Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Can He Grow Old with You?
If you want a long-term relationship, you look for a man who says he wants one, too. If you want to get married someday, you look for a man who says he wants...
How To Override Relationship Negativity
Panic. That’s what Rachel felt. She just knew that Daniel was losing interest. He was still going out with the guys one night a week. He hadn’t talked to her...
A Guy’s Secret Fear
I’m going to share a rather big secret. It’s one of those secrets men aren’t going to tell you. It’s TOO personal. It gets at the core of what makes us...
He Won’t Talk About Marriage
“I just can’t give anymore, James,” she told me. “I don’t know what to do.” Marissa had come to me with a request. She wanted to get married. She and her guy...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
Feeling Jealous? Try this.
Josh was spending a lot of time at work. Marian didn’t mind. Not at first. She was proud of her fiancé. He told her the work he was putting in now would pay off in the form of a better life for both of them. But then she attended Josh’s office Christmas party … and...
Will the Amount of Money He Earns Affect My Future Happiness?
How much attention do you pay to a potential partner’s income? You know what you’re “supposed” to say. You’re supposed to say it doesn’t really matter. That money can’t buy love. That you’re way more invested in the person behind the bank account than his current...
Why He Loves It When You’re Selfish
Relationships thrive on selflessness. They require sacrifice, compromise, and putting each other first. We know this deep in our bones, and yet… Have you ever noticed lopsided relationships, where it seems like one person is doing all the giving and the other person...
Why Chasing Commitment Backfires (And What Works BETTER)
Which would you rather have: A passionate and intense relationship that lasted 4 years before imploding? Or a 30-year marriage that was good enough sometimes and not great most of the time? Hold onto that answer and see if it changes over the next few minutes....
The Four Tendencies in Relationships
Have you ever dated someone who never got off the couch? You knew he had amazing potential, but he never did anything with it. Trying to motivate him was a waste of time. Or maybe you’ve dated the opposite: Someone whose time was scheduled down to the minute. He never...
The Unsexy Art of Relationship Maintenance
You’ve read those relationship articles, right? The ones featured in magazines in checkout lines? They’re always about passion or keeping the spark alive or making your relationship magical. Would you like to know the truth about those articles? Sometimes they have...
The Difference between Commitment and Attachment
Belle was committed. She was going to stick with this relationship no matter what. She was never going to give up. She wasn’t that sort of person. She despised people who got married then ended up divorcing six months later. “No one knows how to commit anymore!” she...
How to Avoid the Easiest Relationship Mistake
Some breakups are worse than others. When romance goes south over something big, at least it makes sense. But when things tank without obvious explanation, the lack of resolution is particularly upsetting. There’s one really common relationship mistake that almost...
Why He Loves It When You Frustrate Him
Picture this. You’ve got two dates lined up this week. Both are with equally handsome, accomplished, interesting men. Bachelor #1 is the perfect gentleman. Your two hours together fly by. He asks for your number and promises to call. Bachelor #2 is inconsistent. He...
How Cute Puppies Can Improve Your Relationship
How do you handle difficult patches in your relationships? How do you reclaim the magic? The answer can make or break a relationship. Some couples can go through a rough period and come out the other side closer. Some just . . . don’t make. Would you like to know what...
How to Keep Stress from Killing Your Relationship
How’s your stress level? Are there days when you feel overloaded? Days when, as much as you care about him, stress affects how you treat your guy? Anna would understand. She’s a busy woman. She works fulltime, juggles an active social life, her boyfriend, and time in...
Be Friends with Your Man (Just Not All The Time)
Do you consider your partner a friend? You should. Sometimes. The French philosopher Jean de la Bruyere once said, “Love and friendship exclude each other.” This is a deep topic. I mean, think about what the average dating relationship is like. There are similarities...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!