Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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My Relationships Never Last
“Once guys get to know me, they always leave.” “I can’t let down my guard. I’ll say the wrong thing and push him away.” “It’s risky to let a guy into my life....
Scientifically-Proven Way to Bounce Back (Better Than Ever!) from Heartbreak
You can’t eat. You can’t smile without forcing it. You can’t stop thinking about him. You can’t stop thinking about what happened. You feel terrible, you look...
What a Cup of Coffee Can Tell You about Your Relationship Mistakes
Bernadette was frustrated. “I did everything right, James,” she said. “I made sure to soften my approach, I talked about my feelings, I avoided blaming him …...
3 “Gifts” to Make Your Guy Feel Incredibly Loved
Long-term relationships are comfortable. You’re used to each other. You’ve got your routine. You no longer wake up every single morning thinking, “I’m so...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There's a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don't get this for one simple reason.
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Deepen Communication With This Method
https://youtu.be/k7QGKnxjxVE Some of the most interesting things people have learned about communication have come from the field of couples therapy. There is one intimacy-deepening communication method that has spread from counseling rooms to business board rooms and...
Top Ten List to Spot a High-Quality Man
https://youtube.com/shorts/yJQPAP2w0UU?feature=share Here is my top ten list of qualities you will want to look for in a man. I share this list with you as a dating coach, but also as a person with a deep desire to see good women end up with worthy men. I want YOU to...
Want to Be Irresistible? Stop Doing This in Conversations
https://youtube.com/shorts/1OqUvDQFKc0 As a dating consultant, I often get feedback from my clients about what seemed to help and what didn't. Today I'm sharing one piece of advice that never fails to result in enthusiastic feedback from my clients. It's so simple,...
Afraid to love again?
https://youtube.com/shorts/_mIPzhX4PiA Becky asked a question in response to my Be Brave post. I asked her if we could share her question, as I suspect many others have dealt with the issue she brings up. Thanks, Becky, for giving me permission to address this...
Force a Man To Like You More with this One Graceful Response
https://youtube.com/shorts/uSmc78i_yhk?feature=share Do you feel awkward when someone pays you a genuine complement? Do you experience a sudden increase in self-consciousness? Do you stammer or say nothing while averting your gaze? Do you hit the person that...
Happier and Thinner
Hey its James. I hope this post will inspire you to take one simple action...exercise. If the effects of physical exercise could be bottled and sold in the form of a pill, sales of that pill would exceed all other medications combined. Physical exercise is now...
Be Ready for This Question BEFORE He Asks You
https://youtu.be/YB6vkFjYsiY Hey, it's James with a tip for the early phase of a dating relationship. "So, what do you do for fun?" It's a question that usually comes a little while after, "What do you do for a living?" and, "Where are you from?" Few people are...
From Mysterious to Genuine
https://youtu.be/frS9OJOFY1o Hey, it's James with a message for those of you who like to use a little mystery to add an extra spark at the start of a relationship. Imagine this, Janice is on her second date with Ted. Janice is particularly good with her eyes. She can...
My Friend Breathes Music
https://youtu.be/ii-rRQCSlf8 Do you have this superpower? My friend is a social worker with a difficult job working on the inpatient unit of a mental health hospital. She has a forty-minute commute to work each day. I was talking with her about an audiobook I was...
Be Brave
https://youtu.be/Qiv-7IEXKe0 Hey its James. I hope this post will inspire you to take one simple action...exercise. If the effects of physical exercise could be bottled and sold in the form of a pill, sales of that pill would exceed all other medications combined. ...
Protect Yourself from False Relationships. And Get A Guy That Makes Your Heart Sing
https://youtu.be/-27JjZVRa04 Angie was excited when she met Scott. He seemed to be everything she wanted. An embodiment of the very affirmation she held over the past two months while working with me as her relationship coach. I knew she was truly smitten with love...
Communication Problems With Guys
https://youtu.be/j9SD-ixxP8g Now let me ask you, do you believe yourself to be a good communicator? Most women are good at communication, certainly when compared to their male counterparts. Yet as a dating coach, one of the most common issues I discuss with women is...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.