Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
The Difference between Commitment and Attachment
Belle was committed. She was going to stick with this relationship no matter what. She was never going to give up. She wasn’t that sort of person. She...
How to Avoid the Easiest Relationship Mistake
Some breakups are worse than others. When romance goes south over something big, at least it makes sense. But when things tank without obvious explanation,...
Why He Loves It When You Frustrate Him
Picture this. You’ve got two dates lined up this week. Both are with equally handsome, accomplished, interesting men. Bachelor #1 is the perfect gentleman....
How Cute Puppies Can Improve Your Relationship
How do you handle difficult patches in your relationships? How do you reclaim the magic? The answer can make or break a relationship. Some couples can go...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Commitment Articles
Anticipation Machines for Human Relationships: What Does He Anticipate About You?
I recently heard a brain-science researcher discussing the nature of human memory. He was making the case that humans are "anticipation machines" and that memory is the foundation of our ability to anticipate what is coming next. He was talking about the difference...
Penetrating Laughter
"Laughter is the shortest distance between two people." ~ Victor Borge I agree with the quote above, but it can be hard to let loose and relax into natural laughter when you are trying to make a good impression on a date. When you are feeling inhibited (even if just a...
Turns Out Mr. Right Has A Quirk
Mr. Right is hard to find. He's not Mr. Right because he is perfect. He is Mr. Right because he is right for you. Even if he is right for you, chances are he's going to have a few quirks that annoy you. They seem trivial, but annoying quirks can gradually drive a...
A Few Espionage Tips
Generally speaking, a relationship only works if both partners make the decision to trust each other. I have counseled quite a few women on the importance of either embracing a man and choosing to trust him, or getting out of the relationship if he is an...
How to Spot an Emotionally Mature Man
Your intuition will be your guide to recognizing an emotionally mature man. Many women make the mistake of ignoring their intuition when they meet an attractive guy who shows interest in them. If you have not already enhanced your intuition with my course on intuition...
Your Man’s Hidden Agenda
We all have an agenda. An agenda is not necessarily a hidden, nefarious plan to get away with something at other people's expense. An agenda is like a set of goals, or a plan for what we will try to achieve. Some researchers have proposed there is one basic...
My Smoldering Hot Fantasy
Okay, I admit I've done some weird things in my life, but most of them were in pursuit of knowledge as a dating coach. I remember when a friend of mine dared me to dial a phone number, 1-800 FAT GIRLS (328-4457). This was ten years ago, so I have no idea what the...
How to Know When to End a Relationship?
A Useful Way to Know When to End a Relationship One of the most useful concepts for making personal and business decisions is "Zero-sum thinking." What is it? Zero-sum thinking is a method of clearing the mind of the effects of what is called a "sunken investment."...
How Friends Can Help Or Harm Your Dating Life
Imagine a private conversation between the man you are dating and his closest friend. It's a conversation never meant to reach your ears. Your boyfriend is discussing both the good and the bad of his experience with you so far. "Don't get me wrong, I really do like...
Should I Keep Him On His Toes or Be Steady and True?
Some women prefer to shake things up, to avoid being overly predictable, and to keep their man “on his toes.” Other women want to provide a consistent experience for the man they are dating. These women avoid being erratic. They figure a man will be hesitant to stick...
“Emotional Attraction” vs. “Physical Attraction”
What is the difference between "emotional attraction" and "physical attraction?" While there are varying opinions on this matter, I'll share the general consensus from men I have asked to put their feelings into words. Physical attraction is the desire to look and...
Don’t Marry Up (Or Down)
Interesting research from the University of Wisconsin evaluated over 500 couples to see how inequality between partners influences the satisfaction of the relationship in the long term. By "inequality" the researchers meant a variety of variables such as unusual...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!