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How to End a Date So He’ll Want to See You Again
You had a great time. He was fun. You had tons to talk about. You laughed like crazy. The date stretched on for hours. You’re sure he likes you—and the...
Why Is He Sending Suggestive Pictures—And How Can You Get Him to Stop?
Charlene was annoyed. “All I get are guys sending me disgusting pictures,” she told me. “Don’t they get that I don’t want to see them naked? They’ve got a...
Your Ideal Partner Might Just Be A Psychologically Androgynous Man
Brenda loved being with Kirk. He took charge. He arranged amazing dates, ordered her foods she’d never imagined trying, and gave her the courage to leave her...
3 Surprising Hacks to Ace a First Impression
It’s nerve-wracking enough to message someone online. But then to meet them in person? Terrifying! You can always put your best foot forward online. You can...
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The Self-fulfilling Prophesy That Lands You in “Friend Zone”
There's this strange human tendency to experience competing drives. Procrastination is a good example of this. You want to get something done, yet you experience a competing drive to just relax or avoid the task. The result is that your energy is not fully engaged in...
Should You Act Cheerful When You Don’t Feel Cheerful?
As a dating and relationship coach I put a lot of emphasis on using positive energy and a cheerful mood to attract the kind of men who tend to make good life-long partners. Several people have asked me if they should put on a cheerful mask even when they are not...
Two Power Habits for Dating
Here are two essential “power habits” that work synergistically to put you in contact with more quality men and ensure you enjoy the dating process as it unfolds. Remember his name the first time you meet him (and every time after). Use the power of networking. I’m...
Now You See Me, Now You Don’t.
A philosopher by the name of Alan Watts once said, “If you put your hand on the knee of a beautiful woman and leave it there, she’ll cease to notice it. But if you gently pat her on the knee, she’ll know you’re still there. This is because you come and go. Now you see...
The Shotgun Approach
I have several friends who have gone through the process of applying to medical school to become a physician. Some of them have used what's called "the shotgun approach." Basically, it means they abandon the detailed research of any one medical school and instead...
How and When to Tell Him about Medical Issues
I am very grateful for all the kind, sweet, thoughtful, and responsible women who ask me this question: "I have this issue that I feel I need to be upfront with him about before our relationship goes too far. Should I tell him about it on the first date?" I...
Anticipation Machines for Human Relationships: What Does He Anticipate About You?
I recently heard a brain-science researcher discussing the nature of human memory. He was making the case that humans are "anticipation machines" and that memory is the foundation of our ability to anticipate what is coming next. He was talking about the difference...
Penetrating Laughter
"Laughter is the shortest distance between two people." ~ Victor Borge I agree with the quote above, but it can be hard to let loose and relax into natural laughter when you are trying to make a good impression on a date. When you are feeling inhibited (even if just a...
Before You Text Your Boyfriend, Read This
Here are a few things I have learned about texting as a relationship coach. 1.You should not make decisions or write those decisions in a text message when you are upset. 2.You should be VERY slow to respond to text messages when you are angry. 3.Your own mood will...
How To Give Your Guy Feedback Without Getting Into Arguments
What does the term "feedback" mean to you? If you're like most people, you think of it as a tool for repair. You give your boyfriend feedback to fix something. Feedback is generally used as a method of telling people what they have done wrong and what they need to do...
Let Me Love You
As you can probably imagine, I spend a fair amount of time absorbing the ideas and methods of other dating coaches. Some of their ideas are helpful, some I just flat-out disagree with. Generally speaking, I agree with the concept of putting your best foot forward and...
Your Man’s Hidden Agenda
We all have an agenda. An agenda is not necessarily a hidden, nefarious plan to get away with something at other people's expense. An agenda is like a set of goals, or a plan for what we will try to achieve. Some researchers have proposed there is one basic...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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