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Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
Will He Ever Change?
It’s so tempting to believe you can fix him. You can see the things about his personality that are holding him back. If only he’d let you, you could help him...
Has Your Boyfriend Ever Done THIS to You?
A special holiday is coming up. Maybe it’s Valentine’s Day, or your birthday, or your anniversary. You’re excited. You love celebrating special occasions as a...
Bored in Your Relationship? Try These 3 Tips
True or false: Being bored in your relationship is a red flag. When asked this question, many people would instinctively say yes. Being bored feels like a bad...
3 Questions That Help You Know If He’s The One
It’s one of those questions I get asked all the time: “How do I know if he’s the one, James?” My clients want to know if this is as good as it gets. What if...
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More Commitment Articles
Finding “The One” Is Tough. Here’s One Place You Should Always Look.
Just for a second, imagine your perfect guy. Not in terms of looks or chemistry. Focus on the mundane stuff. The things you’re actually going to care about a year from now. You want a man who is willing to spend Saturday afternoon binge-watching your favorite TV show....
Taking Relationship Risks Makes You Smarter?
Which kind of person are you? The kind to charge in when something scares you? Or the kind to back away from risky situations? I’m going to go out on a limb and guess. You’re BOTH. Most of us are. There are times when we embrace risk, and times when we run from it. My...
How to be a Happier Couple
Here’s a question for you. Which is easier to remember? The good times or the bad times? Psychologist Karen Young says that we’re literally “wired to remember things that bring us pain.”[i] Ouch. She says this is a part of an ancient survival instinct. It’s like a...
How to Know When It’s Time to Move On
How do you feel about the idea of quitting? I mean quitting on a relationship when there is still a mix of both good and bad. Your stomach just rolled, didn’t it? Yeah, I feel the same way. I don’t like the notion of giving up, either. And we’re not alone. How many...
When to Keep a Secret from Your Man: One Guiding Principle
What’s your stance on keeping secrets from your guy? Ask ten different women that question and you’ll get ten different answers. Some are advocates of sharing EVERYTHING, while others want to maintain areas of privacy, even in a serious relationship. You probably have...
What Makes a Perfect Match?
It’s no one’s place to tell you who to be attracted to. You’re attracted to who you’re attracted to. It may look crazy to outsiders, but it’s your right. No one else can see through your eyes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So how do you know who’s the perfect...
How to Deal with Him when He’s Stressed Out
You already know that guys and girls handle stress differently. You’ve seen that reality in action. Think about the last time your guy had a really chaotic day. Maybe things went sideways on him at work, or his car broke down, or there was some kind of family drama....
The Only Proven Way to Improve Your Relationship
Did you know there's only one technique for improving relationships that's actually been proven to work? That's right. Just one. I know what you're thinking. I suggest tips for making your relationship better all the time. Not only that, but I back up my suggestions...
Do Men Go for Rebellious Women?
You know the iconic image. James Dean in a white t-shirt and leather jacket with his hair combed back sloppily. He has a look of casual indifference. There's a cigarette dangling from his lip. He's a rebel. You can tell by looking at him. And because he's a...
Get Him to Invest in Your Relationship
Women want commitment; men want freedom. Everyone knows that. Everyone knows women who’ve struggled to get a marriage proposal out of a long-term relationship. Everyone knows men committed to the bachelor lifestyle. At a glance, that distinction comes across as...
Are You Lonely in Your Relationship?
It sounds so easy: Find someone to love, and you’ll never be lonely again. But tell that to the many married adults who feel lonely even when their spouse is sitting right beside them. You can be together but not feel together. When your partner is detached,...
How to Talk Politics with your Partner – (Even if You Disagree!)
You know it as one of the most basic rules of etiquette. Don’t talk politics in mixed company. It’s the forbidden topic, right? Don’t talk about it at the dinner table. Don’t talk about it at work. Don’t talk about it in unfamiliar company. But can you bring it up on...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!