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Your Favorite Jeans and The Perfect Guy
You’re going shopping, you walk into the store, and you see some jeans. These jeans look AMAZING. You love this brand, they’re completely affordable, and...
3 Things You Should Never Say to a Man
Everything is going great. You’re talking. You’re laughing. You’re having fun. Then you say something—you can’t even remember what now—and you can immediately...
Is His Job Wrecking Your Relationship?
He spends more time at work than he does with you. Sometimes it feels like he cares more about work than he cares about you. Does that mean he’s half-out of...
Where Are All the High-Quality Men?
Have you looked on Tinder lately? Tons and tons and TONS of men… But hardly any dead ringers for Mr. Right. As you scroll through profiles on your dating app...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Attract Your Perfect Mate Using Nothing More than Your Expectations
Everyone says, “I’ll believe it when I see it.” But what if that’s backwards? What if you can’t see something until you believe it’s possible? Let me give you an example. Every day, men smile at women they’d secretly love to get to know better. Women smile back,...
The Real Secret to Getting Him to Open Up
Have you ever wondered why men are so much more reluctant to share their feelings than women? The technical term for when a guy has a hard time talking about how he feels is “Normative Male Alexithymia.” That’s a ridiculously complicated way of saying that many men...
How to Work 60 Hours a Week and Still Find Time for Dating
Maybe you work 60 hours a week. Or you have kids. Or a demanding social life. Or maybe you’re going to night classes for a career makeover. But you also want romance in your life. The problem is, you’re short on time. You cram as much as possible into each day. You...
The Surprising Secret to Long-Term Relationship Bliss
What do you hope for in a dating relationship? It’s a simple question that can lead to some complex answers. Fun dates and first kisses are nice, but you probably have your sights set on something long-term. If you really let your mind go, you could end up thinking...
Finding “The One” Is Tough. Here’s One Place You Should Always Look.
Just for a second, imagine your perfect guy. Not in terms of looks or chemistry. Focus on the mundane stuff. The things you’re actually going to care about a year from now. You want a man who is willing to spend Saturday afternoon binge-watching your favorite TV show....
The “Dating After 40” Fix
Women in their 40s and 50s often tell me it’s hard to date. I know it can be tough putting yourself out there and finding someone. Especially if you’re newly divorced or coming out of another long-term relationship. But here are some of the specific complaints I hear:...
How to Be More Approachable? Just Ask for Help
Imagine you’re out with a few friends trying to find a guy. You’re at a bar. The drinks flow. Music plays. People struggle to talk over it and each other. Everyone is squeezed into “sexy” attire. Trying to be impressive. You do your best to seem open and interested as...
How To Handle Unwanted Attention From The Wrong Guy
You’re at a party. You notice a guy smiling at you. It seems like the nice thing to do, so you smile back. Then he comes over and hits on you. Oh, boy… You’re not interested. But you don’t want to crush him. So you endure it. When you have a chance to slip away, you...
The “Food Method” for Building Rapport on Your First Date
Have you ever been on an awkward first date? I know. That’s almost like asking if you’ve ever been on ANY first dates. First dates are tough. Expectations are often high. There’s an air of excitement, but there’s anxiety, too. You want him to like you. He wants you to...
Why Alone Time Makes You Seem Less Desperate
Have you ever spotted a solo diner at a restaurant? Maybe you were out with some friends or on a date. Just a few tables over someone sat alone. You watched them for a while, stealing discreet glances when you could. What’s their story?, you wondered. Why are they...
What You Should Know Before Dating Someone from Work
We’ve all heard the warnings. Do not date someone from work. It’s not worth putting your career at risk or wrecking your reputation. You’ll regret it. But how true is it? Not at all, according to the 1 in 10 Americans[1] who met their future spouse at work. Since the...
When to Keep a Secret from Your Man: One Guiding Principle
What’s your stance on keeping secrets from your guy? Ask ten different women that question and you’ll get ten different answers. Some are advocates of sharing EVERYTHING, while others want to maintain areas of privacy, even in a serious relationship. You probably have...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
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I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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