Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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Why Don’t Guys Notice Me?
Every day I see women who are smart, attractive, warm, engaging, ready and eager to find love… Except that they can’t meet anyone. Their dating life is a...
Has Tinder Killed Relationships?
More and more often, I’ve been hearing from women that relationships are dead. Men don’t want to get to know you anymore. They just want to jump into bed....
3 Ways to Be Braver in Love
Researchers put out a pitcher of lemonade and poured a glass for some boys and girls. The boys tasted the lemonade and made a face. “Gross!” said one. “It...
Why Men Lie
Bethany pressed her lips tight to keep from crying. “I don’t understand why he lied to me, James. He could have just told me.” Everything she thought she knew...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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How to Save Your Relationship from His Children
Becky thought she found the perfect guy. There was only one problem: His daughter hated her. Becky told me she could understand—really, she could. From his daughter’s perspective, Becky was stealing away her dad. But that wasn’t Becky’s intention at all. She respected...
How to Know if He’s Worth It . . . On the First Date
Want to play a fun (and completely immature) game? Fantastic. Answer the following question. What's the most ridiculous reason you've ever given for breaking up? There's a viral post making the rounds on social media. It includes some priceless answers to that...
Tap Into Authenticity for Romantic Bliss
Have you ever been happy and miserable at the same time? I was talking to a client the other day. From outward appearances, she’s got it made. She has an amazing job, she’s in good shape, and the guy she’s dating is a real catch. She looks happy practically all the...
The Art of Avoiding Creeps & Encouraging Good Guys
Mia had a unique problem. “The only guys who talk to me are the creepy ones,” she told me. “I try to end it pretty quick, but it’s getting frustrating. What am I, a creep magnet?” “What’s a creep, exactly?” I asked her. She gave me a look. “You know. A weirdo. Someone...
The Negativity Bias That Brings Down Relationships
He says you look beautiful tonight… But all you can remember is the last time you wore this outfit and the rude comment he made. He says he’s never loved you more than he does right now… But all you can remember is that time you argued and he said he regretted ever...
How to get him to commit?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. What do you do when a guy you really like has other love interests and is kind of on the fence about a committed relationship with you as a result? This issue came up a lot from those of you who...
Why do guys pull away?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. I keep ending up with relationships that end after a few months. I am fun loving and he says I satisfy him physically, but then he wants no part when I ask where the relationship is going. Why do...
How can I get him back?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. We had a fight and sort of broke up. Now I want him back. What can I do? Try using reciprocity. There is a powerful urge in human nature to return a favor. Sales people all over the world have...
How To Get Out of the Friend Zone
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. The dreaded "friend zone" can be a frustrating trap. No one wants to get caught in it. Allow me to offer a few tips on breaking free of the friend zone to become the object of his desire. Before I...
Top 4 Relationship Questions
I polled our readers for their biggest questions and now I am ready to present the answers. I have taken the top four most common question themes and offered some deeper insights that will be useful for everyone. Here are the top four questions I will be addressing in...
When You’re Tired of Waiting on His Promises
Has this ever happened to you? He swears he’s in love with you. He wants you to have a future together. He makes a promise to you. But… He’ll delays telling his friends you’re his girlfriend, promising to do so when the timing is better. He’ll find a place for the two...
Should You Settle?
“Should I hold out for something better? Or should I settle for what I’ve got?” I’ve heard that question so many times. Mostly from women who are just starting relationships, but sometimes I hear it from women who are about to walk down the aisle. For those women,...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.