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He’s Hung Up on His Ex

He’s Hung Up on His Ex

Nina thought it was going great. They had long, intense conversations. They were great at making each other laugh. And the chemistry? Suffice to say, she...

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Yes, You Still Need Boundaries in Love

Yes, You Still Need Boundaries in Love

When you meet a wonderful person and fall in love, it feels like fireworks bursting in the sky. It feels like you’ve opened the door to your soul and let someone in. It feels like you’re not alone anymore. Two have become one. You don’t want to be apart from him for...

Can He Grow Old with You?

Can He Grow Old with You?

If you want a long-term relationship, you look for a man who says he wants one, too. If you want to get married someday, you look for a man who says he wants to get married someday, too. But what a man says isn’t necessarily what he does. You can find yourself with a...

He Doesn’t Value You? The ONLY Way He’ll Change

He Doesn’t Value You? The ONLY Way He’ll Change

Imagine you’re playing a board game with this really cute, amazing guy. You can tell he really likes you, too. Eventually, you notice that every time you play this game with him, you end up winning. So you start paying closer attention to how he’s playing… And, sure...

How To Override Relationship Negativity

How To Override Relationship Negativity

Panic. That’s what Rachel felt. She just knew that Daniel was losing interest. He was still going out with the guys one night a week. He hadn’t talked to her about summer plans. He barely made an effort for Valentine’s Day. Surely, if he was really into her, he’d be...

3 Ways to Stop Settling

3 Ways to Stop Settling

“How do I know there’s not someone else out there for me?” Amanda asked. “What if I end up with the wrong person because I didn’t hold out for someone better?” I’ve heard so many women ask some version of Amanda’s question. (I’ve heard men ask this question, too.) How...

No Man Could Ever Fall For Me

No Man Could Ever Fall For Me

Linda was tired. She was in her mid-fifties and didn’t look like she used to. Her face, her hair, her twenty pounds of extra weight… made her wonder what any man would see in her. She came to me for help recovering from heartbreak after she’d met a man online. She...

A Guy’s Secret Fear

A Guy’s Secret Fear

I’m going to share a rather big secret. It’s one of those secrets men aren’t going to tell you. It’s TOO personal. It gets at the core of what makes us vulnerable. This secret also gets at the reason why so many men abandon otherwise good relationships. It triggers...

Text with Confidence

Text with Confidence

You stare at your phone… And a cold feeling settles into your gut. You re-read his text again. Is he mad at you for something? Is this supposed to be funny? Is he saying it’s over? As your thumbs hover over the keypad, your mind remains stubbornly blank. You have to...

His Texts Are So Confusing!

His Texts Are So Confusing!

You pick up your phone and see a text from a guy you really liked who ghosted you last year. Is it an apology? Nope. Is it an explanation? Nope. It’s a “hey” with a string of friendly emojis. What’s that supposed to mean? You pick up your phone and see a text from a...

Guys Want You to Tease Them

Guys Want You to Tease Them

When you go out on a date with someone new, what is your goal? To impress him. To get to know him. To ramp up the heat. To get playful. Now, we all hope that our date will be impressed by us. We all hope we’ll get to know our date better. We all hope that our date...

Make Better Decisions in Love

Make Better Decisions in Love

Do you make good decisions in love? Let’s find out! Question #1: You like a guy at work. Despite your best efforts to get him to ask you out, it’s clear that it’s up to you if you want anything to happen. There’s a 5% chance that he’s the love of your life. There’s a...

Are You Accidentally Telling Him It’s Casual?

Are You Accidentally Telling Him It’s Casual?

Naleda was a vibrant 22-year-old who oozed confidence. She made direct eye contact and shook my hand firmly. As she settled into a chair, I asked her why she’d come to see me. She froze. I could see her confidence drain away. She took a deep breath and confessed, “I...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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