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How To Love More Deeply
When you meet someone really cool… And you seem to have a connection, and he seems to like you back… It’s the best feeling in the world. You can’t stop...
A Subtle Persuasion Technique
You’ve arranged to meet several men you connected with online. The first guy talks about his life in a way that’s extremely impressive. He’s confident, and...
He Only Wants Something Casual
This is not how it was supposed to turn out. You have spent so much time searching for a man who makes you feel like this. You thought you might never find...
He Doesn’t Pay Attention to Me
A few years back, I was at a picnic when an old friend of mine came and sat down next to me. “James!” she said, and gave me a huge hug. Annabeth had been a...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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More Dating Articles
First-Date Nerves? Channel Them for A Big Advantage
“Does he like me?” Can you remember the first time you asked yourself that question? You were just a girl the first time you cared about what a boy thought of you. The answer to that question mattered profoundly. If he liked you, your heart leapt with joy. If you...
The Four Tendencies in Relationships
Have you ever dated someone who never got off the couch? You knew he had amazing potential, but he never did anything with it. Trying to motivate him was a waste of time. Or maybe you’ve dated the opposite: Someone whose time was scheduled down to the minute. He never...
How to Turn a Guy Down Without Feeling Guilty
Which is worse? Going out on a lame date . . . or saying no to a guy you’re not into? Most of my readers are mature, intelligent and kind. I’m sure you don’t take pleasure in making guys feel horrible just for asking you out. What do you say when you don’t want to say...
The Best Dating Tips Are Incredibly Simple
Have you ever fallen for bad dating advice? There are two pieces of dating advice I come across all the time. You’ve almost certainly heard both of them. You’ve probably even tried to act on them. And the results weren’t what you were looking for. The very worst...
7 Ways to Make Online Dating as Awesome as it Should Be
Online dating is super easy. It’s not even hard to find good guys. But finding a good guy who’s right for YOU—now, that can be a challenge. It’s kind of like shopping online. Have you ever bought something online only to send it right back? Maybe it was a summer...
Why Convincing Your Ex Never Works… (and what does)
When you’ve shared a special connection with someone, it’s hard to let it go. Especially when you know there’s still a lot of potential if he would just open his heart again. You could build a beautiful life together. If that’s something you want, then it’s only...
Beat Negativity for a Positively Amazing Romance
You know what really sucks about having a bad day? Everything. I have a friend—let’s call her Sarah—who was having a rotten day recently. She slept late, her boss was on her butt the second she walked through the door, clients were upset, and halfway through the...
Why You Should Embrace the Chaos of Dating
You have dating horror stories. I know you do because every woman does. (Every guy has them, too.) I recently came across a list of dating horror stories.[1] They’re both entertaining and awkward. Has anything like this happened to you? They met for dinner, at which...
6 Dating Red Flags (And How to Fix Them)
Do you remember that time you were dating a guy and everything was just perfect? Of course you don’t. That kind of relationship doesn’t exist. Relationships involve people, and none of us are perfect! And yet, I talk to a lot of women who think romantic perfection is...
What You Can Learn from His Ex
Let’s talk about the woman your man used to be with. His ex. Even though they’re not together anymore, she feels like competition. Like (no matter what he says) he might still have some residual feelings of attraction towards her. It doesn’t help that a 2012 study...
The Romantic Advantage of Seeing the World in Shades of Gray
Want to know whether this guy has what it takes to last in the long run? Ask him about his parents. Or his exes. Or his boss. People who are emotionally charged for him. Then sit back and listen. If he paints a world in which people are either good or bad, saints or...
When You Should (and Shouldn’t) Say Yes to a Second Date
Picture this. You're out with a friend. She's shoe shopping, and you've agreed to lend your fashion advice. You walk into a store with no intention of buying anything for yourself, but the moment you enter it washes over you. The scent of leather. Suddenly, you're...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!