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He Doesn’t Pay Attention to Me
A few years back, I was at a picnic when an old friend of mine came and sat down next to me. “James!” she said, and gave me a huge hug. Annabeth had been a...
He Won’t Work on the Relationship
He won’t work on the relationship. He won’t do ANYTHING. He says things are fine as they are. He says there’s nothing to talk about. And what you hear is: “I...
Has Tinder Killed Relationships?
More and more often, I’ve been hearing from women that relationships are dead. Men don’t want to get to know you anymore. They just want to jump into bed....
3 Ways to Be Braver in Love
Researchers put out a pitcher of lemonade and poured a glass for some boys and girls. The boys tasted the lemonade and made a face. “Gross!” said one. “It...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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The Best Dating Tips Are Incredibly Simple
Have you ever fallen for bad dating advice? There are two pieces of dating advice I come across all the time. You’ve almost certainly heard both of them. You’ve probably even tried to act on them. And the results weren’t what you were looking for. The very worst...
7 Ways to Make Online Dating as Awesome as it Should Be
Online dating is super easy. It’s not even hard to find good guys. But finding a good guy who’s right for YOU—now, that can be a challenge. It’s kind of like shopping online. Have you ever bought something online only to send it right back? Maybe it was a summer...
Why Convincing Your Ex Never Works… (and what does)
When you’ve shared a special connection with someone, it’s hard to let it go. Especially when you know there’s still a lot of potential if he would just open his heart again. You could build a beautiful life together. If that’s something you want, then it’s only...
Beat Negativity for a Positively Amazing Romance
You know what really sucks about having a bad day? Everything. I have a friend—let’s call her Sarah—who was having a rotten day recently. She slept late, her boss was on her butt the second she walked through the door, clients were upset, and halfway through the...
Why You Should Embrace the Chaos of Dating
You have dating horror stories. I know you do because every woman does. (Every guy has them, too.) I recently came across a list of dating horror stories.[1] They’re both entertaining and awkward. Has anything like this happened to you? They met for dinner, at which...
6 Dating Red Flags (And How to Fix Them)
Do you remember that time you were dating a guy and everything was just perfect? Of course you don’t. That kind of relationship doesn’t exist. Relationships involve people, and none of us are perfect! And yet, I talk to a lot of women who think romantic perfection is...
What You Can Learn from His Ex
Let’s talk about the woman your man used to be with. His ex. Even though they’re not together anymore, she feels like competition. Like (no matter what he says) he might still have some residual feelings of attraction towards her. It doesn’t help that a 2012 study...
The Romantic Advantage of Seeing the World in Shades of Gray
Want to know whether this guy has what it takes to last in the long run? Ask him about his parents. Or his exes. Or his boss. People who are emotionally charged for him. Then sit back and listen. If he paints a world in which people are either good or bad, saints or...
When You Should (and Shouldn’t) Say Yes to a Second Date
Picture this. You're out with a friend. She's shoe shopping, and you've agreed to lend your fashion advice. You walk into a store with no intention of buying anything for yourself, but the moment you enter it washes over you. The scent of leather. Suddenly, you're...
How to Avoid the Easiest Relationship Mistake
Some breakups are worse than others. When romance goes south over something big, at least it makes sense. But when things tank without obvious explanation, the lack of resolution is particularly upsetting. There’s one really common relationship mistake that almost...
The Most Important Thing for Real Romance
Has a breakup ever caught you totally off guard? Sometimes we see them coming, and sometimes we just don’t. One woman I spoke to recently said, “I was hoping things would work out, but the writing was on the wall. When it ended, I don’t think either of us was...
3 Myths About Single Life That Keep You From Being Happy
Everyone knows it’s hard being single. It’s lonely, you keep putting yourself up for rejection, and it often feels as though all the good men are already taken. But what if you looked at single life from a different angle? That’s where two of the world’s most...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!