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Appeal to His Inner Caveman

Appeal to His Inner Caveman

You spend so much time sifting through online dating profiles. You spend so much time exchanging messages, trying to be flirtatious, hoping it will go...

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The Best Way to Move on After a Breakup

The Best Way to Move on After a Breakup

I’m going to start by apologizing. I’m asking you to think about something you probably don’t want to think about. Breaking up. Breakups are no fun. Even if you were the one to pull the plug on the relationship, it sucks to go from being a couple to being alone. And...

How to Talk Politics with your Partner – (Even if You Disagree!)

How to Talk Politics with your Partner – (Even if You Disagree!)

You know it as one of the most basic rules of etiquette. Don’t talk politics in mixed company. It’s the forbidden topic, right? Don’t talk about it at the dinner table. Don’t talk about it at work. Don’t talk about it in unfamiliar company. But can you bring it up on...

What to do When He Makes You Mad

What to do When He Makes You Mad

Maybe you can relate to Marcy’s story. She was at her wits end. It had been a pretty cruddy day. She slept late that morning. Work had been...well, work. Certainly not a vacation. She missed her spin class that afternoon. And to top it off, Peter cancelled their...

Get Him to Like You More by Letting Him “Win” You Over

Get Him to Like You More by Letting Him “Win” You Over

A guy purposefully ignores a woman who’s interested in him. You’ve seen this in romantic movies before, right? Doing this drives her crazy. Her desire increases. She has to find a way to win his heart. It causes her to pay a lot more attention to him. It causes her to...

Beginners Guide to Setting Boundaries with Texting

Beginners Guide to Setting Boundaries with Texting

Phone calls are out. And texting is in. We text friends. We text family members. We text work colleagues. In fact, many of us prefer texting to other forms of communication. But some people take it too far. They text constantly. Or about things that shouldn’t be in...

The Golden Rule When Giving Gifts to Guys

The Golden Rule When Giving Gifts to Guys

You’ve met a sweet guy who you can’t stop thinking about. Everywhere you go, you see things that make you think of him. You even keep seeing things that you think he should own—a gorgeous tie, a funny t-shirt, a new watch… Stop, right there! Don’t get me wrong—guys...

Use the ‘Elevator Pitch’ to Enhance Your Charismatic Charm

Use the ‘Elevator Pitch’ to Enhance Your Charismatic Charm

Ever heard of the “elevator pitch”? Here’s how it works. Business people and creative types (writers, inventors, consultants) run into someone important. Literally in an elevator. They need to tell them about their business. Or share the basic idea of their novel....

Guys, humor, and your self-esteem

Guys, humor, and your self-esteem

Imagine you’re at a party. You’re visiting with a small group of people. Both men and women. Someone makes the comment that there are a lot of things they look for in a partner, but one of them is a good sense of humor. Who nods in agreement? The men? The women? Both?...

Is it Okay if He’s Friends with His Ex?

Is it Okay if He’s Friends with His Ex?

So, you start dating a new guy. He’s great. Interesting, attractive, intelligent and fun. All seems well until… You find out he’s still pretty tight with an ex. Sure, there are situations where former partners have to maintain contact. If they share a circle of...

The Truth about Men, Women, and Talking

The Truth about Men, Women, and Talking

When men don’t talk enough, women often feel rejected. Is there a fix to this common source of couple’s conflict? First, let’s consider the source of the problem. There’s a common assumption that women talk more than men—much more! But this may not be true. First, who...

When He’s Not Putting Your Relationship First

When He’s Not Putting Your Relationship First

Do you ever feel like everything else in his life comes first instead of you? His friends. His sports teams. His gym. His phone. It’s not like you expect his undivided attention 24-7. But it sure would be nice if once in a while you heard him say, “No, I can’t do...

Stop Getting Hurt by Untrustworthy Men

Stop Getting Hurt by Untrustworthy Men

One of our biggest fears is giving our love to someone who betrays our trust. It’s probably already happened to you. It happens to most of us over the course of a lifetime. For some, the lesson is etched in memory. They never fully trust anyone again, not like they...

I have read the entire program. Last night I decided I had nothing to lose and texted him the 12-word magic text. He replied this morning apologizing for missing my text last night. I replied using “Rachel’s” template. It was almost the exact word for word exchange.

I was completely stunned! We finally connected this evening and talked for 40 minutes on the phone. He didn’t declare his love for me but we haven’t spoken since the night we broke up in March! He sounded relaxed and happy. I have no idea what will happen from here but it’s definitely a “foot in the door”.

I’m truly grateful for your program. It makes so much sense! Thank you!! 

Cathy

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