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Why Rushing a Relationship Decreases Your Enjoyment

Why Rushing a Relationship Decreases Your Enjoyment

Jessica is busy. She has a chaotic job, often requiring hours of overtime. She rushes frantically from meeting to meeting, always just barely pulling it off. Somehow, she juggles that with family, outings with friends, daily workouts, and (most recently) …dating. When...

Your Crush: “She’s Just So Refreshing.”

Your Crush: “She’s Just So Refreshing.”

Angie was excited when she met Scott. He seemed to be everything she wanted. An embodiment of the very affirmation she held over the past two months while working with me as her relationship coach. I knew she was truly smitten with love when she said, "He just makes...

Avoid this Holiday Romance Mistake

Avoid this Holiday Romance Mistake

The holidays can be a wonderful time for relationships. Or they can wreak havoc on your dating life. It all depends on whether or not you manage to avoid one critical mistake. A lot of people roll into the holiday season thinking the festivities will give them unique...

Do Men Fear Commitment, Or Is It Something Else?

Do Men Fear Commitment, Or Is It Something Else?

The idea that men are afraid of commitment is universally accepted. Most of us think of it as a given, assuming men and commitment just don't mix. But this common perception is fundamentally flawed. Men aren't really afraid of commitment, and never have been. I know....

“I’m Too Damaged” 2 Reasons to Believe Him

“I’m Too Damaged” 2 Reasons to Believe Him

If a guy tells you he's too damaged, too depressed, or too anything else, take him at his word. Do you remember that Cold Play song, "Fix You?" The chorus said, "Lights will guide you home, and ignite your bones, and I will try to fix you." That was the most popular...

Never Date a Man without First Knowing Your BATNA

Never Date a Man without First Knowing Your BATNA

If you enjoy dating just for the sake of dating, and you have no other motive for dating beyond enjoying a few interactions with a guy, you can skip this article. But if a part of your reason for dating is because you'd actually like to develop a warm and engaging...

Why Men Fall In Love

Men fall in love because they are biologically designed to do just that. All you have to do is become a lightning rod for his built-in love instincts. The truth is, everything that is feminine about you calls to him. Deserted on an island together, your feminine...

Love Your Relationship to the Fullest

Mae West said, "You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough." Are you doing it right? Are you spending your time, effort and energy on the things that are really worthwhile? Or are you holding back? Don't hold back. Live your life to the fullest. Spend...

Is He The One?

There are two common reasons a woman asks this question. I can tell you a lot about your relationship depending on which reason is behind your question. It’s normal to get a pit-of-the-stomach nervous feeling when you think about committing your life to someone. Big...

How To Make Dating Less Painful

Does dating feel like work to you? If you experience dating as something uncomfortable, a means to an end, then you’re doing it wrong. I know that's a bold statement, so let me back it up with some bold reasoning. We'll start with the fact that you are at your best...

The Most Infuriating Thing About Dating Men

Men are weird. They think weird things and they do weird things. This leaves intelligent women in the uncomfortable and awkward position of having to take wild guesses about what to do next. One of the challenging things about being a woman who is used to taking...

5 Mysteries of the Male Brain

Male and female brains are different. Sometimes very different. It all comes back to what happens in the womb. Before we’re even born, our brains begin to develop. During this time, the male brain is powerfully influenced by the presence of testosterone....

Discover What Men Secret Want

There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy