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Is This the Simplest, Easiest Way to Date Online?
You’re chatting with this guy online. He seems fun. He asks interesting questions. He tells you cute anecdotes about himself. And so when he asks for your...
The Power of Heart-Oriented Dating
Janice threw herself down into my office chair with a sigh. One look at her told me how well her last week of dating had gone. “So!” I said. “Anyone...
Why Men Pay for 1st Dates and Other Male Mysteries
Ever wondered why men pay for first dates? Or why men keep talking to you, even when you’ve made it clear you’re not interested? Male behavior is full of...
How to End a Date So He’ll Want to See You Again
You had a great time. He was fun. You had tons to talk about. You laughed like crazy. The date stretched on for hours. You’re sure he likes you—and the...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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How to Protect Your Relationship from Going Cold
Imagine a man and woman, cuddled close on a cold night in a rickety old cabin. The cabin has many flaws. It leaks heat during the night, bringing a chill into the air. You can solve this problem by patching up the cracks. Or you can solve this problem by maintaining a...
Should I press for improvements in the relationship or just move on?
Angie was excited when she met Scott. He seemed to be everything she wanted. An embodiment of the very affirmation she held over the past two months while working with me as her relationship coach. I knew she was truly smitten with love when she said, "He just makes...
Silent Men
Taking joy in living is a woman’s best cosmetic. Rosalind Russell I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Joy is attractive. Foster joy in your life any chance you get. My personal belief is that joy emanates from a deep sense of meaning and purpose more than...
Can you love two people at the same time?
Johnny Depp is an amazing actor. I really enjoyed his work in Pirates of the Caribbean. However, I’m not sure I would trust his judgment on dating and relationships. I heard this Johnny Depp quote secondhand. What do you think about it? “If you...
The Emperor Has No Clothes (And There Are No Dating Rules)
In case the story is not common where you live, the expression "The emperor has no clothes" is from Hans Christian Anderson's fable The Emperor's New Clothes, published in 1837. It was one of my favorite childhood stories (at least the Mickey Mouse Version with...
What do guys mean by “high-maintenance?”
What does it mean when a man claims a woman was "high-maintenance?" In the private conversations men have, what do they say to justify the high-maintenance label? First of all, I'm not a fan of labels, particularly negative ones. But this particular label gets used...
The One Thing You Must Always Take with You on a Date
We're all looking for something special. We all want to walk away from a date with the feeling that we have just participated in something special. I'm talking about an authentic emotional connection. What is the one thing you must always take with you on a date?...
The Most Successful Female Dating Strategy
"Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant." ~ Robert Louis Stevenson Perhaps the simplest dating method of all is one that focuses on yourself. Specifically, it's a method that focuses on the actions you take each day. To understand...
The Absolute Worst Thing to Say after a Date
Let me start by asking if you know the answer to the following question. What is the number-one fear a woman has after a date that goes really well? Do you know? The most common fear is that he won't call again. The woman is left waiting, wondering, and feeling...
How to Make Your Online Dating Profile Attract the Right Kind of Attention
I have nothing against a cute headline for your dating profile. Just make sure your tagline, or sub headline, makes a statement rather than being generic. Focus on a single, compelling idea or "angle" rather than trying to cram your whole personality into the...
Are You Right for Each Other? The One True Test of Relationship Compatibility
When I was in high school, there was a girl named Stephanie who had it all. She was tall with a pretty face and a nice figure. Her dad was one of the richest guys in town and gave her the choice of any brand-new car she wanted for her sixteenth birthday. Nearly all...
The Self-fulfilling Prophesy That Lands You in “Friend Zone”
There's this strange human tendency to experience competing drives. Procrastination is a good example of this. You want to get something done, yet you experience a competing drive to just relax or avoid the task. The result is that your energy is not fully engaged in...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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