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Should I Go No Contact?

Should I Go No Contact?

I’m sometimes asked whether I think the No Contact Rule works. For those of you unfamiliar with the term, the No Contact Rule refers to ceasing all contact...

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When Generosity Backfires

When Generosity Backfires

“Give more than you get.” It’s such a beautiful philosophy. It inspires generosity, selflessness, and a sense of abundance. But there’s one place where giving...

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Why the Spark Fades in Your Relationship & How to Get It Back

Why the Spark Fades in Your Relationship & How to Get It Back

Think back to 10 years ago. What were you doing? Was there a man in your life around that time? How much can you remember about him? What feelings come up when you think about him? Do you miss him? It’s amazing how sparks fade over time. No matter how you felt about...

Meet Better Men by Dialing into the “Good Man Channel”

Meet Better Men by Dialing into the “Good Man Channel”

“I would like to be in a relationship, but there’s one thing holding me back,” Stacey said. “What’s that?” “Men. I don’t trust them. They’re users. They’ve destroyed the lives of so many good women I know. Like, I’m glad my mother met my father, or I wouldn’t be...

Which is Better for Your Love Life:  Being Cautious or Optimistic?

Which is Better for Your Love Life: Being Cautious or Optimistic?

Scarlett and Aaron were going to have an amazing life together. She knew it in her bones. She’d never had a relationship this good. And she knew—even if Aaron didn’t—that he’d never had it this good, either. The problem was that he was pretending. Pretending he wasn’t...

3 Strategies to Tame a Guy Who ALWAYS Has to Win

3 Strategies to Tame a Guy Who ALWAYS Has to Win

“He has to win at everything!” Damona was exasperated. “We can’t even go for a game of mini golf without his ‘gotta-win’ hat going on. It’s not even fun anymore. We go for a hike, he’s gotta pass everyone else on the trail. I keep telling him it’s not a race to the...

Free Your Man from Anti-Commitment Peer Pressure

Free Your Man from Anti-Commitment Peer Pressure

Lewis Howes had it all. A seven-figure business. A bestselling book for which he was about to go on tour. An athletic career that had catapulted him all the way to the pros. So, the first thing he did? Break up with his long-term girlfriend. Why tie himself down? A...

3 Criteria to Spot an Emotionally Healthy Man

3 Criteria to Spot an Emotionally Healthy Man

“I want to find me a mature man. A guy who’s responsible, who treats me right, who doesn’t come with a whole lotta baggage I’m supposed to fix for him. Where is he, James? Can you find me this man?” Taraji was on fire. She leaned forward to emphasize her words. There...

3 Qualities of Great #RelationshipGoals

3 Qualities of Great #RelationshipGoals

Everyone has #RelationshipGoals. A tropical holiday with a gorgeous guy. A white wedding planned down to the tiniest details. A house full of kids, laughter, and at least one dog. What are yours? Relationship goals are more than just a fun hashtag. They’re life or...

Are You Too Nice to Break Up with Him?

Are You Too Nice to Break Up with Him?

You’ve been dating for a while. He’s a good guy. A really good guy. He’s nice, your parents like him, he’s got a solid career, and he picks up after himself. What do you have to complain about? And yet… The thought of walking down the aisle with him fills your heart...

The Mindset Makeover for Confidence

The Mindset Makeover for Confidence

This article is about building your social confidence and optimism. So you might find this next sentence a bit strange. It’s common for Buddhist monks to meditate on death. Specifically, their own death. Why would they do that? Well, Buddhists seek enlightenment, a...

Social Skills Boot Camp

Social Skills Boot Camp

I like confident people. Especially when the source of their confidence is good social skills (rather than good looks, wealth, or accomplishments). Because, here’s the thing about a person who is socially adept… They can: make you feel good about yourself, help you...

Flirting Boot Camp

Flirting Boot Camp

Flirting is essential to building AND maintaining romantic relationships. Whether you’ve been too self-conscious to start, or you just want to expand your comfort with flirting, this article will help. We’re going to rapidly review the basics…the “active ingredients”...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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