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The Secret Need That Drives Men

The Secret Need That Drives Men

Some of my clients tell me that they already know how to deal with men. “You’ve got to train a man like you train a dog,” they say. “Ignore his bad behavior...

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Make It Easy for Him to Get to Know the REAL You

Make It Easy for Him to Get to Know the REAL You

There are things guys don’t want to know about. Female stuff. Insecurities. Drama. How much you wish he’d finally propose. If he knew how you REALLY felt? It would terrify him. Or at least that’s how common dating wisdom goes. Keep some things to yourself. He doesn’t...

Why the Spark Fades in Your Relationship & How to Get It Back

Why the Spark Fades in Your Relationship & How to Get It Back

Think back to 10 years ago. What were you doing? Was there a man in your life around that time? How much can you remember about him? What feelings come up when you think about him? Do you miss him? It’s amazing how sparks fade over time. No matter how you felt about...

Meet Better Men by Dialing into the “Good Man Channel”

Meet Better Men by Dialing into the “Good Man Channel”

“I would like to be in a relationship, but there’s one thing holding me back,” Stacey said. “What’s that?” “Men. I don’t trust them. They’re users. They’ve destroyed the lives of so many good women I know. Like, I’m glad my mother met my father, or I wouldn’t be...

Which is Better for Your Love Life:  Being Cautious or Optimistic?

Which is Better for Your Love Life: Being Cautious or Optimistic?

Scarlett and Aaron were going to have an amazing life together. She knew it in her bones. She’d never had a relationship this good. And she knew—even if Aaron didn’t—that he’d never had it this good, either. The problem was that he was pretending. Pretending he wasn’t...

3 Strategies to Tame a Guy Who ALWAYS Has to Win

3 Strategies to Tame a Guy Who ALWAYS Has to Win

“He has to win at everything!” Damona was exasperated. “We can’t even go for a game of mini golf without his ‘gotta-win’ hat going on. It’s not even fun anymore. We go for a hike, he’s gotta pass everyone else on the trail. I keep telling him it’s not a race to the...

Free Your Man from Anti-Commitment Peer Pressure

Free Your Man from Anti-Commitment Peer Pressure

Lewis Howes had it all. A seven-figure business. A bestselling book for which he was about to go on tour. An athletic career that had catapulted him all the way to the pros. So, the first thing he did? Break up with his long-term girlfriend. Why tie himself down? A...

3 Criteria to Spot an Emotionally Healthy Man

3 Criteria to Spot an Emotionally Healthy Man

“I want to find me a mature man. A guy who’s responsible, who treats me right, who doesn’t come with a whole lotta baggage I’m supposed to fix for him. Where is he, James? Can you find me this man?” Taraji was on fire. She leaned forward to emphasize her words. There...

How to Love Like Wonder Woman

How to Love Like Wonder Woman

Superheroes don’t have it easy. Romance is always troubled for them. Yet how often have you thought your life would be easier if only you were Wonder Woman? If only you DID have superpowers. Then you could get everything done, put the world to rights, look great in...

How Dating Inevitably Changes You

How Dating Inevitably Changes You

Do you ever wonder what would be different in your life if you hadn’t dated the men you’ve dated? Do relationships actually change who we are? If you’re a fan of the TV show Parks and Recreation, you may remember Ann’s dating adventures in the third season. She...

What’s Your One Non-Negotiable Thing?

What’s Your One Non-Negotiable Thing?

Jillian met Matt rock-climbing. It was a match made in heaven. Six months later, they’d moved in together and were on their way to happily ever after. Except, one year later, Jillian was no longer all that happy. She loved Matt. She still believed he was the One. But...

Does Dating Advice Really Help?

Does Dating Advice Really Help?

I know you’ve asked this question. At some point you’ve wondered if all these tips are worth anything. Does dating advice really help people find love? It’s a fair question. In a word, yes. Absolutely. I’ve seen it happen first hand a number of times. I personally...

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy