Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
The Truth about Your Psychic Link with Your Beloved
Scientists come up with the craziest ideas. Ever wondered if you and your pet have some sort of psychic link? Turns out you do … only it’s not psychic so much...
What’s Your One Non-Negotiable Thing?
Jillian met Matt rock-climbing. It was a match made in heaven. Six months later, they’d moved in together and were on their way to happily ever after. Except,...
One change that can bring your relationship back to life.
When I was seven years old, I found an abandoned kitten in the road. She was missing an eye. And she was so skinny I thought she might die soon. So naturally,...
The Secret Counselors Use To Get Guys To Open Up
Resolving a point of tension in your relationship feels so good. It feels like a weight being lifted off your shoulders. After successfully working through a...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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Romantic Friends
Shortly after meeting each other, Harry turns to Sally and declares, "You realize of course that we could never be friends." "Why not?" Sally asks. Harry continues: "What I'm saying is--and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form--is that men and women can't...
Don’t Miss These “Silent Moment” Opportunities for Intense Connection with Your Man
Hey, It's James. Back with another quick tip for relationship success. Tell me if you can relate to this situation... It was unexpected. But, then again, such moments always are. The conversation reached a natural conclusion. Normally, that would have prompted them to...
The Upside of Relationship Mistakes
Which is better? To avoid mistakes altogether, or to watch for your mistakes, expecting them on a daily basis? The answer may surprise you. Back in the 90's, IBM built a computer called Deep Blue. It played chess. In 1997, it actually beat Garry Kasparov, a world...
Why Men Lose Focus on Relationships (And How To Gently Pull Him Back)
I am no one special. Just a common man with common thoughts. And I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But in one respect, I have succeeded as gloriously as anyone who's ever lived. I've loved another with...
Healthy Relationship Boundaries
Healthy boundaries aren't just good for your relationship. They're essential. In fact, it's nearly impossible to have a mature, healthy relationship without boundaries. The problem is that most of us think of walls when we think of boundaries, and that gives the...
Disappearing Reappearing Love
Today we’re talking about why the feeling of love seems to suddenly disappear during arguments between lovers. But I need to start with a quick story. A king gave his wise men a challenge. “Create a ring that will make me happy when I am sad.” The wise men succeeded....
When Less Is More
Minimalism is a growing trend in the world of fashion. It refers to the idea of whittling your wardrobe down to just a few pieces that can easily be mixed and matched. It's all about putting the essentials front and center and removing the fluff. Really, that's what...
Three Nonromantic Tendencies to Encourage
No, the title isn't a typo. It may seem counter intuitive, but some of the non-romantic things guys do signal that your relationship is actually moving forward. When he does one of the following three things, don't discourage him. What he does: Act protective of you....
The Relationship Dance
Anne Taylor Fleming said, "A long marriage is two people trying to dance a duet and two solos at the same time." Any committed relationship is that way. The first hurdle is simply sharing what you want--your hopes and dreams, your wants and needs. It's no small thing...
What’s He Not Telling You? Learn to Hear What Isn’t Being Said in Your Relations
Peter Drucker, the well-known business guru, once said, "The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said." In other words, you have to know how to read between the lines. That's true in any situation where two people interact, and it's...
When he clams up, do this.
Men sometimes clam up. Try as hard as you want, there are times when it feels impossible to get your guy to talk. You've likely been there. You know something is bothering him. You're sure of it. Maybe you know of a specific issue he's dealing with, or maybe he's just...
The Apology Hack that Gets Better Results than “I’m sorry”
Which of these apologies sounds more powerful coming from your man? "I'm sorry your feelings got hurt." "I'm sorry I hurt your feelings." Have you ever gotten an apology that didn't feel like an apology at all? It didn't really make you feel better, did it? Apologies...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!