Become His Secret Obsession
Discover the secret to connecting with a man so that he opens up his true self, the part that’s reserved only for you, and builds an unbreakable bond of intimacy that will last a lifetime.
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Is He Just Not That Into You? Or Is It Social Anxiety?
“I don’t get it, James,” Melanie said. “I thought we were really connecting. I was so excited about meeting up. But then it was like... he was a different...
Set Goals in Love
Until recently, Jenna believed she could achieve anything she set her mind to. It worked in her career, after all. She set big goals. She accomplished them....
A Threat to Your Relationship?
“I am so mad, James.” Lauryn threw her purse onto the table and sat down with a sigh. “You know that great guy I’ve been bragging to you about? I think he’s...
5 Things Men Are Insecure About (But Will Never Tell You)
Men act so confident. They act like they know what they're doing. They don't have hang-ups about their body. They think they're a catch (even when they're...
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
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He Says He Loves Me But Doesn’t Act Like It
Has this ever happened to you? You’re with a man who says he loves you. You believe him. But his behavior doesn’t match his words. He says he wants to be with you, but he blows hot and cold. He says he loves you, but he won’t break off contact with his ex. You, on the...
The Honeymoon Is Over – What Now?
Sometimes men break off a new relationship for reasons that don’t seem fair. It doesn’t seem fun anymore. You want more than he can give. (You’re going to groan at this one.) You don’t think he’s perfect anymore. Now, to you, those reasons don’t seem very good. Of...
Believing in Soulmates Can Lead You to Love
In some circles, it’s not fashionable to believe in soulmates. Who would believe there’s just one person out there for you—in this day and age? There’s no such thing as soulmates, the cynics say. Just the right person for right now. But people have believed in...
He’s Mad at Me (And I Don’t Know Why)
He’s mad at you. You just know it. He barely talks to you. He won’t meet your eye. He doesn’t smile. He’s shutting you out, and he won’t tell you why. You’ve spent ages racking your brain. Was it that thing you said? Did you offend him accidentally? What did you do...
When to Say I Love You
You’ve been dating a guy for a few months when he shows up at your door with a small silver bag. After kissing you hello, he hands it to you and closely watches your face. You reach into the bag and find a slim black box nestled in the tissue paper. You open it... And...
Can Asking Questions Make Him Fall in Love?
Ever heard of the 36 questions that make people fall in love? These questions took the internet by storm in 2015, but most people don’t know much about them. Do they really work? If so, how? Here’s the surprising science behind the questions… And how you can steal the...
He Says He Doesn’t Want a Relationship
You love him. You’d do anything for him. He knows that. So why is he telling you that he doesn’t want a relationship? It’s not the right time, he’s not in the right space, he can’t commit to anyone right now. Lots of excuses, but nothing that satisfies you. You know...
Why He Keeps Coming Back But Won’t Commit
“It’s not you. It’s me.” “I’m worried I’m going to hurt you.” “You deserve someone better than me.” “I can’t give you what you need.” If you’ve been on the receiving end of those excuses, you know just how frustrating they are. Doesn’t he get it? You WANT to be with...
Relationship Crisis? Beware of the Danger Zone
You’re panicking. If you don’t fix this, you’re going to lose him. He’s acting like a stranger. You’re still communicating, but you can feel the coldness. With every day that passes, you become more and more anxious. You’re no longer sleeping. You can barely keep your...
Why Do Guys Come On Strong Then Pull Away?
When Alyssa came into my office, she wasn’t the same woman I’d seen the week before. Her blond hair was limp and unwashed. She wasn’t wearing makeup. Her shoulders were slumped. “So, how’d your date go last week?” I asked. I knew she’d been looking forward to it. “It...
Do Guys Move Too Fast? Slow It Down
Zoey opened up her online dating app to see the message: “Send pics.” She was mystified. What ever happened to hello? She took a look at the man who was messaging her. He seemed decent. So she wrote back to him: “If you look at my profile, you’ll see my pics.” She was...
He’s Not an A+ Boyfriend? Try This…
If you have a guy in your life right now, what grade would you give him? Is he an A+ boyfriend? Or maybe a B+… Or even a C? Think about the reasons you assigned him this grade. Maybe you gave him an A+ because he goes above and beyond for you. He takes you to the...
I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.
I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.
I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!!
14 Days to Becoming Irresistible
There’s a secret to attracting men who love you for you. Most women don’t get this for one simple reason. Enter your email to discover the truth in our FREE 14 Days to Becoming Irresistible email series.