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How Facebook Knows Who You’re Dating— And Why That Matters to All of Us
Imagine two couples. The first couple, Jack and Jill, have a gazillion friends in common. They met at a party thrown by mutual friends, and it was love at...
3 Surprising First Date Conversation Tips
You’re on a first date, and you really want to make it to a second date. Should you: (a) Talk about him, or (b) talk about yourself?(a) Ask lots of questions,...
How Do You Know if You’re Compatible with Someone?
When I ran into my friend Kalia the other day, I was amazed at how relaxed and happy she looked. Her hair was styled in the same light brown bob as always,...
Crazy Hacks to Boost Your Online Dating Success
You’re picking an online dating profile picture. Which picture do you choose? The one of you dressed up and smiling at the camera.The one of you pouting at...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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“Emotional Attraction” vs. “Physical Attraction”
What is the difference between "emotional attraction" and "physical attraction?" While there are varying opinions on this matter, I'll share the general consensus from men I have asked to put their feelings into words. Physical attraction is the desire to look and...
Going to Extremes to Get Together
I was driving out of my neighborhood this morning when I saw my neighbor's four-year-old son playing outside. My neighbors are Emily and Mark, and their four-year-old son, Ethan. Emily is an American, though she speaks with a mixed accent after having spent most of...
This is Embarrassing
As a dating consultant, I often get feedback from my clients about what seemed to help and what didn't. Today I'm sharing one piece of advice that never fails to result in enthusiastic feedback from my clients. It's so simple, it's embarrassing. Are you...
Be Ready for This Question BEFORE He Asks You
Hey, it's James with a tip for the early phase of a dating relationship. "So, what do you do for fun?" It's a question that usually comes a little while after, "What do you do for a living?" and, "Where are you from?" Few people are adequately prepared to answer this...
From Mysterious to Genuine
Hey, it's James with a message for those of you who like to use a little mystery to add an extra spark at the start of a relationship. Imagine this, Janice is on her second date with Ted. Janice is particularly good with her eyes. She can communicate more with her...
Be Brave
Hey its James. I hope this post will inspire you to take one simple action...exercise. If the effects of physical exercise could be bottled and sold in the form of a pill, sales of that pill would exceed all other medications combined. Physical exercise is...
Protect Yourself from False Relationships. And Get A Guy That Makes Your Heart Sing
Angie was excited when she met Scott. He seemed to be everything she wanted. An embodiment of the very affirmation she held over the past two months while working with me as her relationship coach. I knew she was truly smitten with love when she said, "He just makes...
Leverage vs. Brute Force in Dating
Modern society owes all of its success to the power of leverage. Regardless of your ethnic background, all of our ancestors started out hunting, fishing, or farming for their own little family or tribe. At some point, cultures became sophisticated enough with trade...
Guys and Emotions: Why won’t he open up?
Lets talk about guys and emotions. Here are some insights you may find useful on this topic. Men have just as many emotions as women. Hard to believe right =) So why don't they open up about their emotions? Why does everything have to be about the logic of the...
Are There Any Tricks To Making A Man Fall In Love With You?
The short answer is yes. For example, in my training materials I describe a method for making your pupils grow larger while making eye contact with a man. Executed correctly, this technique can cause him to feel drawn towards you in a romantic way (without knowing...
Should I Use Online Dating Sites Or Is That A Waste Of Time?
There are right ways and wrong ways to use online dating sites. The key is to remember they are just tools. Any tool can end up being a waste of time (or even damaging) if used in the wrong way. When handled correctly, tools can speed you to your goal. The right way...
Best First Date Conversation Topics
My friend accidentally sent a sip of Coke up her nasal passage. She was laughing too hard at Jeremy's story. I bet you've had some lively conversations like this. Think about the most fun you ever had with a group of friends. Chances are, you and your friends stumbled...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!