Become His Secret Obsession
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3 Secrets You Must Know about Men
Look, I get it. As a man who helps women achieve happier romantic outcomes with guys, I know it sometimes seems like men are from another planet. You don’t...
Make Him Change!
Natalia came into my office distraught. It was her boyfriend again. Nothing she said to him made a bit of difference. He was driving her crazy. I nodded as...
He Doesn’t Make Me Feel Special
He takes you for granted. He didn’t used to. He used to text you all the time. He used to beg to see you. Now? He never has time. He’s always got other things...
Classic Dating Advice That REALLY Works
You met this guy, and you REALLY like him. You can’t help telling your friends all about him… Dreaming about him while you’re supposed to be focusing at work…...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There's a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don't get this for one simple reason.
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Top 4 Relationship Questions
I polled our readers for their biggest questions and now I am ready to present the answers. I have taken the top four most common question themes and offered some deeper insights that will be useful for everyone. Here are the top four questions I will be addressing in...
When You’re Tired of Waiting on His Promises
Has this ever happened to you? He swears he’s in love with you. He wants you to have a future together. He makes a promise to you. But… He’ll delays telling his friends you’re his girlfriend, promising to do so when the timing is better. He’ll find a place for the two...
Should You Settle?
“Should I hold out for something better? Or should I settle for what I’ve got?” I’ve heard that question so many times. Mostly from women who are just starting relationships, but sometimes I hear it from women who are about to walk down the aisle. For those women,...
The Power of Presence to Banish Nervous Habits
Uncontrollable giggling. Babbling. Nervous gestures. You never do anything like that …. do you? 😉 Every one of us acts in a very specific way when we get nervous. People who know us can tell. No matter how hard we try to come across as calm, cool, and collected, our...
How Invalidation Can Tear Apart Your Relationship—And What to Do about It
Janelle was telling me about a recent argument with her boyfriend. “I can’t get the back door unlocked.” She laughed at my blank expression. “Look, I know it doesn’t sound like a relationship issue, but it has become one. The lock jams several times each week....
Watch Out for Relationship Burnout
When you want something—a relationship, a job, a goal—you put your all into it. You don’t stop. You keep going until you’ve got what you wanted. That should be good, right? It means you’re focused. Dedicated. An achiever. But it also puts you in danger. Working too...
If You Don’t Need a Man, Can You Still Rely on Him
“I’m never going to look for a man to complete me again,” Janice vowed. “No more relying on men. I declare my own independence.” I smiled warmly at Janice’s enthusiasm. She’d done a lot of work on herself in the past year. She knew she didn’t want any more codependent...
4 “Bad” Qualities to Look for in Guys You Date
So there you are. He just picked you up for the first date. You make small talk as you head to the restaurant. Nothing deep. Just typical getting-to-know-you banter. It's going well . . . and then IT happens. Another car cuts him off. He pumps the brakes, easily...
How to Get More Love in Your Life
We all want more love. Not even getting the perfect relationship can guarantee you’ll have enough. Couples who’ve been together for years don’t always feel loved the way they’d hoped. Getting more love in your life doesn’t start with changing your man, or even getting...
How to Deal with His (Insane) Expectations
Think about the last time you experienced really bad service at a restaurant. Maybe it took forever to get a table. Or the food was cold when it arrived. Or your order was wrong. Whatever the case, THE THING that made the experience negative was an unmet expectation....
How Do You Know If He’s Bad for You?
Every group of friends has one: The girl who doesn’t see the warning signs about the guy she’s with. She’s so happy to be with him that you can’t say anything. You exchange concerned glances with other friends, but you know the rules. It’s not your place to comment....
The Secret to Lasting Happiness
I had the good fortune of meeting a lovely elderly woman who was celebrating her 50th wedding anniversary. Of course I had to ask: “What’s the secret to staying happily married as long as you two?” “Secret?” She laughed. “There’s no secret. A happy marriage is made up...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.