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2 Dating Strategies That Get You What You Want
Which dating strategy appeals most to you? Get lots of male attention by learning exactly what to do to make men notice you and want you.Find your future...
Flaky Behavior in Guys? My top Solution
Think of the last guy who really flaked on you. What did he do? Didn’t text/call you back. Disappeared on you. Didn’t show up for a date. These days, it’s...
Brené Brown Wants You to Drop Your Armor
Brené Brown is everywhere. If you didn’t catch her TED talk or her appearance on Oprah’s SuperSoul conversations, you might have seen her recent Netflix...
The Power of a 6-Second Kiss
New couples make out… Old couples give each other a peck on the cheek. The longer you’re together, the more habitual your kissing becomes. You don’t need to...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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The Shotgun Approach
I have several friends who have gone through the process of applying to medical school to become a physician. Some of them have used what's called "the shotgun approach." Basically, it means they abandon the detailed research of any one medical school and instead...
How and When to Tell Him about Medical Issues
I am very grateful for all the kind, sweet, thoughtful, and responsible women who ask me this question: "I have this issue that I feel I need to be upfront with him about before our relationship goes too far. Should I tell him about it on the first date?" I...
Anticipation Machines for Human Relationships: What Does He Anticipate About You?
I recently heard a brain-science researcher discussing the nature of human memory. He was making the case that humans are "anticipation machines" and that memory is the foundation of our ability to anticipate what is coming next. He was talking about the difference...
Penetrating Laughter
"Laughter is the shortest distance between two people." ~ Victor Borge I agree with the quote above, but it can be hard to let loose and relax into natural laughter when you are trying to make a good impression on a date. When you are feeling inhibited (even if just a...
Before You Text Your Boyfriend, Read This
Here are a few things I have learned about texting as a relationship coach. 1.You should not make decisions or write those decisions in a text message when you are upset. 2.You should be VERY slow to respond to text messages when you are angry. 3.Your own mood will...
How To Give Your Guy Feedback Without Getting Into Arguments
What does the term "feedback" mean to you? If you're like most people, you think of it as a tool for repair. You give your boyfriend feedback to fix something. Feedback is generally used as a method of telling people what they have done wrong and what they need to do...
Let Me Love You
As you can probably imagine, I spend a fair amount of time absorbing the ideas and methods of other dating coaches. Some of their ideas are helpful, some I just flat-out disagree with. Generally speaking, I agree with the concept of putting your best foot forward and...
Your Man’s Hidden Agenda
We all have an agenda. An agenda is not necessarily a hidden, nefarious plan to get away with something at other people's expense. An agenda is like a set of goals, or a plan for what we will try to achieve. Some researchers have proposed there is one basic...
My Smoldering Hot Fantasy
Okay, I admit I've done some weird things in my life, but most of them were in pursuit of knowledge as a dating coach. I remember when a friend of mine dared me to dial a phone number, 1-800 FAT GIRLS (328-4457). This was ten years ago, so I have no idea what the...
How Friends Can Help Or Harm Your Dating Life
Imagine a private conversation between the man you are dating and his closest friend. It's a conversation never meant to reach your ears. Your boyfriend is discussing both the good and the bad of his experience with you so far. "Don't get me wrong, I really do like...
Should I Keep Him On His Toes or Be Steady and True?
Some women prefer to shake things up, to avoid being overly predictable, and to keep their man “on his toes.” Other women want to provide a consistent experience for the man they are dating. These women avoid being erratic. They figure a man will be hesitant to stick...
Tempt Him With Happiness
Your happiness is a form of psychological wealth! It's the kind of wealth that has unlimited value. You can't buy happiness directly. You can buy material things that contribute to your happiness, but behind each of those purchases is the desire...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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