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3 Online Dating Traps to Avoid

3 Online Dating Traps to Avoid

When you see a guy’s profile, you instantly know whether he’s a catch. You just get a FEELING about him. You look at his picture. You read between the lines...

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The Surprising Secret to Long-Term Relationship Bliss

The Surprising Secret to Long-Term Relationship Bliss

What do you hope for in a dating relationship? It’s a simple question that can lead to some complex answers. Fun dates and first kisses are nice, but you probably have your sights set on something long-term. If you really let your mind go, you could end up thinking...

The “Dating After 40” Fix

The “Dating After 40” Fix

Women in their 40s and 50s often tell me it’s hard to date. I know it can be tough putting yourself out there and finding someone. Especially if you’re newly divorced or coming out of another long-term relationship. But here are some of the specific complaints I hear:...

How to Be More Approachable? Just Ask for Help

How to Be More Approachable? Just Ask for Help

Imagine you’re out with a few friends trying to find a guy. You’re at a bar. The drinks flow. Music plays. People struggle to talk over it and each other. Everyone is squeezed into “sexy” attire. Trying to be impressive. You do your best to seem open and interested as...

How To Handle Unwanted Attention From The Wrong Guy

How To Handle Unwanted Attention From The Wrong Guy

You’re at a party. You notice a guy smiling at you. It seems like the nice thing to do, so you smile back. Then he comes over and hits on you. Oh, boy… You’re not interested. But you don’t want to crush him. So you endure it. When you have a chance to slip away, you...

The “Food Method” for Building Rapport on Your First Date

The “Food Method” for Building Rapport on Your First Date

Have you ever been on an awkward first date? I know. That’s almost like asking if you’ve ever been on ANY first dates. First dates are tough. Expectations are often high. There’s an air of excitement, but there’s anxiety, too. You want him to like you. He wants you to...

Why Alone Time Makes You Seem Less Desperate

Why Alone Time Makes You Seem Less Desperate

Have you ever spotted a solo diner at a restaurant? Maybe you were out with some friends or on a date. Just a few tables over someone sat alone. You watched them for a while, stealing discreet glances when you could. What’s their story?, you wondered. Why are they...

What You Should Know Before Dating Someone from Work

What You Should Know Before Dating Someone from Work

We’ve all heard the warnings. Do not date someone from work. It’s not worth putting your career at risk or wrecking your reputation. You’ll regret it. But how true is it? Not at all, according to the 1 in 10 Americans[1] who met their future spouse at work. Since the...

When to Keep a Secret from Your Man: One Guiding Principle

When to Keep a Secret from Your Man: One Guiding Principle

What’s your stance on keeping secrets from your guy? Ask ten different women that question and you’ll get ten different answers. Some are advocates of sharing EVERYTHING, while others want to maintain areas of privacy, even in a serious relationship. You probably have...

How to Recognize – and Avoid – Pick-Up Artists

How to Recognize – and Avoid – Pick-Up Artists

Most of the time, my advice focuses on attracting guys. You want their attention. You want a connection. If a guy focuses on you, it’s a win, right? Well, not always. When you put yourself out there, it’s important to remember something: some guys are predators....

What Makes a Perfect Match?

What Makes a Perfect Match?

It’s no one’s place to tell you who to be attracted to. You’re attracted to who you’re attracted to. It may look crazy to outsiders, but it’s your right. No one else can see through your eyes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So how do you know who’s the perfect...

The Secret to Being Lucky in Love

The Secret to Being Lucky in Love

Do you consider yourself a lucky person? That may sound like a silly question. Right about now I’m supposed to share some kind of useful relationship-building tip. Instead, I’m asking if you think you’re lucky. Well, buckle up. Here comes that hard-hitting truth you...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy