Create True Commitment
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
How to Spot Commitment-Minded Guys
When Dora met her college boyfriend, they were instantly inseparable. She knew from the beginning that they’d be together forever. They talked about the...
Bring Back the Spark in Your Relationship
When Nia met Jamal, it was easily the best relationship she’d ever had. They had so much fun together. They had an incredible connection, and they could talk...
Romantic Things You May NOT Want to Say to Your Boyfriend
How would it feel to you if a man said... “I didn’t know what true love was until I met you.” “You are absolutely perfect to me.” “I can’t live without you.”...
3 Relationship Non-Negotiables
When you meet a guy, the very first question you ask yourself is: “Do I like him?” If the answer is yes, the next question is: “Do I have fun with him?” And...
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More Commitment Articles
How to get him to commit?
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. What do you do when a guy you really like has other love interests and is kind of on the fence about a committed relationship with you as a result? This issue came up a lot from those of you who...
How To Get Out of the Friend Zone
This article is part of James Bauer's top four relationship question. The dreaded "friend zone" can be a frustrating trap. No one wants to get caught in it. Allow me to offer a few tips on breaking free of the friend zone to become the object of his desire. Before I...
When You’re Tired of Waiting on His Promises
Has this ever happened to you? He swears he’s in love with you. He wants you to have a future together. He makes a promise to you. But… He’ll delays telling his friends you’re his girlfriend, promising to do so when the timing is better. He’ll find a place for the two...
Should You Settle?
“Should I hold out for something better? Or should I settle for what I’ve got?” I’ve heard that question so many times. Mostly from women who are just starting relationships, but sometimes I hear it from women who are about to walk down the aisle. For those women,...
How Invalidation Can Tear Apart Your Relationship—And What to Do about It
Janelle was telling me about a recent argument with her boyfriend. “I can’t get the back door unlocked.” She laughed at my blank expression. “Look, I know it doesn’t sound like a relationship issue, but it has become one. The lock jams several times each week....
Watch Out for Relationship Burnout
When you want something—a relationship, a job, a goal—you put your all into it. You don’t stop. You keep going until you’ve got what you wanted. That should be good, right? It means you’re focused. Dedicated. An achiever. But it also puts you in danger. Working too...
If You Don’t Need a Man, Can You Still Rely on Him
“I’m never going to look for a man to complete me again,” Janice vowed. “No more relying on men. I declare my own independence.” I smiled warmly at Janice’s enthusiasm. She’d done a lot of work on herself in the past year. She knew she didn’t want any more codependent...
4 “Bad” Qualities to Look for in Guys You Date
So there you are. He just picked you up for the first date. You make small talk as you head to the restaurant. Nothing deep. Just typical getting-to-know-you banter. It's going well . . . and then IT happens. Another car cuts him off. He pumps the brakes, easily...
How to Get More Love in Your Life
We all want more love. Not even getting the perfect relationship can guarantee you’ll have enough. Couples who’ve been together for years don’t always feel loved the way they’d hoped. Getting more love in your life doesn’t start with changing your man, or even getting...
How to Deal with His (Insane) Expectations
Think about the last time you experienced really bad service at a restaurant. Maybe it took forever to get a table. Or the food was cold when it arrived. Or your order was wrong. Whatever the case, THE THING that made the experience negative was an unmet expectation....
How Do You Know If He’s Bad for You?
Every group of friends has one: The girl who doesn’t see the warning signs about the guy she’s with. She’s so happy to be with him that you can’t say anything. You exchange concerned glances with other friends, but you know the rules. It’s not your place to comment....
The Secret to Lasting Happiness
I had the good fortune of meeting a lovely elderly woman who was celebrating her 50th wedding anniversary. Of course I had to ask: “What’s the secret to staying happily married as long as you two?” “Secret?” She laughed. “There’s no secret. A happy marriage is made up...
Discover What Men Secret Want
There is a deep-seated “Gap” in communication that very few women (or men) understand. It’s the #1 reason why men pull away. To be truly irresistible to a man, you MUST understand this gap, and the way feelings of love get confused and entangled in a man’s mind.
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
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