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One Argument Trap That’s Easy To Avoid

One Argument Trap That’s Easy To Avoid

Your brain is programmed to have a very specific reaction to fear. That reaction can save your life. But it can also wreck your relationships. Let’s take a quick trip back in time. Imagine you lived thousands of years ago, long before the world was civilized. Life was...

When to Trust Your Intuition in Romance

When to Trust Your Intuition in Romance

How much do you trust your intuition? In our culture, we talk a lot about women's intuition. A number of my clients have even told me that influential women in their lives encouraged them to always trust their intuition. Here's the picture we tend to paint. Men rely...

The “Effortless Mindset” for Stress-Free Success

The “Effortless Mindset” for Stress-Free Success

There are so many things in life you really want… But you don’t have. Like the perfect relationship. Or the perfect career. Or the perfect home. When clients come to me for help with getting what they want, I watch the pattern of their thoughts.  Because everyone...

Have You Ever Felt Like Dating Isn’t Fair?

Have You Ever Felt Like Dating Isn’t Fair?

There’s probably a lot you expect from dating. Romance, for sure. Some ups and downs are a given. The occasional heartbreak. But let me ask you this. Do you expect dating to be fair? Recently, I’ve been visiting with my friend, Crystal. She’s single, and I couldn’t...

Have a Summer Romance All Year Round

Have a Summer Romance All Year Round

Ever wondered why it’s so easy to flirt when you’re on vacation? Or why so many romances start in the summer? It all comes down to Playfulness. Relaxation, enjoyment, and endless stretches of free time create a magical environment for love to flourish. Which is...

How Do You Make a Man Like You?

How Do You Make a Man Like You?

I love it when I get asked: “How do you make someone like you?” It’s a fantastic question. Because we all want to be liked. We want to make friends, or win fans, or excel at networking. We want the social approval that smooths the way to success. But where the...

How Our Favorite Habits Can Blind Us to Romantic Opportunities

How Our Favorite Habits Can Blind Us to Romantic Opportunities

You’re loyal to what you like. Found the best coffee shop in town? Then that’s where you’re going for your caffeine hit. Got a certain band’s album on repeat? Then you’re going to see them in concert when they play in a city near you. You find the best lunch spot, or...

Be Friends with Your Man (Just Not All The Time)

Be Friends with Your Man (Just Not All The Time)

Do you consider your partner a friend? You should. Sometimes. The French philosopher Jean de la Bruyere once said, “Love and friendship exclude each other.” This is a deep topic. I mean, think about what the average dating relationship is like. There are similarities...

3 Rules You Need to Know about Men

3 Rules You Need to Know about Men

I can’t get away with saying that men aren’t complicated. Women don’t believe me. They’ve been on the receiving end of too many mystifying texts or communication blackouts. If men were simple, wouldn’t they say what they mean and cut the games? But if I said, “We guys...

Get Your Love Life Moving Faster by Setting Goals

Get Your Love Life Moving Faster by Setting Goals

There are two schools of thought when it comes to dating. School #1 says: “It will happen when it happens.” Don’t force things. Trust that it’s all happening perfectly. Pay attention to your intuition and surrender the rest. School #2 says: “You’ve got to MAKE it...

Why You Should Play the Long Game

Why You Should Play the Long Game

Why You Should Play the Long Game Jennifer was sick and tired of being overlooked by men … and she wasn’t shy about letting me know it. “I could follow all the dating advice out there to the letter,” she complained, “and it wouldn’t do me as much good as liposuction....

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy