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3 Reasons Guys Stop Trying Once They Have You
When you met your guy, it was amazing. He treated you like a queen. He took you out. He listened. He wanted to learn everything you liked so he could give it...
The Case of the Disappearing Men
I’ve heard this story so many times. A guy really likes a girl, so he tries to come up with reasons to talk to her. He starts showing up in the same places...
5 Red Flags that Drive Great Men Away
You like him. But you don’t know what he thinks of you. You lie awake at night wondering: Does he like me? Does he find me attractive? Does he see me as...
When Things Get “Emotionally Weird”
Meghan was enjoying her new companion. They had great conversations. He was so interesting. They shared a lot of the same opinions about the world. And he was...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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What Romance Novels Can Teach You about Real Relationships
So I’m no expert on romance novels marketed to women. (You probably could have guessed that, right?) But I have read a few because it’s related to work I do. For me, the most fascinating part has nothing to do with the budding romance that inevitably swings into full...
How to Spot Your Future Husband Faster
What are the chances your future husband is trying to meet you online? One study suggests that it could be as high as 33%.[1] (Other estimates are more conservative at 5% to 25%, so keep your eyes open in the real world, too. If he’s not online, he’s likely to be...
How Personal Branding Can Help You Find Your Match
You’re at a party. Your host introduces you to someone you haven’t met before. He’s tall and good-looking, and his entire attention is focused on you. He grins and says, “So, tell me about yourself.” You stare at him like a deer caught in the headlights. He wants me...
This Is What Guys Really Care About
What does your guy value more than passion? Do you know? The answer may surprise you. Passion is pretty powerful. Men and women alike feel drawn to it. All of us want a life filled with passionate moments. But there are things that matter to us even more than passion....
When He Doesn’t Want All the Love You Have to Give
There’s nothing worse than knowing you have a big heart… A heart that any man would be privileged to cherish… And yet feeling that men don’t want your love. If you’ve ever felt like that, let me share with you a story I sometimes tell my clients. You’re standing in a...
How to Save Your Relationship from His Children
Becky thought she found the perfect guy. There was only one problem: His daughter hated her. Becky told me she could understand—really, she could. From his daughter’s perspective, Becky was stealing away her dad. But that wasn’t Becky’s intention at all. She respected...
How to Know if He’s Worth It . . . On the First Date
Want to play a fun (and completely immature) game? Fantastic. Answer the following question. What's the most ridiculous reason you've ever given for breaking up? There's a viral post making the rounds on social media. It includes some priceless answers to that...
The Art of Avoiding Creeps & Encouraging Good Guys
Mia had a unique problem. “The only guys who talk to me are the creepy ones,” she told me. “I try to end it pretty quick, but it’s getting frustrating. What am I, a creep magnet?” “What’s a creep, exactly?” I asked her. She gave me a look. “You know. A weirdo. Someone...
The Negativity Bias That Brings Down Relationships
He says you look beautiful tonight… But all you can remember is the last time you wore this outfit and the rude comment he made. He says he’s never loved you more than he does right now… But all you can remember is that time you argued and he said he regretted ever...
Why do guys pull away?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. I keep ending up with relationships that end after a few months. I am fun loving and he says I satisfy him physically, but then he wants no part when I ask where the relationship is going. Why do...
When You’re Tired of Waiting on His Promises
Has this ever happened to you? He swears he’s in love with you. He wants you to have a future together. He makes a promise to you. But… He’ll delays telling his friends you’re his girlfriend, promising to do so when the timing is better. He’ll find a place for the two...
How Invalidation Can Tear Apart Your Relationship—And What to Do about It
Janelle was telling me about a recent argument with her boyfriend. “I can’t get the back door unlocked.” She laughed at my blank expression. “Look, I know it doesn’t sound like a relationship issue, but it has become one. The lock jams several times each week....
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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