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Why He Won’t Say “I’m Sorry”
“Ow! You stepped on my foot!” Caitlin pushed her boyfriend away. “Well, you shouldn’t have been standing behind me!” Drake turned to face Caitlin, who was...
5 Signs He’s Secretly Committed to You
It makes you want to tear your hair out. You have no CLUE whether he wants a future with you. Sure, you have fun together. Sure, you see each other regularly....
3 Tips to Get Through Rough Patches in a Relationship
Happily-ever-after. That’s what we’re all looking for. And so when we get into a relationship, and it’s NOT so happy, we start to wonder… Is this really it?...
3 Signs He Wants a Relationship But is Scared to Commit
Jade came to me with a clear focus for what she wanted to work on. “I want to show my boyfriend that he can trust me,” she said. “He had a really toxic...
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More Commitment Articles
The Golden Rule When Giving Gifts to Guys
You’ve met a sweet guy who you can’t stop thinking about. Everywhere you go, you see things that make you think of him. You even keep seeing things that you think he should own—a gorgeous tie, a funny t-shirt, a new watch… Stop, right there! Don’t get me wrong—guys...
Is it Okay if He’s Friends with His Ex?
So, you start dating a new guy. He’s great. Interesting, attractive, intelligent and fun. All seems well until… You find out he’s still pretty tight with an ex. Sure, there are situations where former partners have to maintain contact. If they share a circle of...
The Truth about Men, Women, and Talking
When men don’t talk enough, women often feel rejected. Is there a fix to this common source of couple’s conflict? First, let’s consider the source of the problem. There’s a common assumption that women talk more than men—much more! But this may not be true. First, who...
When He’s Not Putting Your Relationship First
Do you ever feel like everything else in his life comes first instead of you? His friends. His sports teams. His gym. His phone. It’s not like you expect his undivided attention 24-7. But it sure would be nice if once in a while you heard him say, “No, I can’t do...
Why He’s Not Taking the Hint
Have you ever tried to tell your guy something without actually telling him? Maybe you wanted a specific gift for your birthday, but didn’t want to come right out and say it. Or you were stuck in an awkward social situation, and wanted him to bail you out. Or you...
How to Take Off Your Mask Without Scaring Him Away
Dating is like a masquerade ball. You know the ones where everyone holds those masks on a stick? The identity of the ball-goers is a mystery. No one reveals their true face until they’re ready. Masks tell us a lot. They show us how a person wants to be perceived. And...
Do You Make Him Want to Be a Better Man?
Nearly two decades ago, Jack Nicholson handed generations of men a line that actually worked. “You make me want to be a better man,” he told Helen Hunt in As Good As It Gets. It’s impossible not to respond to a line like that, if spoken honestly. Is there any greater...
Life on the Sidelines—Women, Men, and Spectator Sports
If you’re a woman who loves watching sports, consider yourself lucky. If not, you’re in the majority and probably already know what it feels like to be on the sidelines. Let’s start with a typical worst-case scenario. It’s the six-month anniversary of your first date...
How to Achieve Dating Bliss
There’s a trick to being happy in dating. Actually, this trick works for any relationship at any stage. You can use it with your family, friends, coworkers, boss, and yes, your partner. If you learn how to do this one thing, I can promise you every relationship in...
Tempt Him Like a Bad Girl Without Being Bad
There’s a myth that men are attracted to bad girls. And they kind of are. I say “kind of” because the myth is both true and false. Guys are attracted to the idea of dating a bad girl. That part is absolutely true. Bad girls represent adventure, strength, and...
The Center of His Universe
Jenn felt something was off as soon as she saw Steve’s face. She and Steve had been dating for a few months. And he was usually a pretty chipper guy, but not tonight. “You okay?” she asked. “Yeah.” “Everything fine at work?” “Sure.” “You seem tense,” she said. “I’m...
How to Speed Men Up
Men are so slow. Slow to ask for your number. Slow to ask you out. Slow to get married. eHarmony calls them “snail males,” and for good reason. You could grow Rapunzel hair in the eternity it takes him to make a move. It doesn’t help that you’re sitting in the...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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