Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
A Guy’s Secret Fear
I’m going to share a rather big secret. It’s one of those secrets men aren’t going to tell you. It’s TOO personal. It gets at the core of what makes us...
He Won’t Talk About Marriage
“I just can’t give anymore, James,” she told me. “I don’t know what to do.” Marissa had come to me with a request. She wanted to get married. She and her guy...
3 Signs He’s A Good Long Term Partner
He’s so much fun to date, but what will he be like in 20 years? If you’re dating with the goal of finding your future husband, you can’t just find a man you...
Spot a Commitment-Minded Guy
For as long as I’ve known Rachel, she’s wanted the same thing: A wonderful guy who treated her well and wanted to make a future with her. But the men in her...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
Why He Loves It When You’re Selfish
Relationships thrive on selflessness. They require sacrifice, compromise, and putting each other first. We know this deep in our bones, and yet… Have you ever noticed lopsided relationships, where it seems like one person is doing all the giving and the other person...
Why Chasing Commitment Backfires (And What Works BETTER)
Which would you rather have: A passionate and intense relationship that lasted 4 years before imploding? Or a 30-year marriage that was good enough sometimes and not great most of the time? Hold onto that answer and see if it changes over the next few minutes....
The Four Tendencies in Relationships
Have you ever dated someone who never got off the couch? You knew he had amazing potential, but he never did anything with it. Trying to motivate him was a waste of time. Or maybe you’ve dated the opposite: Someone whose time was scheduled down to the minute. He never...
The Unsexy Art of Relationship Maintenance
You’ve read those relationship articles, right? The ones featured in magazines in checkout lines? They’re always about passion or keeping the spark alive or making your relationship magical. Would you like to know the truth about those articles? Sometimes they have...
The Difference between Commitment and Attachment
Belle was committed. She was going to stick with this relationship no matter what. She was never going to give up. She wasn’t that sort of person. She despised people who got married then ended up divorcing six months later. “No one knows how to commit anymore!” she...
How to Avoid the Easiest Relationship Mistake
Some breakups are worse than others. When romance goes south over something big, at least it makes sense. But when things tank without obvious explanation, the lack of resolution is particularly upsetting. There’s one really common relationship mistake that almost...
Why He Loves It When You Frustrate Him
Picture this. You’ve got two dates lined up this week. Both are with equally handsome, accomplished, interesting men. Bachelor #1 is the perfect gentleman. Your two hours together fly by. He asks for your number and promises to call. Bachelor #2 is inconsistent. He...
How Cute Puppies Can Improve Your Relationship
How do you handle difficult patches in your relationships? How do you reclaim the magic? The answer can make or break a relationship. Some couples can go through a rough period and come out the other side closer. Some just . . . don’t make. Would you like to know what...
How to Keep Stress from Killing Your Relationship
How’s your stress level? Are there days when you feel overloaded? Days when, as much as you care about him, stress affects how you treat your guy? Anna would understand. She’s a busy woman. She works fulltime, juggles an active social life, her boyfriend, and time in...
Be Friends with Your Man (Just Not All The Time)
Do you consider your partner a friend? You should. Sometimes. The French philosopher Jean de la Bruyere once said, “Love and friendship exclude each other.” This is a deep topic. I mean, think about what the average dating relationship is like. There are similarities...
3 Rules You Need to Know about Men
I can’t get away with saying that men aren’t complicated. Women don’t believe me. They’ve been on the receiving end of too many mystifying texts or communication blackouts. If men were simple, wouldn’t they say what they mean and cut the games? But if I said, “We guys...
Get Your Love Life Moving Faster by Setting Goals
There are two schools of thought when it comes to dating. School #1 says: “It will happen when it happens.” Don’t force things. Trust that it’s all happening perfectly. Pay attention to your intuition and surrender the rest. School #2 says: “You’ve got to MAKE it...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!