the feeling that we have just participated in something special. I'm talking about an authentic emotional connection. What is the one thing you must always take with you on a date?...
The Most Successful Female Dating Strategy
"Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant." ~ Robert Louis Stevenson Perhaps the simplest dating method of all is one that focuses on yourself. Specifically, it's a method that focuses on the actions you take each day. To understand...
The Absolute Worst Thing to Say after a Date
Let me start by asking if you know the answer to the following question. What is the number-one fear a woman has after a date that goes really well? Do you know? The most common fear is that he won't call again. The woman is left waiting, wondering, and feeling...
How to Make Your Online Dating Profile Attract the Right Kind of Attention
I have nothing against a cute headline for your dating profile. Just make sure your tagline, or sub headline, makes a statement rather than being generic. Focus on a single, compelling idea or "angle" rather than trying to cram your whole personality into the...
Are You Right for Each Other? The One True Test of Relationship Compatibility
When I was in high school, there was a girl named Stephanie who had it all. She was tall with a pretty face and a nice figure. Her dad was one of the richest guys in town and gave her the choice of any brand-new car she wanted for her sixteenth birthday. Nearly all...
The Self-fulfilling Prophesy That Lands You in “Friend Zone”
There's this strange human tendency to experience competing drives. Procrastination is a good example of this. You want to get something done, yet you experience a competing drive to just relax or avoid the task. The result is that your energy is not fully engaged in...
Should You Act Cheerful When You Don’t Feel Cheerful?
As a dating and relationship coach I put a lot of emphasis on using positive energy and a cheerful mood to attract the kind of men who tend to make good life-long partners. Several people have asked me if they should put on a cheerful mask even when they are not...
Two Power Habits for Dating
Here are two essential “power habits” that work synergistically to put you in contact with more quality men and ensure you enjoy the dating process as it unfolds. Remember his name the first time you meet him (and every time after). Use the power of networking. I’m...
Now You See Me, Now You Don’t.
A philosopher by the name of Alan Watts once said, “If you put your hand on the knee of a beautiful woman and leave it there, she’ll cease to notice it. But if you gently pat her on the knee, she’ll know you’re still there. This is because you come and go. Now you see...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!